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ORIGINAL: softness

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ORIGINAL: UBERMUNSCHIST

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ORIGINAL: softness
attention seeking?

?

Please use complete sentences.

That is a complete sentence ...you could tell by the questioning indicator known commonly as the "question mark". A questioning indicator denotes that the preceeding statement was in fact a questioning statement. A questioning statement can be of anything as little as one word (Who? What?Why?When? Where? How?)

In the long winded version that you requested "Attention Seeking" can be translated as this.

Your profile has all the intellectual self indulgence of an educated 19 year old who wants people to admire his brain, no doubt you will do that in real life also. You come to a public forum to complain about how older women are throwing themselves at you. Anyone will realise after 10 minutes on this site that *younger* than you is illegal and so yes people will be older and yes there are a lot of married women around and so a piece of 19 yearold ass will be amusing and ultimately disposable...donot believe for a second that these women see youas a replacement for their successful and stable husbands ... its like the yard boy ... only kinky

how do i know this ?... from the piles of mail from married men that I, and every two eyed non window licking submissive woman under 30 gets on this site, get everyday just like the real life attention you are getting

and the reason that most of us dont start threads about it

we are *not* attention seeking

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ORIGINAL: UBERMUNSCHIST

Do women really enjoy sincere compliments?

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ORIGINAL: impossiblesub

I would suggest finding out as soon as possible if they are married or whatever. Then if they are just put a halt to everything. Politely.
"Oh, what a shame it is you are married. You are such an attractive woman. *pretend disappointment* Oh well, nice to meet you."
Giving them a compliment will help keep them from getting angry.

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ORIGINAL: Evility

You cannot control who is attracted to you. 

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ORIGINAL: wwwkevinww

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ORIGINAL: Evility

You cannot control who is attracted to you. 

sure you can......picking your nose is extremely unattractive....telling someone a bunch of your problems isn't attractive, etc.....

I remember me and my father went to a Pizza Hut, and we thought our waitress was very attractive, until he started telling us about how she had sculliosis and cavities, etc.....

I remember thinking this one girl was attractive until I talked to her and found out she was mildly retarded and what not.  I still shudder when she told me she was looking for a boyfriend point blank.  ::shudder::  maybe I like intelligence too much.......

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ORIGINAL: wwwkevinww

lol.....very funny.......anyhows.....Nothing wrong with being intelligent.  I think some of your facts you expound in your profile are wrong.  You find freedom in slavery?  You trying to refer to subspace? 

> No. I'm refferring to Orwellian mindfucks. [1984]

As far as cheating goes, I agree with you, but don't preach to the choir, alot of cheating SOB people on here, and if they are going to do it, preaching isn't going to change them.

According to the movie, which I'm too lazy to look up actual facts, they actually tried to do something with the boy in the bubble and that is what killed him.  He could of survived forever in the bubble, besides the fact that he was going crazy because people are animals and do need human contact to keep sane.

Don't answer questions with more questions....obviously you aren't interested in a convo......you sound very confused in your profile....

> I'm not confused, I think My profile confused you.
 
My profile has a lot of doublespeak and obscure meanings...
 
I know very bad joo joo.


I think you're more of a switch, if you like giving and receiving pain....also, many of the people on here are not into playing games and are more interested in actual BDSM activities....

> I'm not a switch, and I don't like "giving pain". I am not into playing games and I am interested in "actual BDSM activities" as you call it.

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ORIGINAL: wwwkevinww

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ORIGINAL: Evility

You cannot control who is attracted to you. 

sure you can......picking your nose is extremely unattractive....telling someone a bunch of your problems isn't attractive, etc.....

I remember me and my father went to a Pizza Hut, and we thought our waitress was very attractive, until he started telling us about how she had sculliosis and cavities, etc.....

I remember thinking this one girl was attractive until I talked to her and found out she was mildly retarded and what not.  I still shudder when she told me she was looking for a boyfriend point blank.  ::shudder::  maybe I like intelligence too much.......

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ORIGINAL: sunlitflames

i'm a tad confused.... your profile says you are a Dominant Male... yet you are seeking a Dominant Female?  you say you like pleasure and pain...... the Doms i know enjoy giving pleasure and pain not receiving it.

maybe clarifying how you see yourself would be a start.

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ORIGINAL: UBERMUNSCHIST

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
practice saying it... if you can say it, with some degree of sincerity, chances are they'll feel better about the rejection (and if they ARENT particularly attractive, or don't feel like they are, then you'll have brightened someones day)

Do women really enjoy sincere compliments?

I never say them.


I don't want to come off as cheesy.

"Those are skin tight. How do you get into those pants baby?" - Austin Powers 

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ORIGINAL: softness

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ORIGINAL: UBERMUNSCHIST

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ORIGINAL: softness
attention seeking?

?

Please use complete sentences.

