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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 4:02:49 PM

HerLord

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GreedyTop... New pic. nice.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 4:05:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

I know this won't be a super LONG thread but I am curious as to why YOU personally enjoy the Collar Chat Forums? What is the draw for you?

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The humor, intelligence, the vast array of topics to talk about, and some wonderful people are what keep me here.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 4:05:27 PM

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Domi... Glad to know I aint the only one enjoying the breakfast buffet.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 4:06:23 PM

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Boredom
For the giggles

There are some people I read more than others. Usually depends on if I've read something from them before and found it interesting. I tend to not always read things in order, so it's a bit chaotic, but all the more fun for it.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 4:06:35 PM

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The good information and perspectives are valuable and varied..
The rotten information is amusing at times

There are friendly people to be found
and the crazy ones just make me feel sane.

I like LordandMasters avatar
and Domiguy cracks me up.

For the commonalities as well as the differences..
It's fun to know more about people..
and I'm a friendly sort.. perhaps a little shy at first..but friendly.

And I'm way the heck over here ( in Ga ) and Tyson is in Az : ( and this medium is one of the ways we stay connected. He likes it when I participate and keep my motor running.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 4:17:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: domiguy
All I need is just one more of you A-holes to rattle my mother fucking cage and Mod11 has assured me that she will send me back to my special place. How I miss my home.

Domi... surely there is enough potential on the "miscarriage/abortion as art" thread to send you back to your special place.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 4:32:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: HerLord

GreedyTop... New pic. nice.

Thanks, HL :)

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 4:47:25 PM

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I have two reasons for coming to the boards, firstly it was to keep in touch with issues and thoughts relating to being of this lifestyle, I had moved to a rural area and this was the only way to keep BDSM in my life as there are so few people locally who live it. The second reason is I was injured at work quite a few months ago and this helps to pass the time. My medication makes my concentration span short, I rarely watch tv and it is difficult to read a book, these forums are like a book of short stories lol.

I do get quite disturbed from time to time when I read some bizzare messages either from people who seem too simple to those who seem like a bully, but it takes all types I guess.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 4:51:54 PM

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The main reason is because reading/posting to the boards is what I do to relax. I am highy introverted, so this medium appeals to me and helps me re-charge. He plays a Nintendo game to relax; Alandra reads books and I read and post to the boards.

Another reason is because things posted here provide some interesting conversations between the three of us. Posting my own opinions for others to read is not the primary motivation for why I post. Posting sometimes helps me clarify my own thoughts on a subject and if others get something from it then it is just icing on the cake.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 6:35:15 PM

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Hello Steel. I haven't read the other replies yet. I might edit this post once I have.
Let Me start with saying congratulations on your 1,000 post. Odd, in a way, isn't it? To be so attentive to these kinds of forums.

For My own thoughts, there is a reaon that we keep coming back here. Not the same for everyone, obviously. Sometimes it is boredom, sometimes advice, sometimes in the hopes of establishing those self definitions that you detest so much. Who is to judge? They are merely pixels on a screen, but to many, they are life and breath.

Why do I keep coming back Myself? Deep down, I feel the discussion is good for Me. Yes, even when there is the upteenth number of post of the most simplest of matters. It is My own attempt to see this BDSM world with a newcomer's eyes. For the most part, I fail miserably, but every now and again, there is something worthwhile.

Still, Steel, we do not always agree. In fact, at times you tick Me off. Yet, I admire your courage of convictions. I look forward to more challenging conversations. I think the future is interesting.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 6:46:58 PM

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Steel,
i don't have a good reason for why i continue to come here, so i thought it might be best to not make up a bad one... Seriously, i've asked myself recently in light of the dynamics (or lack there of) in my current relationship if it's even appropriate for me to be here...and then i decided ah, fuck em!! :D
i read the boards because i appreciate the honesty, transparency, and insightfulness with which some people post. Other people just crack me the fuck up....And still others, always manage to educate me.
Glad You are here,
kali

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 6:51:43 PM

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Well...I enjoy coming here usually..because Ive met alot of great people here.....come to know a few in detail....
it does help with boredom at times, but it is insightful, funny, irritating...have to take it all together......It is what it is really......not everything in life is great...and its seen here too....the ups, downs, ins and outs of life are portrayed by everyone in there own lives....its nice sometimes, its heartfelt, its annoying, its just about every word you can think of ....its all here...its home sometimes........home

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 6:55:53 PM

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Why do i keep coming back? I like to f*ck with people.....hahahahaha.....JK. I have to say that many of the people i find here are highly intellegent, and get me thinking. So, mental stimulation (or mentally challenged????? LOL). I read the posts i am interested in, the others......i just pass by.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 7:56:06 PM

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It amuses me.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 8:28:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: charmdpetKeira

I come here for a few different reasons, mostly to learn about myself from watching others.

If I can help someone out with my, idealistic outlier perspective; it’s a bonus.
(emphasis added)
k

pet,

I am successfully corrupting you even though you live clear across the country?
I am delighted. Just think of what I could do if I could get my hands on you.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 9:05:47 PM

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I don't think I have laughed that hard in a very long time. Damn, that was funny. Thank you.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 9:53:21 PM

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I keep coming back for the strong possibility of seeing a train wreck. I just love em.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 10:06:52 PM

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It's relaxing to come here. I'm often at my computer, writing, and toggling over to read or post is a great short distraction while I process thoughts in my mind behind the scenes. While here, I have enjoyed some really insightful posts which have made me think about my own situation. I've met some awesome people from here and have established some good relationships as a result. I love reading what others have to say about not only their own experiences but the wisdom they impart to the rest of us. And of course, being who I am, I always like to share my opinion as well.

I'm not so keen on some of the bully and mockery posts but people are who they are so I try to mostly focus my energy on the positive.

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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 10:11:17 PM

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hmm....like....
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10:00 am monday "I was just collared by my new Dom, I have never been so happy-he is the most wonderfullest thing to ever happen to me!"

11:00 am. "I must be the luckiest girl in the world, Now he wants to cam with me!!!"

12:00 pm. "It was nice,but he told me that his end has a bad connection so I can't see him. But i did my best to please him,and he was happy-it's all good!!!"

4:00pm.. Something is wrong,I haven't heard from him, am I doing something he's upset over?

6:00pm. I still haven't heard back from him,it's over-bastard, I'm giving the collar back.

8:00 pm. Still nothing...I must be garbage to him, my world is destroyed-I will NEVER trust anyone ever again!!!!!!!!!!
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RE: ~~Posting Opinions or Posting Judgement~~ - 4/17/2008 10:12:30 PM

GreedyTop

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*snortsnicker*

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