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BigSBguy -> Glory Hole (4/7/2008 4:12:19 PM)

I am taking my slut to her first glory hole this week.  Does anyone have any suggestions for training and making her comfortable?  Any tips or ideas?



AquaticSub -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 4:29:10 PM)

Tip 1: Posting the same thing in different forums gets your thread pulled so if anyone left anything useful, you'll never know.

Tip 2: Have you personally researched the risks of getting various STIs via blowjobs and are you committed to providing whatever medical treatment may be required?



kiwisub12 -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 5:19:50 PM)

Yes - don't take her!



pinkwind -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 5:55:45 PM)

Apart from the obvious possibility of catching something nasty, does this poor slut actually want to do this for herself, never mind for you?

Just that something like this can be very traumatic for some, and it is not until it's too late that most find out they would rather not be there. That combined with you asking for tips and advice says you yourself know very little, and are just getting off on the fantasy of the poor girl trapped in a glory hole, red flag territory.

First tip, let her chose to do it or not, and no negativity if she chooses not to.

Second tip, make sure her health isn't compromised, or yours for that matter.

Third tip, let her read this thread and make her own mind up.




MladyHathor -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 6:08:47 PM)

nope, I am sure there will be more than enough chest beating to go around.



snowgirlsub -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 6:27:05 PM)

ummmm...what is a glory hole?



katie978 -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 6:48:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: snowgirlsub

ummmm...what is a glory hole?


   A hole drilled into a wall, typically at a shady sex store or a shadier bar, where people meet and have anonymous sex through it.

   In my opinion, a pretty terrible idea. But then, perhaps your girl has no fear of STDs....for me, it'd be hard to forget that HIV CAN be spread by oral. If you've gotta do the glory hole thing, please use condoms and make sure you're there to knock some sense into perhaps over-amorous suitors.



Leatherist -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 6:51:41 PM)

Give her the last rites-cuz she may get aids?



BigSBguy -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 7:07:13 PM)

We have also thought about her just giving guys hand jobs......... she has agreed to get atleast 5 guys off. she will have clothes pins on her lips, and they will be removed after each guy has finished.



TwistedLeather -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 7:34:35 PM)

my curiosity is making me ask this... but who came up with the whole "glory hole" thing to begin with? People who already have STD's so they don't care? Doesn't seem to fit into the whole Safe, Sane, and Consensual thing to me. [sm=cactus.gif]



Luciferica -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 7:39:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BigSBguy

We have also thought about her just giving guys hand jobs......... she has agreed to get atleast 5 guys off. she will have clothes pins on her lips, and they will be removed after each guy has finished.
It seems damn stupid...your putting her safety at risk, you aren't worried about her?!...Would you let her have sex with the guy standing next to you at a public urineal? Thats the same thing?!



DragonLadysFire -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 7:40:51 PM)

Yes, don't.



Leatherist -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 7:41:40 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BigSBguy

We have also thought about her just giving guys hand jobs......... she has agreed to get atleast 5 guys off. she will have clothes pins on her lips, and they will be removed after each guy has finished.


Is this your way of being "the catcher" vicariously?

Why not just take it up the ass yourself?



domahpet -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 7:54:15 PM)

[sm=danger.gif]



akisha -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 8:02:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: katie978

quote:

ORIGINAL: snowgirlsub

ummmm...what is a glory hole?


  A hole drilled into a wall, typically at a shady sex store or a shadier bar, where people meet and have anonymous sex through it.

  In my opinion, a pretty terrible idea. But then, perhaps your girl has no fear of STDs....for me, it'd be hard to forget that HIV CAN be spread by oral. If you've gotta do the glory hole thing, please use condoms and make sure you're there to knock some sense into perhaps over-amorous suitors.


I'm glad snow asked first hehe and thank you katie for the answer

and umm ok  [sm=eeew.gif] !!!!!!!!!!!

I realize it's a "your kink is not my kink" kind of thing, but damn, this just screams, dangerous, unthought out and totally non hygenic and asking for trouble.  Just my thoughts anyway. [sm=danger.gif]



Drummerpunk7 -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 8:23:54 PM)

There are safe ways to simulate a glory hole scenario.

For example, instead of it being 5 random guys, it can be 5 guys you know or she knows, and who are clean. She doesn't need to know who's who behind the hole. This will dramatically reduce the chance of an STI. Are you part of a local BDSM community? Perhaps you can find men there who are willing to help you two with this scene.

Secondly, ask yourself why you want to experience this scenario. Is it because you want to see her get other men off? Do you just want the third person view? What is the reason behind it? There are more than one ways to act out a fantasy.



midgetmafiosa -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 8:28:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Drummerpunk7

There are safe ways to simulate a glory hole scenario.

For example, instead of it being 5 random guys, it can be 5 guys you know or she knows, and who are clean. She doesn't need to know who's who behind the hole. This will dramatically reduce the chance of an STI. Are you part of a local BDSM community? Perhaps you can find men there who are willing to help you two with this scene.

Secondly, ask yourself why you want to experience this scenario. Is it because you want to see her get other men off? Do you just want the third person view? What is the reason behind it? There are more than one ways to act out a fantasy.


Finally, a reasonable alternative here. He's cute, too. Hmm...I have some perving of my own to do.



dawntreader -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 8:28:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: snowgirlsub

ummmm...what is a glory hole?

i am glad you asked this - i had no clue either!



Daddyslilpookie -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 8:30:21 PM)

Two words "Don't and "Go" [sm=noway.gif]



catize -> RE: Glory Hole (4/7/2008 8:30:23 PM)

quote:

  Does anyone have any suggestions for training and making her comfortable?  


What about educating yourself about STDs, the mode of transmission, the effects of each disease physically as well as emotionally, the nasty treatments that don’t cure, the Health Dept. statistics on what diseases are prevalent in your area, and how condoms may reduce but do not eliminate the risk.  Then share that info with her to see if she still consents.
 Then, if you are not concerned for her safety, you might get a wee bit more selfish and worry about catching something from her.




quote:

  Any tips or ideas?


Yeah, stay home and act it out as a fantasy. 



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