That is a complete sentence ...you could tell by the questioning indicator known commonly as the "question mark". A questioning indicator denotes that the preceeding statement was in fact a questioning statement. A questioning statement can be of anything as little as one word (Who? What?Why?When? Where? How?)

In the long winded version that you requested "Attention Seeking" can be translated as this.

Your profile has all the intellectual self indulgence of an educated 19 year old who wants people to admire his brain, no doubt you will do that in real life also. You come to a public forum to complain about how older women are throwing themselves at you. Anyone will realise after 10 minutes on this site that *younger* than you is illegal and so yes people will be older and yes there are a lot of married women around and so a piece of 19 yearold ass will be amusing and ultimately disposable...donot believe for a second that these women see youas a replacement for their successful and stable husbands ... its like the yard boy ... only kinky

how do i know this ?... from the piles of mail from married men that I, and every two eyed non window licking submissive woman under 30 gets on this site, get everyday just like the real life attention you are getting

and the reason that most of us dont start threads about it

we are *not* attention seeking

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ORIGINAL: christine1

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ORIGINAL: wwwkevinww

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ORIGINAL: Evility

You cannot control who is attracted to you. 

sure you can......picking your nose is extremely unattractive....telling someone a bunch of your problems isn't attractive, etc.....

I remember me and my father went to a Pizza Hut, and we thought our waitress was very attractive, until he started telling us about how she had sculliosis and cavities, etc.....

I remember thinking this one girl was attractive until I talked to her and found out she was mildly retarded and what not.  I still shudder when she told me she was looking for a boyfriend point blank.  ::shudder::  maybe I like intelligence too much.......

how could you?  how could you tell everyone that i pick my nose and have cavities?  oh god,  i'll never get over this....   and you fucker, you think i'm mildly retarded? bwaaa haaa haaaa...i'll never get over it, i'm scarred for life!  i'm going to get my pink sawed off street sweeper and go postal, how could you fucking say such things about me....sniffle sniffle sob....

ok, really dude, get a life and grow a pair.

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ORIGINAL: SweetNika

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ORIGINAL: sunlitflames

i'm a tad confused.... your profile says you are a Dominant Male... yet you are seeking a Dominant Female?  you say you like pleasure and pain...... the Doms i know enjoy giving pleasure and pain not receiving it.

maybe clarifying how you see yourself would be a start.

In my life I have known more than a handful of dominant men that enjoyed  receiving pain and allowing their property the opprotunity to give them pain. I personally don't beleive being a sadist or masacist determines weather or not your dominant or submissive.
 
blessed be,
Nika

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ORIGINAL: wwwkevinww

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ORIGINAL: christine1

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ORIGINAL: wwwkevinww

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ORIGINAL: Evility

You cannot control who is attracted to you. 

sure you can......picking your nose is extremely unattractive....telling someone a bunch of your problems isn't attractive, etc.....

I remember me and my father went to a Pizza Hut, and we thought our waitress was very attractive, until he started telling us about how she had sculliosis and cavities, etc.....

I remember thinking this one girl was attractive until I talked to her and found out she was mildly retarded and what not.  I still shudder when she told me she was looking for a boyfriend point blank.  ::shudder::  maybe I like intelligence too much.......

how could you?  how could you tell everyone that i pick my nose and have cavities?  oh god,  i'll never get over this....   and you fucker, you think i'm mildly retarded? bwaaa haaa haaaa...i'll never get over it, i'm scarred for life!  i'm going to get my pink sawed off street sweeper and go postal, how could you fucking say such things about me....sniffle sniffle sob....

ok, really dude, get a life and grow a pair.

really cutie, I've got a pair.  If you need confirmation, and you are genetically a female -> then I'd be happy to show you....

The girls I have met over my life is what I was refering to, as in examples....

I've never met you...do you have a pic?  ::scared look::  I generally like to meet people with at least average looks.....sorry to be blunt...

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ORIGINAL: GimpinDenial

<grabs coffee, sits back and relaxes to watch the show >

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Enjoying sensation play does not mean you do not like being the leader in an interpersonal relationship. I'm submissive but I've been known to give him a massage, being the one delivering the sensation doesn't suddenly make me dominant.

As far as never hearing of dom/domme or sub/sub pairing? That's your problem kev. There are lots of such pairings about. The dom/domme couples usually seek a third to serve them both, but sometimes they seek separate subs. The sub/sub pairs I've known of service top each other and seek out individual tops.  Actually sub/sub pairings can work out really well because they both seek to make each other happy. And in situations where neither one can make a difficult decision, that's when you outsource it. An accountant can tell you if a house costing $350,000 is something you ought to go for in your present earning situation or if you should get the $175,000 and add on to get the other features you need. Marriage counselors can often offer ideas on compromises or solutions neither partner themselves thought of.

There is more in heaven and earth Horatio, than is thought of in your philosophy. As always Shakespeare says it best.