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RE: Trust via email - 4/25/2008 9:55:27 AM   
UncleNasty


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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

Train you to do what?

Juggle?

Shuffle cards?

Make a better martini?


Anyone needing training in these areas do look me up. I am quite skilled.

Additionally I was an Adjunct Professor of Flamola at Cookola College.

Uncle Nasty

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RE: Trust via email - 4/25/2008 10:35:53 AM   
UncleNasty


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ORIGINAL: windchymes

Trust me, no one on this site, or any site, is THAT amazing. 

I mean, I got an amazing email from some dear sweet old woman today who is dying of cancer and wants to give ME $3.5 million!  She wants God's forgiveness for the wrongs she has committed in her life, and her dead husband worked hard all his life and left it all to her, and now she wants to pass it along....to ME!  All I have to do is contact her attorney!  Should I trust her?


I am solicited several times a week by gorgeous models that even though we've never met want to marry me, spend the rest of our lives together, and serve me in any way I want. About every 20th one that comes in I bite on. I figure there are people out there that fall for that crap so I'm doing someone a favor by taking up the solicitors time. A few responses in an Im is all it takes. They usually loose patience with me pretty quickly and move on. But every now and then there is one that is persistent.

I actually followed one all the way out. She (the generic male nigerian scam artist) started wanting marriage, changed to wanting to do some business, and then to my converting other negotiable instruments into cash for her. She actually sent money orders to a general delivery address, which I picked up. Geeze, they don't even counterfit very well. The printing was blurred, the ink splotchy, no water marks, etc.

Anyway...... I get a little grin out of frustrating them from time to time.

Uncle Nasty

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RE: Trust via email - 4/25/2008 12:17:52 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		Sounds like something strange is afoot with yoru guy.  I once had a slave train with a local Domme for 90 days so she could get up to speed on protocol before trying to live with me but, I had met her, was intimate with her and we both wanted the relationship to start as smoothly as possible. 

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RE: Trust via email - 4/25/2008 8:19:17 PM   
Huntertn


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Status: offline 		Sorry, I do Not know a single Dom that wants a sub trained by another [at the start anyway] or much Less will not even meet them first.  Kinda like Well if you fuck my brother, maybe I will fuck you too! Nope, too many flags here for much of a comfort zone.  Best look at him {and this} really hard and do a rethink..Huntertn

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RE: Trust via email - 4/26/2008 5:59:59 AM   
sirguym


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ORIGINAL: blondekitten

I am very new to this lifestyle...as in completely new...and have been corresponding with a dom in another city who wants me to commit to train with someone else that he chooses before he's willing to even meet me, talk to me on the phone, and so forth. He had some photos on the site, but has taken them down.  Am I a fool to be willing to engage with someone, no matter how amazing he seems under these circumstances? I don't want to question inappropriately, and am interested if he is who he says he is, but am hesitant to put so much trust into someone I meet only online. Am I wasting both of our time? Am I asking to get raped by a biker gang or worse? Am I a fool, or is this natural? I'm completely serious, and feel so out of my element, I don't even know what questions to ask. I just feel like this is a headline waiting to happen and don't want to be stupid. Help!


I never trust anyone in any way until I have met them and built up a relatiobnship face to face; which can seconds or years.

But online? Forget it! Online anyone can pretend to be anything they want.

It is rare and heartening to find someone who seems exactly who they seemed to be, when you meet them in person.

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RE: Trust via email - 4/26/2008 10:13:18 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

My bet would be that while he is Mr. Wonderful, Super_Dom, the trainer he has in mind isn't....and Mr. Perfect is really the trainer. A "bait & switch" game.

How old are you? Do you really need us to tell you how fucked up this is? Being new does not mean that you can't think. The basic rules of dating still apply. If you were vanilla and had met this great guy online....but he wanted to have somebody he knew fuck you, to make you ready for him, would you? If you would, I have a guy for you. LMAO

Like the BadOne said...."use your noodle!"

Would it be terribly inappropriate to say that this bit of common sense not only made Me laugh (both posts) but to some, seems so obvious that it's a shame it needs to be typed out?


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Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Trust via email - 4/26/2008 11:01:45 AM   
OldBastardly1


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Status: offline 		Thank you, LP. See you at 1763 sometime, maybe. Or...we do have a munch in Conyers....I don't know exactly how far away you would be.

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RE: Trust via email - 4/26/2008 11:33:59 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		You're welcome, OB.  I guess you can see where the other thread came from now.   <Chuckles>

I'm supposed to be at 1763 for ARM next month.  Still having trouble deciding because there's also a thing here in town that would be fun.  So many people to beat....... So little time!

I'm not sure about Conyers.  If they have a munch there, I haven't been to it.  I'm about two hours out of Atlanta, but it's worth the trip every time!


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Trust via email - 4/26/2008 12:14:25 PM   
OldBastardly1


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Status: offline 		If you can't make ARM, you could always attend my event, CAP. 2nd Friday of each month.

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RE: Trust via email - 4/26/2008 4:04:48 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		The last time I was at Community At Play, I enjoyed it quite a bit.  Didn't it used to be Saturdays?

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The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Trust via email - 4/26/2008 4:18:11 PM   
OldBastardly1


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Status: offline 		Yes, we swapped nights with Whippersnappers.

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RE: Trust via email - 5/7/2009 12:44:11 PM   
SirAndew


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Status: offline 		Please, consider what you are asking. If he won't take the time to get to know you, talk with you, meet you as friends, then he is certainly not worth either your trust, or your time. Be cautious with your submission - it is a gift to bestow on someone worthy... Best of luck.

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RE: Trust via email - 5/7/2009 12:55:53 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Sir Andrew, this thread is over a year old!

You owe me five minutes!!

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RE: Trust via email - 5/7/2009 1:31:01 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Maybe she will come back and tell us what happened?

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Trust via email - 5/7/2009 3:51:36 PM   
RavenMuse


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Status: offline 		I expect a girl to learn to trust Me.... however for that to happen I need to give her something to believe in. Words are cheep and coming from behind a keyboard there is little in the way of actions that can speak louder.

The rule of thumb I use.... I believe NOTHING of the person till I have at least met them in the flesh. Phone contact gives them the benifit of the doubt... IF My gut instinct is OK with things.

If your gut instinct was OK with it then you wouldn't be here asking this question.... 'nuff said!


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And it must follow, as the night the day,
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RE: Trust via email - 5/7/2009 4:20:53 PM   
SexyBlackMan2


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RE: Trust via email - 5/7/2009 4:37:20 PM   
heartfeltsub


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Status: offline 		Again, really old thread. Not sure that this is even an issue for the OP anymore.

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RE: Trust via email - 5/7/2009 9:16:08 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		I wrote her, and let her know someone revived the thread. I thought maybe she'd come tell everyone what she told me. In a nutshell, she really appreciated everyone's advice, and because of that, she realized that this guy was probably NOT what he claimed to be and she never met him. Thank goodness!

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RE: Trust via email - 5/7/2009 9:44:07 PM   
SailingBum


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Status: offline 		WTF over maybe they should "lock" the old ass thread   ya know lookie no touch.  anywho green grass and high tides

BadOne 

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RE: Trust via email - 5/7/2009 10:30:02 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		thanks, SB.. now I have that song stuck inmy head

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