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20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:18:27 AM   
MissSepphora1


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Status: offline 		I just want to find someone to scene with for now.
So why do subs need to ask 20 question about my personal life in order to assertain if they want to scene with me.
I mean, ask 20 questions about my interests in the scene is fine.  But hell I've been grilled less in job interviews.
I don't want to marry you, I just want to have a little physical interaction.  IS THAT SO WRONG!?!?!
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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:24:27 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		Personally, when I scene with someone, it's going to be someone that I LIKE. In order to find out if I'm going to like them, I'm going to want to discover as much about the person they are as I can. 

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:27:11 AM   
bitchtamer


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Status: offline 		Try putting yourself in a submissives mind - they are handing their safety over to you whilst you 'scene' with them.  Personally I wouldn't want to 'scene' with someone who cared so little about their own personal safety and didn't bother to ask any questions about my personal life/views/interests etc

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:27:17 AM   
ChainedExistence


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Status: offline 		I have to say I am with Greedy Top, I can't imagine being that intimate with someone I don't know at all.

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:27:47 AM   
colouredin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Personally, when I scene with someone, it's going to be someone that I LIKE. In order to find out if I'm going to like them, I'm going to want to discover as much about the person they are as I can. 


Quite, i get very little out of simply playing with someone, also as has been said recently on other threads many play activities can be risky it would be fucking stupid of me to go into without knowing someone, I know that from experiance, I dont want to end up being put off something.


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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:28:48 AM   
MissSepphora1


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Status: offline 		okay, but i've been asked questions like, where do you work?

do i want someone i've just met online knowing where i work?

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:32:06 AM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		Whats wrong with that? Surely its jsut a case of working out who the person is, and of course if they are not lying, also thats the kind of question that comes up in general conversation. What do you want? Someone to say ohh i like your pics ill meet ya tommorow? You may be better off going to events and munches and hoping to have spontanious play, I dont personally ever arrange play just not my thing. I fundementally am not looking for a play based relationship, If i was i wouldnt need the internet to get it.

quote:


do i want someone i've just met online knowing where i work?


Does someone want to agree to play with someone they just met online

< Message edited by colouredin -- 4/11/2008 4:33:38 AM >

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:33:59 AM   
MissSepphora1


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Status: offline 		no, but i don't want someone i casually know online knowing where i work, either.  how do i know they are not a stalker.

and no, i do not meet people at my home.

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:36:20 AM   
atursvcMaam


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Status: offline 		    Do they still put missing persons faces on milk cartons?  of the "missing persons" headlines one sees, how many go unreported?
    how does one know that You are who You say You are without asking questions?
    do You know the most emoralizing way to get a man out of his clothes?
    How about a woman?
    Is there a difference?
    Why do(n't) You know that?
    What was Your name again?
    You get by on only 20 questions?
     How fortunate can You be?

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:37:08 AM   
MladyHathor


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Status: offline 		Maybe they want to make sure that the leg in the pic isnt a husband or an unplanned third------
 
 
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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:37:17 AM   
MissSepphora1


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Status: offline 		and to put it bluntly, what does it matter to the submissive if i have children or not?
does having children affect my ability to be a dominant?
just asking here?

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:38:32 AM   
atursvcMaam


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Status: offline 		how do they know whether You are a stalker?
Do You really have a face?, or just amazingly sparkling eyes?

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:38:39 AM   
MissSepphora1


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Status: offline 		I only meet at hotels.
I have a hard time believing i could sneak someone out of one.
Or someone could sneak me out.

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:40:03 AM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		Personally I like to know people generally, I wouldnt be able to stick to kink related questions. If I were meeting someone in the way you suggest I would want phone number, home address that along with details of where and when I was meeting them would be handed in a sealed envelope to a friend. I have never met anyone in that way so I have never done it. 

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:40:52 AM   
MissSepphora1


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Status: offline 		yes, i have a face.  and will show a webcam to prove i'm female.

quote:

ORIGINAL: atursvcMaam

how do they know whether You are a stalker?
Do You really have a face?, or just amazingly sparkling eyes?

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:40:55 AM   
RCdc


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Status: offline 		Yes it matters to some people.  Children indicate a hell of a lot of back ground info on the kind of person you may be.
 
My question - Are we talking one night stands?  Play dates?  Non relationship fucks?  or something more regular and perm?
 
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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:42:07 AM   
MissSepphora1


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Status: offline 		I did indicate play dates in my first post.

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:43:41 AM   
RCdc


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Status: offline 		Yes you did - but play dates repeated or one offs?  That is what I am trying to centre on.  Makes a difference in my answer.
 
the.dark.

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:44:33 AM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		Your profile doesnt indicate that, I mean personally I dont like loads of questions because I spend loads of time writing my blog and updating my profile, it gives a good overview of the basic facts about me so I dont need to be asked as much. 

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 4:46:46 AM   
MladyHathor


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

I only meet at hotels.
I have a hard time believing i could sneak someone out of one.
Or someone could sneak me out.


Submissives have every right to ask anything they please and you have every right to respond or not---however, your supply or lack of submssives will be very reflective of those responses.
 
And in case you don't listen to the news, people lie about who they are everyday---if it was someone saying casual physical play at a hotel only---you can be damn certain I'd be asking more than 20!

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