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ORIGINAL: WickednU
We're talking most of my adult life if you want "long enough" in terms of years.

Then why are you asking here on CM how to be a master?

Somewhere along that road where I lost interest in the players, AFF people dropped to a caste lower than swamp water.
What goes around comes around. You are expressing an arrogance beyond belief.

I know what I want.
Yes but you obviously don't give a damn about her, or anyone else it appears.

A submissive wandering around work with marks on her from her Dom and so sore between her legs that she cringes when she pees is a good thing in my book. It is a good reminder.
A good reminder of what? And you are PROUD of leaving her to wander around?



So I will release her. Maybe that makes me cold because the feelings are growing.
Yes it is and that is all it is. You are heartless by your own admission.

The question I have then is simple and applies to both sides of this conversation. As a submissive, how much do you want to know when release comes?
As soon as possible from a d type such as you.

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ORIGINAL: WickednU


but I will say that once you start looking, msn's live search of cached pages can reveal a lot, and in this case did. That's how I knew the blank profile was hers, because, well it wasn't always. It took all of about 10 minutes to work it out. The question isn't whether or not to tell her why, but how much to explain when the basis of what you've spent six months trying to teach her, and showing her is something of a broken foundation.

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ORIGINAL: sabirah

The fact that you stalk her, searching out her past, and search her out online to find out if she is doing anything wrong is a sign of insecurity. perhaps that was your way to self -sabotoge the relationship. You wanted to find some dirt on her and if you look long enough or hard enough, it can be found. 

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

You joined Collarme today, just so you could post this? 

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ORIGINAL: WickednU

Telling her why isn't the point. That I will do. The first conclusion wasn't exactly negative, but I will say that once you start looking, msn's live search of cached pages can reveal a lot, and in this case did. That's how I knew the blank profile was hers, because, well it wasn't always. It took all of about 10 minutes to work it out. The question isn't whether or not to tell her why, but how much to explain when the basis of what you've spent six months trying to teach her, and showing her is something of a broken foundation. I can and will listen to the reasons why, but what I won't do is pick it apart by what 10 minutes of looking showed me. If there's one thing worse than catching someone, it's working them through the process. The whole prospect is distatesful. Granted, things may have changed since the original posting. Who knows when the silence is there to begin with? And how much of yourself are you going to keep investing when the silence continues? It has nothing to do with back-handed passive-agression lanie. It has to do with the fact that when I sit down and talk to her about it, and tell her why, I'm not going to go through what it really means when I can see what it really meant. If that makes sense. Shrug.