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RE: Best Place To Meet Dominant Women. - 6/9/2008 7:50:34 PM

slavekal

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I know you met me there, but who is this fine sub of which you speak?

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RE: Best Place To Meet Dominant Women. - 6/9/2008 8:14:38 PM

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Why thank you very much *smiles .Perhaps one day there will be a warehouse filled with people and we can go in and pluck them off a shelf or be plucked like a fan belt at pepboys .Yet that day has not come yet and this all takes time and effort , more than just posting a profile on a site .

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ORIGINAL: mztresn0w

I have to agree with azropedntied. I don't understand why people think if they attend one or two events that a Domme or Dom is going to just fall into their lap. It is hard enough in the vanilla world to find the right partner. This isn't e-harmony. But it is a great site to meet people. I have meet alot of wonderful people in my area and all I am looking for is friendship.

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RE: Best Place To Meet Dominant Women. - 6/9/2008 8:48:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: UnspeakableAxe

I preface this question with the fact that I don't mean to offend any of the sincere dominant women on this site.

While I wish collarme were the best place to meet dominant women, experience has shown otherwise.
I could go on and on about how the ratio of subs to Dommes makes it next to impossible to cut through all of the emails that dominant women get. If I spend hours composing sincere emails, it's rare that I get a reply unless its from a guy posing as a woman or from a ProDomme. That begs the question. If a BDSM focused dating site isn't the best place to meet dominant women my age (I'm 33), what is the best place?

Going to local events isn't any better since most women who do go to events will attend with a date. Are vanilla dating sites the way to go?

Please don't say munches, the quality of people that show up at most munches are.....well....yeah.

Any thoughts or advice would be very helpful.

Consider debate forums.

http://www.volconvo.com/forums

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RE: Best Place To Meet Dominant Women. - 6/9/2008 10:47:01 PM

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OP,

Just for the record, I'm a "sincere dominant female"...and, you know, I'm not getting all those emails. I grant you, I'm not a svelte (the Norse word means starved) young hottie, but I don't think I repel people visually. As a point of fact, it has now been weeks since I got any emails on CM except a note from a friend after I posted something on the Poly board. I've stopped spending much time here on CM, because except for the boards, it's a waste of MY time. When I need a little info on some aspect of kink I've not run into before...it's a great resource. Beyond that? online chat play, and a few real people. Trying to spend more of my time meeting real people in real time.

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