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shahla00 -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 5:56:22 PM)

I never thought that I would be into something like this untill I dated a guy that tied me down and blindfolded me.... from there I wanted more.. I would research diffrent things and thats how I found CM... Now I want to do all the things that I dreamed about...[&:]




hejira92 -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 6:25:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DMFParadox

I grew up on Robert Heinlein and his peers.  The women in those stories were smart, sexy, powerful, horny, and utterly submissive.  'Glory Road,' 'Starship Troopers,' 'Lazarus Long,', 'Friday'...

Average women bore me.  I want a woman that can inspire, support, and bring out the best in me, with her submission.

That's why I'm here.

D


Wow. I read every Heinlein as a kid. Maybe that's why........




GreedyTop -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 6:35:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

I'm here because I'm really fucked up and it's around midnight.
Ed to add: oh yes and I nearly forgot: I'm a breeding cow.



MOOOOOO!




DesFIP -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 7:40:34 PM)

Activity speaking, getting tied up is the most fun I've ever had.

Power speaking, I have an enormous amount of responsibility in life and some problems that makes handling the responsibilities very energy draining. Having someone strong decide I'm in over my head and take over is quite possibly the greatest gift I've ever been given.

Everyone else assumes I can handle everything because I always have. He's the only one who's ever seen what the cost to me is and decided I shouldn't pay it.




HornyToadsMI -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 7:41:40 PM)

Cuz I love to be tied up during sex, then it moved to being flogged and whipped.  Guess the older I get, the kinkier I get......gotta love it![sm=dancing.gif]




peppermint -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 10:46:14 PM)

It's fun and we laugh a lot when he flogs me. 




ResidentSadist -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 10:56:12 PM)

I'm here incase GreedyTop ever switches teams and coastlines. 
 
<-- sending love to Tampa




girlygurl -> RE: Why are you here? (4/25/2008 11:00:52 PM)

Well, I'm here on CM for the fourms mostly... but to answer your question about a lifestyle.....

I'm a nasty naughty lilslut.... well, that's what my Sir says [8D]




toopolite -> RE: Why are you here? (4/26/2008 12:58:17 AM)

Why?
Well my wife likes haveing Her hair pulled and breats pinched and hotwax dripped on them and I like doing those things.

Now the wife wants a female sub so that my wife can tryout hair pulling and strapon use on a female and it sounds interesting to me as the wife also wants to see me do breast play and hair pulling on another female.

And the idea of haveing two females to spank at the same time sounds interesting but we are looking for a female thats a good conversationalist also.

Oh well thats our reason and thank you for reading this.




SailingBum -> RE: Why are you here? (4/26/2008 1:13:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: impossiblesub

Just out of curiosity I wanted to see whay some other people are into BDSM. Personally, I have a few kinks and personality quirks I have aquired that I want to get included into a relationship. I also want to keep it HOT, lol. What about you? Why are you interested in a BDSM relationship or why did you get into the lifestyle?


Cuz my horse refused to have sex with me unless I whipped it good.

BadOne




NorthernGent -> RE: Why are you here? (4/26/2008 2:23:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: impossiblesub

Why are you here?



For the laughs, the chats, the slashings, the cannibalism, the train wrecks, the aspirations, the whims, the celebrities, the desperation, the adoration, the despair, the loneliness, the competition, the longing, the belonging, the self-denial, the self-realisation, the humiliation, the cliques, the tantrums, the shame, the guilt, the progress, the self-pity, the bullying, the witch hunts, the friendship, the propaganda, the acquistion of power, the self-promotion.... 

The many facets of human behaviour are here to be observed in one, tidy package.........




petpete -> RE: Why are you here? (4/26/2008 2:55:28 AM)

i was just flicking through the sex sites and this weird site has just popped up, so i thought to myself that well for all the weirdos of this world i thought to myself another rascal like myself isn't going to make much difference anyway, so here i am...




MissMagnolia -> RE: Why are you here? (4/26/2008 3:12:20 AM)

As I have always said, I'm just here for the free beer.[sm=pigsfly.gif]

I'm STILL waiting.........................................




petpete -> RE: Why are you here? (4/26/2008 3:41:34 AM)

i never would believe that pigs fly till i saw it above me from the Lady who i'm responding for... You see?? another reason to be here for...




ExSteelAgain -> RE: Why are you here? (4/26/2008 4:06:51 AM)

I’ve always been fascinated by those who find desire and excitement giving up their pride and ability to say no to domination and whippings of all sorts. I’ve managed to run into these women with uncanny good fortune all my life. But the key is their desire to be dominated fuels my interest as much as my desire to actually dominate. Not that any of this is earth shattering to y’all.




lusciouslips19 -> RE: Why are you here? (4/26/2008 4:17:09 AM)

Because it was time to embrace those desires that have always been there and to stop feeling shame. I needed to accept and embrace the slut I have always been and the fact that I have never had any control and have never been able to utter the word no.




RavenMuse -> RE: Why are you here? (4/26/2008 4:31:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Because it is all that I know. It is all that I have had. It is all that I would ever want it to be.


What she said!

As far as relationships are concerned vanilla never floated My boat. I got intorduced to WIITWD early and never looked back. It is the way I am wired.




MsStarlett -> RE: Why are you here? (4/26/2008 4:55:06 AM)

I'm HERE - on CM - because my best friend invited me.  Bless Odie's pea picking heart.  He's been telling me for years that I was a Domme.  I just said, "No I'm not.  I just like kinky sex and I like keeping my little extra boy toys on the side."  He laughed at me, "You're a natural born Domme.  You just don't have lables for what you do.  Join CM and learn!"  So, I'm here.  He was right.

My first 'inclining's' that I was not 'right' by vanilla standards came when I was about 14 years old and saw Sally Field in Sybil.  (Anyone else old enough to remember that one?  From 1976?)  The kitchen scene where her mother was torturing her - the acts that broke her mind and shattered her personality - Always made me hot.  No!  Not the idea of torturing a child or doing serious injury to an innocent! - It was just my first exposure to things that are staples to bdsm.  The thought of having a spreader bar between my feet, being hauled up and suspended from the ceiling while someone penetrated me with household objects was just so HOT!   To this day, when I'm having my Switch  'do me' with toys... that image is still in my mind... but it's ME upside down and I'm loving every minute of it.




hejira92 -> RE: Why are you here? (4/26/2008 6:53:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

My first 'inclining's' that I was not 'right' by vanilla standards came when I was about 14 years old and saw Sally Field in Sybil.  (Anyone else old enough to remember that one?  From 1976?)  The kitchen scene where her mother was torturing her - the acts that broke her mind and shattered her personality - Always made me hot.  No!  Not the idea of torturing a child or doing serious injury to an innocent! - It was just my first exposure to things that are staples to bdsm.  The thought of having a spreader bar between my feet, being hauled up and suspended from the ceiling while someone penetrated me with household objects was just so HOT!   To this day, when I'm having my Switch  'do me' with toys... that image is still in my mind... but it's ME upside down and I'm loving every minute of it.



Oh my. You've hit on another reason I'm here- to further learn about and understand myself.
 
I forgot all about this scene, but you're right- the imagery of being helpless and penetrated set my pre-adolescent heart a-pounding.
 
I've been a pervert longer than I thought. [:)]




MsStarlett -> RE: Why are you here? (4/26/2008 6:58:49 AM)

Scary, isn't it?  I'm glad I'm not the only one.




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