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its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:04:10 PM

domahpet

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i just ran across this on another thread-

Banished from the forums by the vindictively judgemental cliques that live in here.
I get it now.
Unless one sucks up to 'The Players' in here.
You will not be tolerated.
Gotcha.

it is so becoming true lately,
and that really really fuckin sad.

flame rip shred me, defend yourself if this effects you in any way.
or even better, take a look and see if it can be changed.

fuckin sad i tell ya.

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:18:20 PM

ResidentSadist

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I have heard equally ridiculous things from kind hearted, good intentioned people posting incorrect advice claiming that defining BDSM nomenclature was arbitrarily subject to opinions, not Webster or established lifestyle definitions and protocols.

As for the gentleman who posted your quote, I read his other posts before replying to him. I gave him a doubt and took him serious. It was studying his history of assholism that told me he was a pompous player by his words.

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:20:50 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: domahpet

i just ran across this on another thread-

Banished from the forums by the vindictively judgemental cliques that live in here.
I get it now.
Unless one sucks up to 'The Players' in here.
You will not be tolerated.
Gotcha.

it is so becoming true lately,
and that really really fuckin sad.

flame rip shred me, defend yourself if this effects you in any way.
or even better, take a look and see if it can be changed.

fuckin sad i tell ya.

I think it's true and untrue both at the same time.
I've been really upset by some posters here, repeatedly. But I do it myself also to others. When I quip and spit it is because I feel justified in doing so because I think I just read a loada shite and that's what I do: I quip and spit especially in the face of what I consider ignorance.
I suppose this makes me look arrogant.
But I've had warnings from the Moderators and I have had posts removed so I suppose it's not the so-called cliques here that have any ultimate power.
It's sometimes just like being caught between a raock and a hard place. A no-win place here.
But then I have also posted extremely personal stuff and been immensely supported by those who have changed their tune and even then also gone onto send me blessings and real support in private mail here. I don't go clubbing or to munchies so this is a great source of strength. I KNOW it can't replace real-time friendship but here I get to interact with the US community and with canada....and look all without an air fare!
I really value it here and the freedom of opportunity and debate it really offers.

< Message edited by Prinsexx -- 5/3/2008 3:23:19 PM >

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:21:17 PM

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*shrugs*

I'm not a part of any clique. I sure don't suck up. I still have my own place here, far as I'm concerned. So do you. Who defines that place for you?

Not me.

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:22:05 PM

domahpet

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i wasnt even talking about him, his words only fit the way things are seeming lately around here.
its getting depressing just to come here.

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:24:50 PM

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Let me ask you this, domah (and everyone else); do you think he would have been interested in an honest, back and forth discussion?

And don't get discouraged

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:24:51 PM

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I bet you also missed the part where he called all domme's fakes who just dominate cause their afraid to submit, and He was ripped and flamed because of his inflamatory statements. And because he put down a half of the population here with his snottyness and his backhanded posts.

quote:

ORIGINAL: domahpet

i just ran across this on another thread-

Banished from the forums by the vindictively judgemental cliques that live in here.
I get it now.
Unless one sucks up to 'The Players' in here.
You will not be tolerated.
Gotcha.

it is so becoming true lately,
and that really really fuckin sad.

flame rip shred me, defend yourself if this effects you in any way.
or even better, take a look and see if it can be changed.

fuckin sad i tell ya.

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:26:26 PM

Prinsexx

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

It was studying his history of assholism that told me he was a pompous player by his words.

I thought you said alcoholism then I looked again.
"Presents with a history of assholism"....lovely turn of phrase. May I use it?

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:27:27 PM

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<Hugs domahpet>

I agree. But I suppose everyone has pretty much got that notion from me, since I haven't quite been myself lately.

Merc? I see what you mean.

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:28:18 PM

Prinsexx

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lumus

I sure don't suck up.

..........pity *sighs*

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:32:17 PM

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People who come in acting like asses and insultin over half the population on here, are going to get flamed. And I think people who make idiots of themselves deserve it.

However I do wish people w*ould stop hijacking threads cause it amuses them. Even after mods delete half the comments and say stop this now, the hijackers will just post 5 more pages of bullshit.

