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RE: Glory Hole - 4/11/2008 2:28:06 PM   
IvyMorgan


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ORIGINAL: vield

"The whole glory hole thing" was probably invented many times in many places around the world. Ways to touch others through holes or gaps in stall walls in bathrooms and in movie booths in porn shops have been around for a very long time, as have ways to signal others that you may share an interest.


Didn't Shakespeare have one in Midsummer Night's Dream?

Now don't you feel *extra-specially* sorry for the kid playing the hole?

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/11/2008 5:06:47 PM   
Daddysredhead


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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Okay a LOT of people have made jokes and judged but I wanna drop some REAL words of advice here.

MAKE SURE YOU REALLY WANT THIS!!!!!

I have an Extreme Kink Fantasy, I acted on it ONCE! I had a girl do something I thought I would find hot and erotic and after she did I saw her differently. I didn't see the girl who just did this big ordeal just for me I saw the Girl who did *THAT* and well not only did the lackluster fade but My opinion of her did as well.

Sharing a partner is one thing but watching your partner just suck or fuck random guys can paint a picture of your partner you may not be able to shake.

Not to mention if god forbid she DID get an STD would you still be with her and accept that this was the effect of an act you caused to happen?

Look at all the angles before going through with this.

There is more at stake then just a kinky night here.

Steel


Steel,

I just wanted to thank you for posting such an honest, heartfelt response to something which has garnered such a vast array of answers, some goofy and some not.  I was really impressed by your sincerity.  Thank you again.

~ DRH

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/11/2008 5:17:54 PM   
Daddysredhead


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ORIGINAL: snugglepet

i would suggest you educate yourself and her, make sure that you both understand truly the implications of a "glory hole" and the emotions that may come along with that.  Fantasizing about being a slut and actually being made one, are two very different things and carry with them a lot of mental and emotional baggage.  It can be a lot for someone who has never done it before.  That is the least of which is concerning STI's and other nasty things that she may catch.  My suggestion do not do it unless or until you are both educated, and understand that this is something that may serve to drive a wedge between you.  Take care of her.


Very smart, snugglepet.  Daddy and I talk about the differences between fantasy and reality all the time.  Some people think making a "dream" a reality is all glitter, confetti, and unicorns when it can really open up a can of worms that need not ever be touched.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/11/2008 6:37:41 PM   
natasha66


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Status: offline 		The whole idea is repulsive to me, but to each his/her own......

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/13/2008 1:41:35 PM   
DDraigeuraid


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As a sidenote and slight thread jack, your book "Loving Dominant" has helped me tremendously, and I'm glad to see that you are part of the CM community. I know that I can learn alot from you. Enough brown nosing.


I knew I had heard that name before.  Aloha John.  I've heard about your book for many years, never found a copy.  Do you have it at your website?
Dragon

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/13/2008 4:12:25 PM   
Daddysredhead


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ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

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ORIGINAL: lubegirl

ooh it does sound dangerous, My MASTER has complete control of me and i trust him completely if HE were to do something like this to me, i think he would plan it with several men HE already knows..or a bdsm party where other DOMS are respectful to HIM and themselves and wear protection before they abuse me sexually,
please playsafe!
lubegirl


Here's one scenario from the Boston area where just such a scene worked out.  http://www.lovingdominant.org/Gangbang.html

The third edition of Loving Dominant is in bookstores now


Yummy! 

Daddy and I have talked about doing something like this, as it was described by Lubegirl.  It's a fantasy at this point, but if it were ever a reality, that's the way it would go down as that's the way He did it for a past sub's request for a gangbang.  It went very well for her, lots of communication before and after, and lots of protective oversight by Him during.

~ DRH

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/14/2008 4:56:08 AM   
liam1972


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Status: offline 		good god drummerpunk!!   what are you?, gay?

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/14/2008 1:49:47 PM   
Drummerpunk7


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ORIGINAL: liam1972

good god drummerpunk!!   what are you?, gay?


you've had that account 3 years and waited to post on it JUST to insult me? I'm truly honored.

I'm confused as to what I said qualified me as gay, and regardless of my own opinion, why you give it such negative connotation. I'm gay for thinking up an alternative to what could be a very risky scene?

Alas, I could really care less about your opinion of me. The only opinion that matters to me, is my wifes, and that one is quite good these days. Just curious as to what your comment is based on.

EDIT: ahh, upon perving your profile, I realize you are an alt profile of some idiot from chat last night. How insanely childish...


< Message edited by Drummerpunk7 -- 4/14/2008 1:51:12 PM >

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/14/2008 2:38:29 PM   
JohnWarren


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ORIGINAL: DDraigeuraid

quote:

As a sidenote and slight thread jack, your book "Loving Dominant" has helped me tremendously, and I'm glad to see that you are part of the CM community. I know that I can learn alot from you. Enough brown nosing.


I knew I had heard that name before.  Aloha John.  I've heard about your book for many years, never found a copy.  Do you have it at your website?
Dragon


I'm retired so the website is just informational.  However, most large bookstores have or can order my books.  They are also on amazon.com and the websites of Barnes and Nobel and Borders.  The publisher's site is www.greenerypress.com

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/14/2008 2:49:14 PM   
Drummerpunk7


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Status: offline 		I got my copy at Barnes and Noble. Seems to be regularly stocked there.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/14/2008 5:25:27 PM   
GentleMistress5


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Gentle Mistress

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/14/2008 8:36:54 PM   
lostgirl83


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Status: offline 		Drummerpunk7 actually had the best idea in my opinion...

There are plenty of ways to act out this fantasy in a safe *sane* manner.... I had actually found a porn shop about 45 mins away from me that had glory holes (although that place truly is skanky from what I hear) The thought of having one or multiple unknown hard cocks to play with turned me on quite a bit and I can see how the idea would be pleasing for a Dom... however the thought of the countless diseases I might possibly catch turned me off.

I agree the best way to do it is to make the 5 guys men that you have hand selected and know are clean (or you yourself join in) so that you minimize risk to her health. She doesn't have to know you selected them, just that she is safe and can trust your judgement.


Making your own glory hole and inviting friends over does seem like a good alternative...

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/17/2008 8:40:38 AM   
mypain56


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Status: offline 		ummm,very deep topic here????      i myself heard about the glory holes months ago, and being a very courious individual i went on a glory hole website and believe it or not it turned me on. But not because the girls was sucking a multitude of men without protection that was a redflag for me.... But with that said i do now have a fantasy of my Daddy taking me there and setting me in a booth naked and exposed to the elements, but knowing He is on the other side of the wall so i would only be serving Him and Him only i trust Him enough that He would not put someone else up to putting there cock in a hole for me to service..He would wear two condoms and have His cock ring on... Being used and humiliated and degraded does something for me but only from my Daddy...... With that said does that help your confusion...... Melly         

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