MissIsis -> RE: Can you still have anal sex if you have hemorrhoids? (4/9/2008 3:26:50 AM)
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You can. I am only speaking for myself here, but it can be extremely painful & not in a good way. It can be enjoyable, but I have found it takes lots & lots of preparation, lube, & foreplay. Starting with plugs & slowly building up size to a penis beforehand helps. Having him start by slowly working in a finger & building to more, helps as well. This, at least for me is something many men think they can take time with the first time, & later think it isn't necessary because they already proved once it can be done & that it can be enjoyable. There are men out there that enjoy just being able to slam into a woman, & are stunned when they realize she didn't enjoy it, & he may have turned her off to ever enjoying it again. Be careful. I have known more than a few dominant type men who thought anal was a great form of punishment. Personally, I think it is a great way for those dominants to be left wondering what happened to their sweet little submissive, but that's me. I hope you are able to find someone to take the time to take you there whenever they have the urge, & that will help you enjoy every moment. It can be extra work & extra effort for both of you, but I believe the benefits of being able to enjoy it, will make it well worth the added trouble.
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