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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 3:48:51 PM   
frenchpet


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ORIGINAL: Marx

JohnWarren

Your loss mate! Far from me judging you, i think it's the reverse! You seem to have convicted me without trial! You don't know me form Adam, but still feel justified in condemning me! Don't ever become a counsellor!

You can bet the Block button has been hit quite a few times, after this (or even before, actually, I'm a bit slow). Now that most people can't read your posts any more. Sit back, have a beer, smoke a spliff or whatever, and remember this great wisdom : anger leads to hatred, hatred leads to pain, and the whole stuff somehow leads to the dark side of the force. Ask Yoda, he knows. And then make a new profile.

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 3:49:24 PM   
Marx


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California is indeed a great place - wasted on Californians! SORRY SORRY!

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 3:50:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Marx

Nika,

You're a nice boy, but do you honestly think i care what you think of me? I'm being JUDGED am i? Shame on you! From your first reply to me, you felt duty-bound to inform me where i was going wrong - i could sense latent hostility from the off!



First of all I am not a boy heck for that matter I am not even male. Obviously you do not care what anyone thinks about you, which is your right but in a forum where you are looking for someone dont you see that as redundant? By the way your post yesterday you asked for advice you got it, even thanked myself and others for it so shame on you for tossing it back as we were telling you how to do things. I have no hostility towards you, trust me I am not that subtle.

Nika{Phoenix}


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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 3:56:00 PM   
Marx


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Status: offline 		It's a curious thing friends, my anger lasted but a moment. However, i have gained enormously from these responses. Certain people won't be coming round for turkey at Xmas admittedly, but for the most part, people have been funny, and supportive! I myself find the gloomy threats that my name is now mud round here hilarious! Cheers, as we whinny Brits say! Oh, and don't touch Iran for fuck's sake!

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 3:59:04 PM   
Marx


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Sorry to mistake your sex! I genuinely did appreciate the advice actually, shame we had to fall out!

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 4:14:04 PM   
wolfinside


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Status: offline 		Hey Marx,

Don't take it personally.

I once sent out one hundred and fifty emails to woman on adultfriendfinder. You know how many answers I recieved?

About fifteen.

And of that lot, only about a couple were compatable with me.

But, ...... one was lithe and hot, and a great lover.

How many lovers does a man need? Or Domme's for that matter. (of course I am kind of a one woman man kind of guy)

Keep trying and hang in there, when you find the right one, it will all be a distant memory.

As far as women not answering emails:

There are eight men to everyone one woman online. That means they are FESTOONED with men asking to fuck them. You really have no idea.

I didn't either until I placed an ad for men to fuck my submissive. I couldn't believe the response, it was unreal.

And most of these idiots sent stupid, insulting misspelled emails.

I had always had a policy of answering ALL emails sent to me, but after a while, I (a man) just couldn't do it anymore. So I began to answer only the ones that fell within the paramiters that we were looking for and who wrote intelligent letters. The rest got shit canned.

I will say though, that I do believe that many (not all) women online are spoiled by the easy availablity of men and sex and become somewhat jaded. And VERY picky. But why shouldn't they be? The have the world by the proverbial balls.

(and yes, I envy the hell out of them)

Having and eight to one advantage in the online dating world is a huge amount of power for a woman to hold. (for anyone)

And it is true that power corrupts.


Keep trying and good luck. (and don't just limit your search to online, I don't)


Wolf



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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 4:16:51 PM   
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It is categorically not about me. It's about people like you having a little empathy. You are smugly inside this scene, and exhibit precisely the jaded, patrician disdain for "newbies" and their foibles that i have come to expect! You're not dealing with some Neanderthal who is whinning because his date wouldn't take her top off, this is legitimate pain, and it isn't sexy!


Marx:

At a bare minimum, all that angst is not going to allow you to be the submissive/slave that you say you want to be. Perhaps you can start by sharing more of your experiences, and the problems that you've run into. There are lots of people here that will be able to relate, and have some insight into how you can avoid those problems in the future. As it's running now, this thread seems to be heading down the road to being moderated, and none of us like that.

--Anopheles

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 4:42:14 PM   
LadyJulieAnn


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ORIGINAL: Marx

By way of addition, thank Christ for masturbation, or i'd probably go insane or explode; YOU SURE AS HELL CAN'T RELY ON SEEING YOUR DEEPEST-SEATED NEEDS - WHICH HAVE AFFLICTED YOU FOR 30 YEARS - REALISED! I should have been a priest, i live like one as it is!


If you have had these needs for 30 years, why are you only online seeking someone? There are several UK-based lifestyle groups full of people who live this lifestyle on a daily basis. Perhaps you can check out www.informedconsent.co.uk

Be well,
Julie

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 4:48:30 PM   
JohnWarren


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ORIGINAL: Phoenixandnika
Marx,
Do yourself a favor and walk away from the computer take a walk then come back and reread this entire thread. That is what you are being judged on, your actions, your words, the image that you yourself are putting out there.

Nika{Phoenix}
*waves to M. Lawrence before going back to cooking*


It's always sad having my worst feelings confirmed. There is a bright side to this for the submissive men out there who have been feeling this kind of anger and were tempted to let it flow onto the boards.

