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DaddyMastersgirl -> How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 7:19:48 PM)

Your answer please.



jlf1961 -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 7:21:49 PM)

I read "The Story of O" at age 13 and was hooked.



angelwithhonor -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 7:25:21 PM)

................a co worker..............and at first i thought it was like ummmmmmmm you want to tie me up and whattttttttt???? grins.....then i knew this is what i have felt my whole life...i will always respect and want to serve the Dominant male.....[:D]



Sandyshores29718 -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 7:27:42 PM)

Well, when i was younger i had these dreams that were quite interesting..Though in them i was the Domme. i was 17 at that time and i had tied up and gagged my high school bf cause it was fun.  Fast forward a couple years to age 20 and a couple friends and i were joking around about bdsm. One was into bdsm, gave me a site to read. i read the site in 2 days. Castlerelam. Well, i asked for more information and got a good amount of books for him. That was 8months ago and ive never been so happy. 6months after the site i finally got to feel my first taste of leather and i was hooked. :)



vampchick88 -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 7:41:10 PM)

At sixteen I wanted to tie my at the time b/f who was completely vanilla up to the bed or at least use handcuffs. I had always heard about "kinky sex" and wanted to know just how extreme it got. One day I asked if I could cut him with a knife to see him bleed, he said sure, then bolted out the door running around his house screaming "get that f****ing bitch away from me" thats when I began to know I was a little....different[;)] In college english I was asked to research a topic of interest and write a full report on it, so I researched different fetishes and of all things bdsm popped up, the pain, the lust, the intensity....finially I knew I had found a place where there were others who had the same desires, kinks, and thoughts I did. I got an A on my report along with my professor who said that I had picked an interesting topic which described things she never knew existed...who knew I'd learn all about that in college!

I'm sure glad I discovered it and through trial and error with different people who just weren't the match I was looking for I've since met my beloved pet on this site. I've been the happiest Domme every since, he is my light, my joy, and my One who understands my particular kinks and pleasures.
~Lorelei



AquaticSub -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 7:47:44 PM)

Friends.



hazelmae -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 7:50:42 PM)

I started out being interested in just spanking and learned about it from people on the spanking chat sites.



earthycouple -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 7:51:50 PM)

I looked for it.  I knew I couldn't be the only one like me.



TheIronHorse -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 7:51:51 PM)

Computer BBS some 20 years ago. 

And

The Chicago Reader.



jim64 -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 8:09:58 PM)

A fetish ball lead to my first  flogging. That lead to local groups and munches. Luckily, my Domme/Wife has been there the whole way. Getting close to a year now and we are still learning. 



azropedntied -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 8:15:32 PM)

there's a lifestyle ?is it like being a rock groopie ?nascar?

BDSM kink fetish has Always been within me , even before al gore invented the internet .



LivingInSin -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 8:22:28 PM)

I watched "Exit to Eden" when I was fifteen then discovered bondage.com.



MastersMaiden -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 8:35:10 PM)

lol
always wanted to be tied up and spanked since i was a teen, i heard the term bdsm in highschool, looked it up, and voila!
:)



d1ll1gaf -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 8:43:09 PM)

Ever since I first started to notice girls I fantasized about hurting them. I first realized that their where others who shared the same desires when I was 16 and stumbled a BDSM story site (don't remember which one) while doing what all 16 year old boys do when their parents are in bed (i.e. look for porn).



jim64 -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 10:22:01 PM)

I have heard something about a lifestyle. I do not fit into most styles. I have had some really cool fantasies since i was a kid. Starting to make them real. If i really want to be part of this lifestyle, i will have to go find some really cool fetish clothing! That will make all my dreams come true. . . 



idontknowdou -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 10:25:01 PM)

from a friend who was in it



pinksugarsub -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 10:28:54 PM)

i was in a 'vanilla' chat room on a site called 'Talk City'.  A Man took me to PM and told me He was a 'Dominant'; then abruptly left.
 
Intrigued, i Googled the word and found "Castlerealm'.
 
i was shocked, amazed and thrilled.
 
They had a link to CollarMe, so i put up a profile.  Luckily i also found a Mentor within the week, and He taught me what the different kinks listed on CM meant, etc.
 
Gawd bless the 'net.  It was only 3 years ago.
 
pinksugarsub



slavegirljoy -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 10:30:33 PM)

Never really knew about "The BDSM Lifestyle", until i got on CM and TSR about 3 years ago.  Up until that point, i had just always enjoyed kinky sex, including B&D and S&M in my intimate relationships, since i was 21, when i started dating my kinky and Dominant first husband, who got me into it.
 
joy
Owned servant of Master David



VioletAshes -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/14/2008 11:58:03 PM)

BDSM always appealed to me in one form or another. It is only now that I have come to know myself well and found a trustworthy partner that I have indulged with interest.



chickpea -> RE: How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle? (6/15/2008 12:42:25 AM)

getting tied up or caged or confined always appealed to me when i was young.  and then i dated and then i wanted my bf to tie me up.  weird request.  then i by chance looked up bondage on the internet and found bondage.com in summer of 2003.  and the rest is history



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