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My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get a M... - 6/2/2008 7:28:49 PM

MAllan8958

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I found out on the weekend my wife has been collared by her Master. She says she loves me and that this is just a role for her, like community theatre. We've already had a few heated discussuions about this, because of the sex aspect. I'm not thrilled with another man having sex with my wife. She says it's meaningless sex and suggested perhaps I should get a Mistress.

So my question to the group is ... should I?

I'm very curious about the scene and I'm not sure I'd make a good sub, but again I'm really really curious.

Any advice would be helpful.

Thanks.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:31:00 PM

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If she did this without your consent-I'd do something a lot more serious than just look for your own piece on the side were I you.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:31:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MAllan8958

I found out on the weekend my wife has been collared by her Master. She says she loves me and that this is just a role for her, like community theatre. We've already had a few heated discussuions about this, because of the sex aspect. I'm not thrilled with another man having sex with my wife. She says it's meaningless sex and suggested perhaps I should get a Mistress.

So my question to the group is ... should I?

I'm very curious about the scene and I'm not sure I'd make a good sub, but again I'm really really curious.

Any advice would be helpful.

Thanks.

One word:

"Cuckold"

(Deal with it).

(Be aware...she has the pussy).

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:32:08 PM

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I dunno; can you say "please Mistress, may this lowly worm have another?" with a straight face?

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:32:27 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Griswold

quote:

ORIGINAL: MAllan8958

I found out on the weekend my wife has been collared by her Master. She says she loves me and that this is just a role for her, like community theatre. We've already had a few heated discussuions about this, because of the sex aspect. I'm not thrilled with another man having sex with my wife. She says it's meaningless sex and suggested perhaps I should get a Mistress.

So my question to the group is ... should I?

I'm very curious about the scene and I'm not sure I'd make a good sub, but again I'm really really curious.

Any advice would be helpful.

Thanks.

One word:

"Cuckold"

(Deal with it).

The last time a woman pulled this shit on me-she was out the door with my foot in her ass-literally-with her shit tossed behind her.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:33:13 PM

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It doesn't sound like the right reaction to this is to get yourself a Mistress...

seems like apples and oranges...

sounds like you and your wife need to work a few things out

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:34:18 PM

MissSepphora1

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I believe this is all good, no EXCELLENT, grounds for divorce.
Contact a lawyer.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:35:13 PM

RedMagic1

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I was going to write something here, but I decided to take a deep breath instead.

Dude. What the hell is really going on?

Serious question.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:35:21 PM

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I was ONLY kidding!

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:36:06 PM

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Agreed. You seem to have a very strange marriage. Perhaps counselling might be more help than finding someone to do while the wifes out fucking some other guys brains out.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:36:20 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

I believe this is all good, no EXCELLENT, grounds for divorce.
Contact a lawyer.

Eh...most states are no-fault now anyway. None of the fun he-said she-said anymore...

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:37:28 PM

ownedgirlie

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Community theater and meaningless sex. Do you believe her?

I think you both need marriage counseling before taking any further steps.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:38:19 PM

Leatherist

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Sure, but changing the door locks while she is out fucking the dude might give her a clue.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:38:32 PM

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quote:

I found out on the weekend my wife has been collared by her Master. She says she loves me and that this is just a role for her, like community theatre. We've already had a few heated discussuions about this, because of the sex aspect. I'm not thrilled with another man having sex with my wife. She says it's meaningless sex and suggested perhaps I should get a Mistress.

So my question to the group is ... should I?

I'm very curious about the scene and I'm not sure I'd make a good sub, but again I'm really really curious.

Any advice would be helpful.

Thanks.

This can't be effin real.....

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:40:43 PM

lilmissdefiant

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well that totally depends on how You feel about it? Do You actually want to get a Mistress?

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:41:34 PM

xxblushesxx

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Well, no...but...it's awfully fun, inn't it?

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:43:31 PM

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She should not have accepted a collar or even started this relationship without discussing the implications and consequences with you.
If you are having sex with someone other than your spouse with their blessing, it's polyamory. Without their blessing, it's cheating.
And personally, a man who would collar another man's wife without the three of them discussing what that means for the three of them is not a man I'd want to be involved with, even tangentially.
The solution is not to go tit-for-tat on this. It's to discuss with your wife why she thought that making an extramarital commitment was OK without your consent, and maybe to consider if you want her to stay your wife.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:44:11 PM

BBWnNC72

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Well hell, it sounds like she found a good way to cheat on ya.
i noticed in your list of dislikes that you have poly listed. If it was me, i would seriously consider your needs right now and what you want for the future, not just evening the score.

If you still want to be married to her, i would consider counceling, a really good all the cards on the table, no holds barred communication session with a moderater.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:45:09 PM

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/2/2008 7:47:50 PM

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Maybe that's why his wife felt the need to find a Master.

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