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laura2161 -> RE: Face Slapping (6/3/2008 7:40:11 PM)

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I absolutely adore being slapped in the face. Instant and complete turn-on and I melt. I don't find it humilating at all. The intensity of it makes me feel closer to the Man. It's primal to me and puts me into an instant head space.....Especially when you are not even expecting it and a hard smack comes out of left field and you're left with the stingy,pink or light red mark across your cheek....And when you catch your breath and look at him, he slaps you a couple more times in fast succession---Ahhh 'fans self'.



slavegirljoy -> RE: Face Slapping (6/3/2008 7:43:38 PM)

i love being slapped by my Master, not by just anyone.  He slaps my face hard and, usually completely out-of-the-blue, so it takes me by surprise.  He slaps me about the head and often makes my ears ring and rattles my brain a bit, which might make some think, "So, that explains it." but, seriously, i was like this long before i met Him.
 
One thing that has never happened to me is to feel any sort of intense reaction to something typed to me over the internet.  Those little things are fun to read and are titillating to think about, knowing that He is going to do these things to me, later, in real life.  But, it's not going to have any impact on me, outside of feeling anticipation for what's coming.
 
joy
Owned servant of Master David



Trashbagboy74 -> RE: Face Slapping (6/3/2008 7:54:14 PM)

I think Face Slapping is in need for your Master or Mistress to do. I know when i am mad or angry then that means when she does it i get even madder. I like not to think that i am upset or Mad at someone. Face Slapping is good to the sub/slave because it will keep him/her in line. I have a Mentor and she is a Dom/Mistress and she is really strict about things in the lifestyle. One of her things is the she loves to slap or subs/slaves around. I told her that when i come down to Va that she needs to give me a Face Slap so i know where my place is with her. I have not Played since i left Va and now is getting hard for me to get back into Playing. and i have asked her if she could give me a good Face Slap because i been bad.



Rayne58 -> RE: Face Slapping (6/3/2008 8:37:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Trashbagboy74

I think Face Slapping is in need for your Master or Mistress to do.


Not mine.  He doesn't go there.

quote:

Face Slapping is good to the sub/slave because it will keep him/her in line.


It's not necessary for Him to "keep me in line".  It might be a good thing for you, but for me it would take me somewhere that neither of us have any wish for me to go. [sm=hardlimit.gif]




Lordandmaster -> RE: Face Slapping (6/3/2008 8:40:58 PM)

Darling, I think it's important to remember that he didn't actually slap your face.

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ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

i was in an IM with a very dear Dom friend of mine when he said He was slapping my face...hard.  My reaction was out of proportion, considering all He'd really done is type.  i felt immediately like closing the IM and never speaking to Him again...an impluse i wisely controlled.
 
i wondered if anyone else has such a violent and bad reaction to face slapping.  To me it's just total and instant degradation.



pinksugarsub -> RE: Face Slapping (6/3/2008 9:39:41 PM)

Thanks for the replies P/pl; i appreciate it.  i agree...it was weird to react so strongly on-line...i dun usually feel very engaged in an IM.
 
i suspect i'll never accept face slapping but i'm willing to listen to people like dark, and suspend judgment till the time comes in r/l.
 
pinksugarsub



Quivver -> RE: Face Slapping (6/3/2008 9:49:11 PM)

I've struggled with the idea of Face Slapping.  Old Childhood chit that still feels like yesterday always comes to mind. 
Since I had broken a `protocal` of sorts back then I guess I deserved it and that's the problem now... I think I'd have
to `do` something to deserve it.  Believe it or not, I'm usually pretty well behaved. 



bashfulhuck -> RE: Face Slapping (6/4/2008 1:20:17 AM)

Alot of us come into our adult lifes with some sort of touch issues. Goodness knows i did. Prior to me going to massage school, the only person that was ever able to touch my neck, face and head without me completely freaking out was my Domina. After her death, nobody could get near that part of my body.
My first term in Massage school was a very healing experience for me though. It took me by complete surprise when i was on the table getting a massage by another male student, and he started doing neck and head work on me. i was in that massage state of mind, so i was very relaxed and didn't freak out on him, but i did have an emotional release. Luckily for me, he had a great natural touch, and both of my instructors came over to me and just put there hands on me and gave me comfort.
Those issues came from me having been a severely severely abused child, and all the years i worked as a bouncer and having people punch me, kick me, and do everyother heinous thing they could do to me.
Now though, if i'm with a Domina, and she slaps the hell out of me, it really gets me humming. It's wierd how we grow and change as human beings. A simple thing like me going to Massage School actually changed a hard limit for me, and made it one of my favorite, most intimate things that can be done to me by a Lady.
We all experience trauma of some sort in our lives, how we deal with it determines where our lives take us imo.

Peace and serenity to you all



trusting -> RE: Face Slapping (6/4/2008 4:40:58 AM)

i do not know that i would have responded at all had it been in an IM...  maybe you should tell Him of your dislike in face slapping before He offends you without His knowledge.

personally, i LOVE face slapping... just haven't figured out why just yet!



RavenMuse -> RE: Face Slapping (6/4/2008 5:08:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: metalmiss
However, in the right context and circumstances, when enough trust and respect is built i have found face slapping can be a very pleasing and almost erotic thing. In that situation the degredation becomes a positive thing in my experience and it becomes very enjoyable. With my Master - an instant turn on.


