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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/16/2008 10:52:40 PM

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I'm inspired to add some more detail. Whoever said don't start by diving in on the clit is correct, imo. Start by an appreciative visual and hand exploration. Then, run your toungue and wet mouth up and down each labia majora. Linger and tease. Nibble each one with your lips and very gently, your teeth. Then the inner lips. Be sure to take your time and be thorough. Explore with your lips and tongue. Try a li'l tongue fucking. If you are feeling adventurous, explore that li'l brown eye'd rosebud with your tongue.

When she is humping your face, move to her clit. Some clits are very sensitive. Again, pay attention to her reactions. Start with the hood of her clit Suck as well as lick. Slurp.And, as has been noted, don't foget to use your fingers and hands.

Is it getting warm in here ?

umm.. YES.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 1:42:30 AM

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Thank you all for all the help you've given me. I hope to try this next time we are together. I will look at some of the articles, and definitely keep you posted on the results. I just figured if she does oral for me, why can't I do oral for her too ya know.

Wait till ya get to 69, little brother. Yum yum, nothin' like it.

Get a little education and read up on clitoral anatomy. I'll bet not one man in 1000 knows how large the average clit really is.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 7:16:10 AM

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Three words.

Locate the clit.

Yea, locate it, and then leave it alone while you explore the rest of the area. Most women don't like it when you home in on the clit and attack. Take your time, it will still be there, when she is ready.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 7:39:00 AM

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Three words.

Locate the clit.

Yea, locate it, and then leave it alone while you explore the rest of the area. Most women don't like it when you home in on the clit and attack. Take your time, it will still be there, when she is ready.

I agree 100% with this one, in fact i'll take it one step further. Ignore Smith's advice, trust me, once you've followed the advice others have given you, you won't have trouble finding her clit, it will present itself to you *winks*.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 9:18:26 AM

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After having read this thread, oh, 40 or 50 times, I can confidently say it is my favorite thread.

Ever.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 9:24:45 AM

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No kidding!! I don't even LIKE oral all that much and I keep coming back here!

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 9:26:06 AM

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I love oral, have not had any in ages, and proclaim this one of my favorite threads!

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 9:31:12 AM

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Oh, and if she turns out to be an ear grabber, you might want to think about your oxygen supply. You can use one of these, and just throw the free end over your shoulder. I'd trim the tubing to a foot long or so, and take off any valves so the room air is free-flowing.

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Well, yes. Cali's suggestion is one way to go. Here's another.
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0006NX4JK/ref=nosim/?tag=nextag-apparel-tier2-20&creative=380333&creativeASIN=B0006NX4JK&linkCode=asn

It's a li'l pricey, but, imo, ya get what ya pay for.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 9:33:38 AM

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CJ? Are you sure that was the correct link? Cuz frankly, I'm grossed out, and not in a good way.

Edited to say... okay, you changed the link, but I still don't "get it". I posted a link to nasal tubing so you could go down and still breathe. What's a fur hat got to do with it? I is soooo confuzzled.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 9:37:59 AM

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Um, Cali. notice the ear flaps ? The beaver still gives the lady the option to grab and steer, but not so much control that the poor lad can't breath, at least Australian crawl style.

Are you sure you've done this before, dear ?

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 9:38:11 AM

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Eeew. Maybe it's made from pubes.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 9:39:58 AM

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Oh, I get it now... no, that would be wrong wrong wrong. You're not helping. There's too much geekiness in that hat, and some of us would be tempted to blast it with a shotgun first and ask questions later. (fair warning)

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 9:41:38 AM

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Oh, I loves me some geek!! Especially GRRRRRL geek!! <looks around for Gwyn>

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 9:42:45 AM

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Are you sure you've done this before, dear ?

Keep it up mister, see where THAT gets you.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 9:55:36 AM

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Oooo, I just love it when ya go all butch, Cali. It's soooo cute.

Now, can we get back to the topic, please ? It's become one of my fav threads too.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 9:58:23 AM

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Get yourself into a modified 69 position with the two of you laying alongside each other as aposed to one on top of the other. Dont position yourself in a manner where she can necesarily reach you... you want to be able to get at her and have good access to her parts. From that position you can use both your hands and your mouth at the same time... however dont use your hands to start. Begin by licking and lightly sucking on the outer lips and as she becomes aroused work your way more towards between the lips... Keep your movement less predictable and uneven at the begining. As the woman get aroused and her clit gets hard and she begins to get really wet then move more frequently towards the clitors along the tendon like structure benieth the hood... not on the tip. Dont actually penetrate the woman with anything until her pussy is really swollen and wet. Then use your tongue around the opening. When she begins to buck you can insert a finger and move your mouth up towards the clit and her outer lips. When you stick your finger in first work at getting it wet by pushing it in ... once wet work on loosening her up a little... even though she dosnt really need to be loosened up you need to open up the interior (you will understand it when you get there) After that insert at least one more finger and rub along the roof with ocasional pulling out and getting the outer opening. When she is begining to work for the orgasm then start rythmic motions with your tongue around the shaft part of the clit and with your fingers. When the woman orgasms try to keep everything at a somewhat consistant pace... when it subsides push your fingers deep in and let her feel filled for a minute... use her body motions to determine how much stimulation to give.. start our very general and work into the detailed.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 10:01:33 AM

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I would not suggest simultaneous play for the first session downtown. Too distracting. This needs to be all about her. You need to get good at the mouth-on-top-fingers-below position before you mix it up.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 12:16:47 PM

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I agree... it should be all about her... but ... in that position with the guy on his side its easier as in you can get your toungue in deeper as aposed to just being between the legs. Also if you just get between the legs then the toungue crosses the tip of the clitoris on the uplick which can be to much to start... in a 69 sort of position the lick over the clitoris follows the clitoral shaft over the hood so that the hood gets extended over the tip and helps protect. When the woman is penetrated with fingers it then expands the clitoral hood horizontaly which then fully exposes the end of the clit on the down stroke so that when the fingers penetrate it goes to direct stimulation as aposed to inderect stimulation when the hood is in the relaxed position.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 12:55:55 PM

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I prefer to stick to the basics. Too much fancy footwork is overrated, imo.

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RE: Eating out for the first time - 6/17/2008 5:16:17 PM

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Damnit.. I Knew I shoulda stayed away from this thread.... *muttergrumblegripebitchcomplain* Now I'm gonna have to go take a long cold shower before I fix dinner that the BBQ thread made me crave....

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