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Love and Kink


I want love with my D/s, but can do without
  30% (30)
I have to have both
  64% (64)
I want nothing to do with love
  6% (6)


Total Votes : 100
(last vote on : 8/29/2008 4:05:24 PM)
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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:07:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sasseeNshy

Love not required, however, a healthy mutual respect....with a lot of honesty is.


Well said
 
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Mistress Sabine wrote:

Funny how things change...my ex-love asked if we could be fuck buddies.... I found myself insulted. If love has died, so does the feeling for sex...?
Had I found myself in a relationship where there was good sex but no love, I dont think it would have lasted.


I think it does, for a lot of people, but moreso for women, than men.
 

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:07:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		With respect, MistressSabine, my humble opinion is that is what is the biggest problem with us chicks and "forward movement".  One can have sex without love (fun yippee), and well I don't think this is all about "sex", however, it helps...(grin)

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:07:57 PM   
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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:12:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sasseeNshy

With respect, MistressSabine, my humble opinion is that is what is the biggest problem with us chicks and "forward movement".  One can have sex without love (fun yippee), and well I don't think this is all about "sex", however, it helps...(grin)


You lusty wench.....
 
I would say that for some, sex without love is possible, or right, even.

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:14:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

When i lost my late husband i was so sure i would never...and i mean NEVER..love another man again. What changed my mind was the D/s relationships without the emotional attachment left me even emptier than i already was.


So, that led you to know that you needed both. Love can seem awfully far away, sometimes.

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:18:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		Awwwwwww Level....I do bow to your condemned poweress..(wink)....but yes I am one of those abynormal chicks...who believes in sex for sex...however I do confess to a sadistic learning curve that perhaps doesn't always give me what I want.....(bytch) yes I've heard that before......grin

I AM CANADIAN..(yes, the best of beer and bacon)

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:31:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Call me greedy, but I've got to have both. Oh, and there HAS GOT to be some lurve in the cocktail. Lots of it.

I know, I know, how abysmally vanilla of me  .

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:34:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Level
The tally so far:
 
Need both - 30
Want both - 11
Boo on love - 1


I updated the tally results for this post. An interesting side tally would have been to add the gender of the responder... not that you couldn't make an educated guess on how that line might break.

We have both in our relationship. I feel I could separate the two if we ceased to be us at some point. I'd probably almost have to divest the two. I am quite skeptical that there is another needle hiding in the haystack of life.

Edited for accuracy.



< Message edited by Evility -- 5/18/2008 2:36:01 PM >

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:34:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DragonLadysFire

What is love really?  Butterflys in your belly or a strong friendship and respect for eachother?  I am more for a respectful friend, cause butterflys only live so long...and can't really take a beating.


You don't believe love can last?

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:37:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sasseeNshy

Awwwwwww Level....I do bow to your condemned poweress..(wink)....but yes I am one of those abynormal chicks...who believes in sex for sex...however I do confess to a sadistic learning curve that perhaps doesn't always give me what I want.....(bytch) yes I've heard that before......grin

I AM CANADIAN..(yes, the best of beer and bacon)


Now, I wouldn't say it's "abnormal"....... sex for its own sake is great.....
 
Canadian....oh my, that explains it.....

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:41:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

Call me greedy, but I've got to have both. Oh, and there HAS GOT to be some lurve in the cocktail. Lots of it.

I know, I know, how abysmally vanilla of me  .


Hello gree, err, kittin.
 
I would NOT call you vanilla, and even if you were, what of it? Vanilla is a flavor too, dammit!

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
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Let go it's harder holding on
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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:42:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ah yes, Canadian, I can see how that may have umm captured your interest....strong dollar, strong bacon, strong beer...........if you blink we will intigrate poutine....our eh's...a few ouuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuts.....wiggle our Canadian beaver butts.......and well heck take over.....but (sheesh) we are being subtle about it

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:44:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Evility

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level
The tally so far:
 
Need both - 30
Want both - 11
Boo on love - 1


I updated the tally results for this post. An interesting side tally would have been to add the gender of the responder... not that you couldn't make an educated guess on how that line might break.

We have both in our relationship. I feel I could separate the two if we ceased to be us at some point. I'd probably almost have to divest the two. I am quite skeptical that there is another needle hiding in the haystack of life.

Edited for accuracy.




Thank you for the update.
 
I think it's best to be able to be content with just kink, as that gives one a better chance at being happy, but I hate the idea of not finding my own "needle".

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:46:37 PM   
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Ah yes, Canadian, I can see how that may have umm captured your interest....strong dollar, strong bacon, strong beer...........if you blink we will intigrate poutine....our eh's...a few ouuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuts.....wiggle our Canadian beaver butts.......and well heck take over.....but (sheesh) we are being subtle about it


Bacon, beer, beaver, and butts..... enough to bring a tear to my eye....
 
We may have to make you all our 51st state.....

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:49:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		I say bring it on Level...........give us all you can....and then some.....make it hurt - real bad................just like the song..........(evil leer)

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 2:59:48 PM   
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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 3:05:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, i am a very lucky gal i have found ONE whom is very loving and  firm also  smiles i adore Him so HE knows who HE is winks at  Master now

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 3:13:05 PM   
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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 3:15:32 PM   
sasseeNshy


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Status: offline 		With respect to you and your Master...........devila.........awsome pic........may I ask who your photographer is? (evil leer)

I AM CANADIAN (strong dollar, strong beer, strong bacon and damn near impregnable condoms...oh yeah...sun is out, massive flooding, igloos melting everywhere, flooding in 49 states.......bad Canuck bad bad)

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 3:19:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		hehe way to go sis blows your sweet adorable canadian slef a kiss from afar grin

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