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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/21/2008 5:53:43 PM   
ToOwnATrueSlave


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It sadens me to see what started out to be such a nice thread get ruined by one person making so many assumptions about a persons life and situation from a small snip-it of a very complex situation......seems to happen alot....perhaps now we can get back to the origanl topic

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/21/2008 5:53:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: came4U
you mentioned him, I didn't even notice his post. 

Who do I have to remind people of what they say? I don't make mistakes like this and I find it quite moronic to explain someone's own words to them.


Why do I have to say the same damn thing over and over?
Show me where I mentioned him as fodder for you opinion.

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You posted that Mr. nosey at work was questioning your submission, aka your orientation.  You allowed it to continue instead of confronting someone of seniority to have them deal with it. THAT is what I am talking about.  Don't change MY words around or are you not pretending and are that forgetful or dense to what you posted 30 mins previous?


My orientation?
"Well...he started pestering me about my 'submissive' tendencies and how I always do things when someone asks, apologize if they're not good enough, and sometimes even beat myself up for it"
There, I helped you out by providing a quote. Point out where he is questioning my sexual orientation.

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You admited in this thread that more or less you let things slip intentionally. so did that also slip? Knowing Mr. Nosey was hangin' about?

I didn't know he was hanging around.

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I don't know exactly.  Why don't you re-read your own statement and tell us how it went from Mr. Nosey at work to the entire office thinking less of you that you left??

Who said I left on account of that? You're really bad at this assumptions thing. Maybe you ought to re-read what I wrote. And when did I say that the office thought less of me?
In a way I don't care, in another way, when shit went down and everyone had their heads up their asses and were being really cruel to me, I wish they hadn't known 
I never said that the cause of my coming out to a co-worker had brought on the cruelty. I was saying that when they did become cruel, I wish they hadn't known. Again, I don't like revealing anything about myself to people who can go fuck off, co-worker or not. They don't deserve to know me if they're going to be stupid.

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Your problem, since you think that disclosing is so great, why do you even complain about it?

Again, the assumptions can be a bitch.
I never said I was complaining about it, I was just relating my tales to other people who were also relating their tales.


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Blahblahblahbsblahblahblah

The only reason I told him anything was because I thought we were on the same page. If I had known that they were going to go spreading it around to everyone I wouldn't have told them. That is kind of the same thing with nearly anything anyone ever says. It's a risk you take by being social.

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/21/2008 5:57:45 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ToOwnATrueSlave

It sadens me to see what started out to be such a nice thread get ruined by one person making so many assumptions about a persons life and situation from a small snip-it of a very complex situation......seems to happen alot....perhaps now we can get back to the origanl topic


Tis very sad indeed.

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/21/2008 6:00:04 PM   
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I accidentally came out to my grandparents when they found logs of my kinky RPing hidden in my room way back in the day. I had hidden them quite carefully, and they were only found after extensive snooping.

According to Came4U I did this on purpose. I so carefully hid them so that they would be found. Nothing accidental about it.

/retarded

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/21/2008 6:25:26 PM   
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I outed myself to of all people my boss. It was an accident. He outed himself first. A gentleman came in and demanded to speak with my boss. I asked him his name and he told me to go tell him Mr. such in such needed to speak with him right now.  So I went back and relayed the message. I watched this very much in charge person take off for the front area of the business thinking of this guy in the lobby is going to get it. Imagine my surprise when my boss clasped his hand behind his back lowered his head and said "Daddy such in such "  You could have knocked me over. Then when my boss was through talking to his Daddy. He wanted to speak to me and try to explain every thing I had heard. So I finally had to tell him Listen I know what you were doing and who he really is to you. He finally realized he didn't need to explain anymore. Then he knew I was in the lifestyle. We have never discussed it since. But for his birthday that year. I gave him a matching set of floggers for his Daddy.

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/21/2008 6:57:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheGaggingWh0re

I don't see anyone, aside from IronBear, who has said anything at a time where it has been inappropriate to a fault.



Inappropriate? How so? Since you don't know me nor the community where I live, nor indeed my reputation locally in my general community. Most who do and who live there would possibly dissagree and say it was appropriate and in fact called for. I don'/t hide behind the bushes but am totally open in what I am and what I do both in kink and as a Pagan Priest. (The latter being the hardest thing for half the community to accept being born again christgians).. However you are entitled to your opinions as I am to mine.. I believe you comment was based on how or what you would do and not a global stipulation as what one should and shouldn't do...

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Moves on: nor all your Piety nor Wit
Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line,
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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/21/2008 7:08:52 PM   
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I outed myself as bi-curious when I got angry at my friend who kept calling polyamorous people sluts. This is the same friend who, the week earlier, had come to ME to discuss this newly found alternative lifestyle, who asked ME questions even though she had no idea I was interested in it, and found that I had the information and knowledge of this lifestyle to accept it as just a way of life... when she said, "you know what's another word for polyamorous?" a week later I steeled myself for the answer and she said, "sluts". I just stared at her blankly... then she went into a tirade about how anyone interested in that just wants to "cheat for free" and in a calm voice (though I was pretty irritated) I told her that Alpha and I went up to a gay bar the previous night so I could dance with girls... she shut up after that.

