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RE: Edge Players Only - 6/5/2008 8:25:07 AM

OmegaG

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OP, you remind me of a person I am disassociating myself with. She wants support, always support. She's dating a man now that she's had long term relationships with 3 times in the past. She doesn't want me to tell her that the fourth time won't be any different then the first 3, anytime I say any words of caution she whines that I don't want her to be happy, that I like seeing her alone and miserable, that I don't need to rehash the past expereinces with this man as she knows what happened. Basically, she wants me to support her, to pat her on the back and tell her that everything is wonderful and to validate her decision.

Of course like the last time when she also wouldn't listen to any words of caution, she'll want me to be there to pick up the pieces when it all blows up and she's left wondering what went wrong (again).

People are giving you information because they know that this kind of play is just crazy dangerous, they tell you this not to beat up on you, but because they are as concerned about you as a person on the internet can be. Because they don't want to have to console someone who read this thread and tried the activity anyway and come back for support when things go horribly wrong.

I don't want you or anybody to feel the headache that I felt when my spinal column was nicked (by an anesthesiologist) especially when there is a choice not to take that chance, no more then I want the person in my life to suffer yet another break up with the same man.

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RE: Edge Players Only - 6/5/2008 12:15:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: subedge

Before I start, please dont bother posting "this is dangerous" ... thats why its called edge play.

Anyway, Why would a Dom want to do a lumber puncture? Cant find anything on the net.

Damn after reading a few post I must have got it wrong. I read it as "lumber puncture" Thought maybe it was a broomstick up the ass or something???

Confused...

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RE: Edge Players Only - 6/5/2008 1:22:13 PM

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So first she says, that by the quality of the answers she could tell it was a mind fuck. In other words that she learned something of how serious a "lumber puncture" is by the responses.

Then she says she has had one and knows what it entails.

Does something about these 2 responses say "does not compute" to anyone besides me? If she knew what was involved, then she had to know the dom's suggesting it was a mind fuck. Period.

The OP was a mind fuck. Period.

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RE: Edge Players Only - 6/5/2008 3:43:58 PM

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i dont think a lumbar puncture was ever likely - i think la la land coincided with boredom along with a lack of anything else to post and an innate overwhelming need for attention.

if you step out of your sane box and dip a careful toe into the land of la la you will see an odd selection of types that make you very happy to step back into your sane box.

even the title 'Edge Players Only' is irritating