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Love and Kink


I want love with my D/s, but can do without
  30% (30)
I have to have both
  64% (64)
I want nothing to do with love
  6% (6)


Total Votes : 100
(last vote on : 8/29/2008 4:05:24 PM)
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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 3:20:35 PM   
devila62


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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 3:21:46 PM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		If he is going to own me then I have to love him, and I need him to love me. In the beginning my Sir promised to give me his love because he knew I required it. However, he didn't feel that having love was a requirement for him to have a happy D/s relationship. He has sense changed his mind, but will argue vehemently, to anyone who will listen, on how love certainly complicates the D/s relationship. I just tune him out.

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 3:27:40 PM   
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quote:
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What is love really?  Butterflys in your belly or a strong friendship and respect for eachother?  I am more for a respectful friend, cause butterflys only live so long...and can't really take a beating.
quote:
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You don't believe love can last?

Not that love can't last but that the fairy tail "butterflys in you tummy" kind doesn't (IMO) stand the test of time like the quiet respect and friendship kind.

< Message edited by DragonLadysFire -- 5/18/2008 3:31:10 PM >

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 3:39:35 PM   
Aine


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Status: offline 		I've loved hard without it...

Now that I have both...I enjoy both, and within this particular relationship, it's required.

Now if things ever branch out....I will care as I do for my friends...but loving anyone else that I might end up playing with...no, I don't think I'd need to love them, not the way I love my Mate.


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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 3:54:51 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		If I am just going to be a play partner with someone then I do not need love. If I am going to have a relationship with them then I do need the love with the kink.

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 4:22:06 PM   
Level


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Status: offline 		39 need love
16 would like it
4 say phooey on it
 
I appreciate all the comments, good people.



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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 4:23:27 PM   
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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 4:27:25 PM   
rubberpet


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Status: offline 		I can have just the kink with just a play partner I'm really good friends with, but ultimately I'm happiest when I am in love with my domme.  I have the best of both worlds with Mistress.  I have a cruel, merciless domme on one side and a kind, loving girlfriend on the other.  That makes me a very happy pet!

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 4:30:59 PM   
Level


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

phooey?


It's on page 93 of the Doms Handbook, Vol. 6:

quote:

Most anything said by a Twue Dominate is Domly. This includes goober, neener neener, frrrrp, and phooey.


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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 4:35:48 PM   
DrkJourney


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Need some Cupid with your kink?


wow...I can't believe the percentage of people that say they need both.  How come these men are never the ones that contact me?  I seem to get every one of that small percentage that don't want love...lol

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 4:38:13 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DragonLadysFire

Not that love can't last but that the fairy tail "butterflys in you tummy" kind doesn't (IMO) stand the test of time like the quiet respect and friendship kind.


Ahh, gotcha.  You're likely right, but I  hope to prove you wrong. Having said that, the kind you speak about is nothing to sneeze at.

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 4:39:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DrkJourney

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

Need some Cupid with your kink?


wow...I can't believe the percentage of people that say they need both.  How come these men are never the ones that contact me?  I seem to get every one of that small percentage that don't want love...lol


Hi pretty lady. Well, keep in mind, it may be mostly women that are voting that way.

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 4:43:24 PM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		Hi pretty lady. Well, keep in mind, it may be mostly women that are voting that way.

sigh...yeah I thought so....but it was a dream that maybe there were some men in there too....and I didn't read past the first page just to continue my dream.....LOL

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 4:45:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DrkJourney

Hi pretty lady. Well, keep in mind, it may be mostly women that are voting that way.

sigh...yeah I thought so....but it was a dream that maybe there were some men in there too....and I didn't read past the first page just to continue my dream.....LOL


Well there are, ya know.... just not as many as the ladies

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
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Let go it's harder holding on
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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 4:47:42 PM   
MstrVik


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Status: offline 		I can surely enjoy it without the love mixed in, but I guess it's fair to say it's a richer experience when it's there. It's like I enjoy my coffee even more with a little sugar in it.

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 5:00:17 PM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		yeah and not a one of them can get to me because I'm the human flypaper for hng's...lol  and I'm so covered with them that the guys I want can't even see me    wow, that felt good to get it off my chest

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 5:00:59 PM   
SleepyDom


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Status: offline 		I need hate, absolute loathing hate.  She has to be a bitch (but gorgeous) to maximize my satisfaction at whipping the hell out of her, humiliating her, and degrading her.

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 5:07:58 PM   
Mercnbeth


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Don't need "love" but need emotions. I find it impossible to bring any energy to a scene without knowing and having an emotional connection on some level with the other person. "Love" spans a spectrum. Lets just say that I require some "love" or else the interaction and sensations generated are 'clinical'. 

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 5:12:04 PM   
rubberpet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DrkJourney

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

Need some Cupid with your kink?


wow...I can't believe the percentage of people that say they need both.  How come these men are never the ones that contact me?  I seem to get every one of that small percentage that don't want love...lol


That just shows all the good ones are taken...LOL.

Seriously, I feel for you...it was hard to find a domme that wanted love and D/s.  Most that I had the unenviable pleasure of communicating with seemed to only want a sugar daddy.  It was quite depressing.

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RE: Love and Kink - 5/18/2008 5:15:00 PM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

phooey?


It's on page 93 of the Doms Handbook, Vol. 6:

quote:

Most anything said by a Twue Dominate is Domly. This includes goober, neener neener, frrrrp, and phooey.



i apologize to Level...the Twue Domly Dominate...


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