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impossiblesub -> Why are you here? (4/25/2008 1:57:38 PM)
Just out of curiosity I wanted to see whay some other people are into BDSM. Personally, I have a few kinks and personality quirks I have aquired that I want to get included into a relationship. I also want to keep it HOT, lol. What about you? Why are you interested in a BDSM relationship or why did you get into the lifestyle?

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:00:06 PM)
Cause I am a kinky deviant debauched little bitch and I enjoy it? * lookin around um did I say that out loud ?*

Leatherist -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:02:33 PM)
I'm wierd.

Phin -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:02:52 PM)
yes. you did... better here than in the vanilla world... things are so boring over there...

OldBastardly1 -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:03:58 PM)
cuz I look good in leather?

phoenixinchains -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:04:10 PM)
i'm here on Collar Me to win the "last person to post wins" thread. BDSM is a part of my life as insperation is in an artist's life. Try to make sence of it, to give it reason. That's okay, i'll wait[:D]

mzbehavin -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:04:55 PM)
I just like to annoy people....

metalmiss -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:05:01 PM)
For me, i am here because its who i am more so than what i do.

hlen5 -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:07:40 PM)
I found this site nearly by accident (cm.com was a pop-up on another site). I stayed because I wanted to to see how the fantasies I've had for nearly as long as I can remember would feel in real life. I have been chatting with a few people and still have no rt experience.

FlamingRedhead -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:08:52 PM)
I'm interested in a BDSM relationship because for a very long time I've wanted a man who would be the head of the house. I'm not overly religious and was raised by a feminist, so I'm not sure why I have such a strong desire to submit. Truth be told, I don't really care why. It's just the way I'm wired. Add to that my paraphilias of asphyxiation, bondage, humiliation, and sadomasochism...and vanilla guys just can't hang with me. My brother-in-law asked me, "What if you find a great guy but he's not kinky? Could you live without it?" My answer was emphatically NO! "Normal" sex just doesn't do it for me, so this isn't something to "keep it hot," although it is pretty damn hot....

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:09:20 PM)
Vanilla world or bdsm world I make my own excitment:D quote:* ORIGINAL: Phin yes. you did... better here than in the vanilla world... things are so boring over there...

DominantJenny -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:10:11 PM)
I am hard-wired to be kinky, as much as I am hard-wired to be bisexual. My fantasy life was ALWAYS based in D/s and s/m. I was thrilled to pieces when I realized it didn't have to be just a fantasy (and also that I was not the monster I thought I was.) As for why I'm HERE, that's the bi thing; I have my mr.right and am looking for my ms. right.

Vestonika -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:11:11 PM)
Because adultfriendfinder.com expected me to pay to look at profiles and send emails to people and there really are not as many bi-sex women as you'd think and even fewer that like to do watersports. they go like "eeeeeeeeewwwww!!!" :)

MistressOfGa -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:13:36 PM)
Because it is all that I know. It is all that I have had. It is all that I would ever want it to be. Oh....and I love to kick ass...[sm=crop.gif]

DragonLady5 -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:17:10 PM)
Because I'm a born perv and I have affidavits from people to prove it. It's amazing what some people will do when given a little bitsy pain......

impossiblesub -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:24:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DominantJenny I am hard-wired to be kinky I seriously doubt that anyone is born kinky, but I suppose you call it hard-wired if you have always been that way. Last I heard there are not genes that make you predisposed to wearing leather.

PanthersMom -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:26:04 PM)
i was born this way, that's my excuse! PM

impossiblesub -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:30:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PanthersMom i was born this way, that's my excuse! PM LOL pictures baby in leather diapers with a whip

SteelofUtah -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:30:25 PM)
Simple they wouldn't let me do this in Seminary. Not to mention I wasn't good at sailing and needed something else to do with all the great knots Steel

PanthersMom -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 2:33:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: impossiblesub quote: ORIGINAL: PanthersMom i was born this way, that's my excuse! PM LOL pictures baby in leather diapers with a whip i was the first grandchild on both sides of the family, i'm used to being waited on and spoiled rotten, lol! PM

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