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:33:47 PM

Lumus

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lumus

I sure don't suck up.

..........pity *sighs*

Oh, fine, fine: I'll amend it to say I don't believe in sucking up, and that any attempt on my part to do so would be transparently undevout. Probably explains why I don't fall into cliques, either. The up side is that you can expect what I say to be sincere, however incorrect.

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:37:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

I bet you also missed the part where he called all domme's fakes who just dominate cause their afraid to submit, and He was ripped and flamed because of his inflamatory statements. And because he put down a half of the population here with his snottyness and his backhanded posts.

quote:

ORIGINAL: domahpet

i just ran across this on another thread-

Banished from the forums by the vindictively judgemental cliques that live in here.
I get it now.
Unless one sucks up to 'The Players' in here.
You will not be tolerated.
Gotcha.

it is so becoming true lately,
and that really really fuckin sad.

flame rip shred me, defend yourself if this effects you in any way.
or even better, take a look and see if it can be changed.

fuckin sad i tell ya.

Well yourhandmyass, I didn't miss that at all. In fact I did respond to it. But apparently he was just here to bait those who responded to him with silliness. He was not interested in a real conversation.

quote:

Let me ask you this, domah (and everyone else); do you think he would have been interested in an honest, back and forth discussion?

And don't get discouraged

No, but think about the conversations we could have had with each other over his comments. I was very interested in the concept of what he said, and feel that we could have taken that thread and turned it into a positive conversation with each other, MINUS his comments. That is what the block is for, and to be honest I am feeling more and more like I am on many people's block list.

MoGa

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:37:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: domahpet

i just ran across this on another thread-

Banished from the forums by the vindictively judgemental cliques that live in here.
I get it now.
Unless one sucks up to 'The Players' in here.
You will not be tolerated.
Gotcha.

it is so becoming true lately,
and that really really fuckin sad.

flame rip shred me, defend yourself if this effects you in any way.
or even better, take a look and see if it can be changed.

fuckin sad i tell ya.

I use these message boards the same way I use astrology and fortune cookies.

read the message it gives you and search your self for how it can be applied.

I agree that the Snark levels are rather high lately... people take things to litterally or react in a negative way without trying to understand the intentions of the OP. or even if the intentions aren't great people can still add something of worth(or even humor) and instead it turns into a flame war...
in the end the worth of something is only what you take away from it.
still this site is better then many others i've been on so take what you can get.

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:48:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

No, but think about the conversations we could have had with each other over his comments. I was very interested in the concept of what he said, and feel that we could have taken that thread and turned it into a positive conversation with each other, MINUS his comments. That is what the block is for, and to be honest I am feeling more and more like I am on many people's block list.

MoGa

You certainly make a valid point, MoGa. And that does happen, sometimes, even if the OP is a dip, others pick up on a topic, and do some good with it.

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:50:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

No, but think about the conversations we could have had with each other over his comments. I was very interested in the concept of what he said, and feel that we could have taken that thread and turned it into a positive conversation with each other, MINUS his comments. That is what the block is for, and to be honest I am feeling more and more like I am on many people's block list.

MoGa

You certainly make a valid point, MoGa. And that does happen, sometimes, even if the OP is a dip, others pick up on a topic, and do some good with it.

Level,
Your ID fits you. You are level-headed. Thank you for answering. :)

Hugs,

MoGa

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:52:48 PM

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You are more than welcome, good lady *hugssssssssss*

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Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:55:27 PM

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I do think the snark level has been somewhat high lately. I haven't been posting a lot because of it. I did create a thread this morning, and I was nervous about doing so! I was very careful with my wording because at times I've seen posts picked apart for the smallest, eensiest of details, while disregarding the intent behind the post, and I really didn't want to see that happen.

I was very happy, however, with the quality, tone and helpfulness of those who replied, so there is hope.

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:57:41 PM

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And MoGa, I caught part of your post..... I'm sorry you deleted it.

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RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya - 5/3/2008 3:58:09 PM

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Everyone has to learn how to suck up some time. Might as well learn it here.

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