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RE: Outed on CM?.... - 4/28/2008 12:25:28 PM

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Every now and then I run across a situation where a co-worker or friend or something like that googles me. I know that a few of them must have come accross photos of me and well to be honest I dont really care that much. I have removed most of the photos of myself now that I am older but when I was younger and all cock it just didnt matter that much...LOL. I see it as a thing where if people wanted to know all about that aspect of my life then all they have to do is ask ... as far as how I feel about there opinion is that I just dont care. Only a small group of people know anything about me when it comes to sex (as far as people I know in real world) ... those people were and are people that have asked to a part of that aspect of my life... as far as people peeking in on that part of my life... well they just are not apart of that aspect and probably never will be and its that way for a reason. I really dont know why people try to dig up dirt but if its dirt they want I am a total open book about it. I answer all the questions I am asked as honestly and strait forward as posible and if that person decides that they no longer want to be a part of my life then that is fine with me. I am allready outed at work and quit frankly even though I am into kinky sex I havent done nearly a tenth of what I have seen a lot of vanillas do on trips so as far as morality is concerned they simply dont have any...lol.
From what a lot of woman have told me I really am an incredible fuck and have had a lot of things listed as to why that is and frankly I have had some vanilla guys and girl in the course of joking around start to make jokes about it and its funny to see woman rush to my defence. Its usually other males that have problems with my sexuality not the woman so frankly I made up my mind a long time ago that I am going to live my life exacly the way I want too and if others agree with it... welcome aboard... for the ones that dont well they can enjoy whatever it is that they enjoy. I will allways enjoy a good piece of ass over tv.

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RE: Outed on CM?.... - 4/28/2008 1:01:01 PM

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ha everyone in my family knows i'm a freak already...were all pretty open about how we are it's always amusing bringing a new sub to a family get together...they usually turn red with embarressment at least once

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RE: Outed on CM?.... - 4/28/2008 3:05:14 PM

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It's funny that many of you say you don't care...remember that ProDomme that was outed a few months back? They sent shit to her employer, the parents of the students she taught...She caught all kinds of shit...Lost her job and the whole kabootle. Some people work in a profession that would not be so forgiving.

You think it is no big deal? lol.

Didn't say it was no big deal. It would be difficult to explain, but as others have said...."what were you doing on here checking things out in the first place?"

Overall, it's a naive response....Many people out here are possibly in a position in their life or in a career that would not be affected by an "outing." Few people that deal with a professional public probably have that luxury.

Once you are outed you are out....The people that possibly hold power over your occupation won't give two shits about how you were outed ....Just the fact that you were and what you are participating in a thang that might be perceived as being deviant.

If you all cannot grasp this concept then you have coming exactly what you deserve. You have to be able to understand the world that we live in.

Not naive....just a realist. I've been "outed" for other things and life still went on. Still have my job....my family's love and friends that, although they may not understand everything, still love me.
I understand "the world we live in" isn't the most forgiving, but I also know I haven't put anything out here that I wouldn't allow my sister...who knows...or my best friend...who also knows...to read or see.

As for being deviant.....you say that like it's a bad thing!

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RE: Outed on CM?.... - 4/28/2008 3:24:30 PM

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i would shrug and get on with my life.. my nearest and dearest all know anyway..
Even as far as to know my s/n and the names of some of the sites i frequent. i even recommended it to a curious vanilla friend of switch persuasion and use CM to keep in touch with him.

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RE: Outed on CM?.... - 4/28/2008 3:47:17 PM

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Our problems are not with family but more business related. We don't have pictures on our profile because we have on occasion run into those who do not understand discretion.

I watched someone outed in a very akward way and at a very inappropriate moment (which also cost him an important business meet) because someone blurted out that they recognized him and his wife from a profile pic.

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RE: Outed on CM?.... - 4/28/2008 4:00:58 PM

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What if someone in your family found this site on their own, saw your picture next to a post, a post mind you discussing your sexual activities in the bedroom...

How would you feel? What would you do?

Everyone who matters (including siblings and UM's) have known for some time. I feel fine. I do what I do. :)

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RE: Outed on CM?.... - 4/28/2008 9:03:09 PM

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What if someone in your family found this site on their own, saw your picture next to a post, a post mind you discussing your sexual activities in the bedroom...

How would you feel? What would you do?

They are adults I suppose just as I am.. so what? Why would they be looking in such a site unless they have an interest... ?

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