A fool does not learn from his mistakes; a smart person learns from his; a wise person learns from others.



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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 5:20:50 PM   
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It's a curious thing friends, my anger lasted but a moment. However, i have gained enormously from these responses. Certain people won't be coming round for turkey at Xmas admittedly, but for the most part, people have been funny, and supportive! I myself find the gloomy threats that my name is now mud round here hilarious! Cheers, as we whinny Brits say! Oh, and don't touch Iran for fuck's sake!


No invasion of Iran. Got it, thanks.

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 5:52:11 PM   
subversiveone


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Next!

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 6:25:32 PM   
CaptCraig


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ORIGINAL: BlueDevil

quote:

It's a curious thing friends, my anger lasted but a moment. However, i have gained enormously from these responses. Certain people won't be coming round for turkey at Xmas admittedly, but for the most part, people have been funny, and supportive! I myself find the gloomy threats that my name is now mud round here hilarious! Cheers, as we whinny Brits say! Oh, and don't touch Iran for fuck's sake!


No invasion of Iran. Got it, thanks.

I think we are being had or this guy is certifiable.

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 8:06:30 PM   
OscarHargraves


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Status: offline 		Well, I had an answer all warmed up but John Warren said it all. Think about the impression you want to make on others. Remember that what they read here is their very first impression of you as a person and a Sub. Maybe you should try another site for awile and come back here as a Newbie again later. If you don't know about the other istes you might ask here for suggestions.

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 8:50:40 PM   
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You are kind to bother with a reply, and you're probably entirely right. I'm just sick of banging my head against this particular brick wall! As to what a woman might find attractive? Well i'm charismatic; open-hearted; compassionate; articulate; innovative; generous; loyal; funny, will those do to be getting on with? I have plenty to offer!
How about trying this approach next time, and realize that a lot of people have issues going from online to real life.
If I had a dollar for every perfect sub/slave I've met online, that never materialized in real life, I think I'd be a millionaire. The secret is to live your life in as fulfilling a way as possible, expect nothing, but be available and open to good/positive surprises.
When you lose your sense of humor, like today, suspend looking, go out and do something you enjoy, than come back when you can cope again.
Wish you well, M

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 9:20:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Marx

EMERALD SLAVE, You sound smugly Californian! The times i've encountered that response! Do you think that being a submissive, means that all the messy, unpredictable changes of emotion are expunged? I'm responding to a painful sense of isolation, my sexual proclivities don't enter into it! Besides, it is precisely the possibility of submission to a woman that would quell and contain this anger! I may be a sub in private, but not in the real world!


Marx - I for one am upset.... I AM a Californian as you put it and I for one an a decent person for the most part... I think that that comment is WRONG .. what gives you the right to say these people are this way?? HUMMMMM???? NONE!!!
If you are having a sense of painful isolation then get up and do something about it.. don't blame it on everyone else.. YOU are the ONLY person that can change this.. NOT I or anyone else!!
So you are angry.. so am I at times.. I grow up and get over it!
So this is my rant.. short and sweet..
~Lady Boa

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 9:32:34 PM   
LADYBOA


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Aakasha,

It is categorically not about me. It's about people like you having a little empathy. You are smugly inside this scene, and exhibit precisely the jaded, patrician disdain for "newbies" and their foibles that i have come to expect!
Marx


Since I seem never to be able to get past one of your comments Marx.. I will once again reply to this one too...
I am not new to the lifestyle but am new to these message boards... I have posted a couple of times and not one person on here has been mean or rude to the point you are being now...
So there for I don't understand where you get off telling people that have been here for awhile that they have 'jaded and patrician distain for 'newbies''
I mean seriously.. sit back and read what you are writing.. take a chill pill.. ground and center something to get control over the anger that you seem to be showing on this thread.

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 9:38:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		At least he used an interesting word like "patrician." Normally people use the boring old "elitist," now and then the slightly less boring "aristocratic." But "patrician" is a nice change of pace--sort of like key-lime pie instead of apple.

Lam, the patrician elephant

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 9:49:10 PM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		I know,very colorful.

But dammit, this IS supposed to be "MacDommes", isn't it?

And yet,the total lack of service here-simply outrageous!

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 10:05:04 PM   
luvdragonx


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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

At least he used an interesting word like "patrician." Normally people use the boring old "elitist," now and then the slightly less boring "aristocratic." But "patrician" is a nice change of pace--sort of like key-lime pie instead of apple.

Lam, the patrician elephant


ROFLMAO

OMG, I damn near fell under my desk laughing at that.

(wipes tears)

THANKS!!!!

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RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! - 10/13/2005 10:11:39 PM   
LADYBOA


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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

At least he used an interesting word like "patrician." Normally people use the boring old "elitist," now and then the slightly less boring "aristocratic." But "patrician" is a nice change of pace--sort of like key-lime pie instead of apple.

Lam, the patrician elephant


hehe knew you were one.. I did honest!!!!
I really hate when people go on a rant.. makes me go on lots of little ones...
and I really really hate roller coaster too.. all the ups n downs.... which is what seems to be going on here.. he is angry.. then apologetic.. then angry.. and so on.. Jesh.... chill pill needed.. do I have to or need to say more?

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