*g* It is one of those 'hot buttons' I have found with many submissives, if you misjudge the stability of the Dynamic then the reaction can be a bad one, BUT as My girl indicates there, if the Dynamic and trust is a strong one then it can change the headspace in an instant (playing with different headspaces is a favorate of Mine) From a cheeky feisty bantering girl right down to a non-verbal pliant creature who wants nothing more than to curl up around her Masters boots. It can literaly take their breath away in a most delicious fashion.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Face Slapping (6/4/2008 5:19:41 AM)

Daddy doesn't need to resort to something so painful on my face to "keep me in line". 

perhaps it does for YOUR submissive/slave but it wouldn't for me.



gypsygrl -> RE: Face Slapping (6/4/2008 5:55:02 AM)

For the time being, I can't tolerate face slapping.  There have been times I loved it, but right now it brings up really bad feelings that I don't want to deal with in the middle of a scene.  I think in the right context, I could work through that block, but it would involve a high level of trust and intimacy 'cause I'm pretty sure its going to involve alot of emotional turmoil on my part.  Its not something I'm going to mess around with casually.

I can have reactions to things that happen in cyberspace.  I pay attention to those reactions as they  give me some indication of what might happen in a face to face encounter.  If I react negatively, I know its an area I need to at least be careful with and convey that info to d-types.  A positive reaction is just as significant.





GoddessTeaze -> RE: Face Slapping (6/4/2008 8:01:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: bashfulhuck

Alot of us come into our adult lifes with some sort of touch issues. Goodness knows i did. Prior to me going to massage school, the only person that was ever able to touch my neck, face and head without me completely freaking out was my Domina. After her death, nobody could get near that part of my body.
My first term in Massage school was a very healing experience for me though. It took me by complete surprise when i was on the table getting a massage by another male student, and he started doing neck and head work on me. i was in that massage state of mind, so i was very relaxed and didn't freak out on him, but i did have an emotional release. Luckily for me, he had a great natural touch, and both of my instructors came over to me and just put there hands on me and gave me comfort.
Those issues came from me having been a severely severely abused child, and all the years i worked as a bouncer and having people punch me, kick me, and do everyother heinous thing they could do to me.
Now though, if i'm with a Domina, and she slaps the hell out of me, it really gets me humming. It's wierd how we grow and change as human beings. A simple thing like me going to Massage School actually changed a hard limit for me, and made it one of my favorite, most intimate things that can be done to me by a Lady.
We all experience trauma of some sort in our lives, how we deal with it determines where our lives take us imo.

Peace and serenity to you all

Firstly I would like to say that I admire your openness,
how you tell things how they are for you.

And secondly it's fabulous to see how you did so much
growing to be able to let someone massage you,
and surrender,  because massaging someone means
fully surrender !
[:)]
And damn aint that lovely to feel? I can never get enough of that Myself.
[:D]
That last line is so true, We all get our shit, it just matters
how we we turn it around, and let it make Us stronger!

I wish you enough.

~*~
And to pinksugarsub,

Take your own feelings serious,
and respond towards them.
If it doesn't feel right, whereever you're
It just doesn't, so say : I don't like this.

you arent wierd you hear? you're pretty normal !

B safe lilone.


GoddezzT`



brattybrandi -> RE: Face Slapping (6/4/2008 8:11:12 AM)

Having my face slapped during scene play evokes a very bad reaction in me. (depending how it's done) If I'm being very compliant, and doing what I'm told, being a good girl so to speak & I get slapped in the face it enrages me. I feel the anger rise up. And it throws me completely out of the mind set I was in. It has gone to the point of ruining a scene for me.
   If I'm not behaving, and I'm acting like a brat which I sometimes do & if it's something i deserve, that is a different reaction. It knocks me back into a more submissive state.
 
   (In the situation you spoke of, in a IM during online play. I think I would have "LOL" and said try it Mr. see what happens. But I don't do any online play anymore.)



lapgirl -> RE: Face Slapping (6/4/2008 9:06:57 AM)

i have really enjoyed reading this thread.  i  have been slapped, lightly, on my cheek twice.  The first time i was stunned.  It was totally unexpected and meant to get my attention, which it did.  My gutteral reaction was to slug him one, and then i saw his face.. those dark eyes and i just lost myself and was accepting of it.  He has slapped me one other time, it does get my attention for sure.  He does not slap hard, its not punishment.  Am i fond of it?... still trying to really figure that out. At this point i would say tolerant. It has its place at times, but not something i crave. i am more of the pleasure giving, sensual side  and slowly gaining some experiences involving pain. 



Darkhaven80 -> RE: Face Slapping (6/4/2008 10:28:43 AM)

It's strange, but I'm not into the whole degredation / humilation factor...yet I LOVE face slapping. So no, for some reason I don't find it offensive, just highly sensual and exciting. 



tigerseye -> RE: Face Slapping (6/4/2008 10:34:09 AM)

for a while face slapping was a big no-no for me and my Master fully understood my feelings and negative emotions behind it.  but as time progressed and we began exploring and pushing through some limits i discovered i didn't mind it as terribly as i once did.  i trust him fully and i know that he would never push past that line between play and abusivness.  it is very humiliating for me, but i think that's why i like it.  to see him kneeling over me, both my hands or throat in one of his hands, and him lightly popping my face brings the world into a very sharp focas ^_^



tinytemptingone -> RE: Face Slapping (6/4/2008 11:00:40 AM)

Due to issue in my past, face slapping has been a limit for me. The right person might help me get past that..

It is very humiliating...but I after reading these posts can see how it could be centering as well.

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Evility -> RE: Face Slapping (6/4/2008 2:27:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: brattybrandi
If I'm being very compliant, and doing what I'm told, being a good girl so to speak & I get slapped in the face it enrages me. I feel the anger rise up.


I know this is not the point you are trying to make here... but damn, that's hot.



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