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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 10:25:47 AM   
KatyLied


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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 10:57:49 AM   
everhope


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Status: offline 		blondekitten being new does not neccesarily translate into being gullible. you really do know the answer to your  question. 

you have been given good advice to your question, and the only thing i would like to add is look up subfrenzy. i still get a bit of it from time to time and i've been involved in BDSM  long enough to not call myself new and to know better, but it still happens. (dammit)

may we all find our bliss,
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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 11:55:45 AM   
MistressMiracle


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Status: offline 		Pay attention to your "gut instinct".  If it does not feel right, or comfortable, it probably isn't. 

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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 1:26:27 PM   
Vigilantejustice


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Status: offline 		Get involved in a RT group, ideally a munch. Get to know some real live people who you can connect with, regardless of their gender or orientation. Then at some point let them know you're looking. Ask them about that tall-dark-and-Domly fella at the other table who has caught your eye. Get references from people you trust. I've found that it can create some very fulfilling relationships, whether it's just friendship and casual play, or something deeper. If nothing else, having a munch where people know you can be a great place to have potential suitors meet up with you for the first time. At least then you know somebody has your back if Lord High Master Super-Dom turns out to be a lemon!
-Corinne

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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 1:46:09 PM   
mypain56


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Status: offline 		Don't go there!!!!!! he is not real....... on that note op....
 
on another note notallbikers are generic and or need hard on pills..   my last Dominant is a 1% biker and He's got a 12 inch cock with a deadly thickness and He does just fine in that area thankyou very much........ Sir
 
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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 1:51:45 PM   
LaTigresse


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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 1:56:30 PM   
colouredin


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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 2:04:02 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		The question is then........do they buy generic bikes and leathers too?

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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 2:08:44 PM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		yeah at generic bikes r us, havent you been? its like huge and all sparkly and stuff.

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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 2:10:01 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I've never been, never even seen it. My life feels so........incomplete......... le'sigh

I just had a thought, is that right next door to diamonds R Us?

Cuz, yanno, that would explain it.


< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 4/24/2008 2:12:50 PM >

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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 2:16:12 PM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		dammit, you know maybe i went into the wrong shop see i thought there was a real lack of leather when i went oh well, really should pay more attention to the names of shops rather than getting so excited that im shopping

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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 3:00:14 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		Trust me, no one on this site, or any site, is THAT amazing. 

I mean, I got an amazing email from some dear sweet old woman today who is dying of cancer and wants to give ME $3.5 million!  She wants God's forgiveness for the wrongs she has committed in her life, and her dead husband worked hard all his life and left it all to her, and now she wants to pass it along....to ME!  All I have to do is contact her attorney!  Should I trust her?

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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 3:57:19 PM   
OldBastardly1


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Status: offline 		Is she a generic old woman?

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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 4:01:45 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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quote:

have been corresponding with a dom in another city who wants me to commit to train with someone else that he chooses before he's willing to even meet me, talk to me on the phone, and so forth.


wtf??? hahaha... RUN AWAY VERY FAST... its probably his brother or partner in crime looking to rape.... yes.. RUN AWAY NOW... dont give him any info about you.  he may even be lying and dont really want you to know its truly him to protect his own identity..... SCAM SCAM SCAM.  it could also be some guy from nigeria ...lots of scamers from there you know....


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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 4:18:28 PM   
windchymes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

Is she a generic old woman?


Actually, she's only 59.  Not even geriatric!

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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 4:24:24 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 4:51:00 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		But...but.....she could be dead by then!!!! 

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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 6:03:29 PM   
Poetryinpain


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quote:

ORIGINAL: colouredin

stereotype methinks

stereotypo more likely.

OP - you've been given excellent advice. Dating sites of all flavors abound with people who are not what they say they are. Some are out to fleece you of your life savings, and some are out to get wanking material. The fact that he pulled his pics indicates something fishy.

Continue your search, but be more wise. Take your time and be patient.

pip, perfectly patient persistence

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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 6:49:54 PM   
blondekitten


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Status: offline 		Thank you so much, all of you, for your responses and good advice--I think I knew the answers before asking, but didn't want to be guilty of contempt prior to investigation--but then neither do I want to end up hacked into a million pieces or worse. Don't let the blonde hair fool you, I'm not a complete ninny, just wanted a little validation to my own very real concerns. Point taken.

Blonde Kitten

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RE: Trust via email - 4/24/2008 7:10:12 PM   
MontrealPhoenix


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Status: offline 		No, LaT it's right next to the Generic Subbies 'r Us....sort of one stop shopping for BDSMers.
 
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