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/21/2008 7:12:32 PM   
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No, it wasn't an accident.  I was stupid enough to actually believe that some of the evangelical soccer moms I work with would LIKE to be bitten and smacked the way I do.  Duh.  My mistake.  Won't "accidentally" mention MY proclivities again.

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/21/2008 7:18:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: takemeforyourown

No, it wasn't an accident. I was stupid enough to actually believe that some of the evangelical soccer moms I work with would LIKE to be bitten and smacked the way I do. Duh. My mistake. Won't "accidentally" mention MY proclivities again.


No, I bet they'd LOVE to be bitten and smacked, the problem is, they're afraid to admit it. so anyone who isn't afraid gets a disgusted reaction because it just shows them what they want.

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/21/2008 10:06:31 PM   
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poison..

Lastly, I am not a dude. lol

That tangent was long winded and only further reminds us ...when you are at work, on a company phone, in a company office...are we ever truly 'alone'?

Anyone who pesters anyone else in an office environment (in this case, it caused her to breakdown to admitting she is a submissive, therefore, the conversation must have been of that nature) on sexual orientation is one who is sexually harassing. 

and tsk tsk at your temper and lack of social skills in attempt to hold a conversation.  While you sat with your inability to calm down on a fine Saturday eve, I was gone to BBQ.

Since gagging is your sub/friend and you deem to protect her (as it seems), can you not do so with more dignity?

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/22/2008 10:07:24 AM   
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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/22/2008 10:22:46 AM   
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quote:

That tangent was long winded and only further reminds us ...when you are at work, on a company phone, in a company office...are we ever truly 'alone'?


Oh boy! More stupid assumptions!

1) She wasn't on a company phone.
2) She is usually the last one out of the office.
3) Are you suggesting that anything anyone says anywhere while they believe they are alone is intentionally revealing personal information about themselves to others? If you are, then you are wrong and stupid.
4) That was not a tangent, as it directly addressed and corrected your numerous stupid assumptions.

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Anyone who pesters anyone else in an office environment (in this case, it caused her to breakdown to admitting she is a submissive, therefore, the conversation must have been of that nature) on sexual orientation is one who is sexually harassing.


Clearly you did not read anything she posted. Instead you just made up a bunch of dumb shit and pretended she said it.

1) Dude pestered her about her vanilla sub tendencies. Examples were provided. This is the third time you have been told this. Please make an effort to acknowledge this, or I will continue to believe you are an idiot.
2) Dude caught her whispering on her own cell phone and asked why she would call me Sir. He asked, so she told him, believing he was her friend and would not run around telling everyone.

Figure it out yet?

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and tsk tsk at your temper and lack of social skills in attempt to hold a conversation.  While you sat with your inability to calm down on a fine Saturday eve, I was gone to BBQ.


Tsk tsk at your continual stupid assumption making.

1) You insulted my slave after making up a bunch of stupid shit and pretending she said it. If anybody here lacks reading/conversational/social skills, it is definitely you.
2) It took me all of 3 minutes to write that post, and for the duration, I was laughing at you. You're comic relief, not cathartic anger. Afterwards we went to the movies, wandered around Old Mystic Village, and had dinner at a swanky Thai spot. You really should stop making stupid assumptions... they make you look stupid.

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Since gagging is your sub/friend and you deem to protect her (as it seems), can you not do so with more dignity?


I afford people the civility that they warrant. By making numerous retarded assumptions, you've demonstrated stupidity. By responding to my slave's correction with MORE retarded assumptions AND baseless insults, you demonstrated further stupidity, in addition to a clear desire to not remain civil. You're an idiot/asshole, and I treated you accordingly. When you offer my slave an apology for making up a bunch of shit and pretending she said it, then offer her an additional apology for insulting her for no reason, I'll gladly admit that I was wrong about you and the way I treated you, then offer an apology of my own.

Until then, you will be treated with all the dignity you deserve.

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/22/2008 11:04:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: poisonedprogress

2) It took me all of 3 minutes to write that post, and for the duration, I was laughing at you. You're comic relief, not cathartic anger. Afterwards we went to the movies, wandered around Old Mystic Village, and had dinner at a swanky Thai spot. You really should stop making stupid assumptions... they make you look stupid.


Clearly not me, sir! I think you mind have supressed the memory of when I was flailing wildly in absolute RAGE while beating the shit out of the dog and hurling things in every direction because CAYMFURUUUUU made me oh-so-mad.




....yeah that thai place was awesome.


BACK ON TOPIC!

I accidentally got outed to my little sister who, while I was out working, snuck onto my computer meaning to look something up for one of her video games, took a detour to this site which had me, unfortunately, still logged in (this was when I just started and thought that exiting = logged out). Thankfully my sisters are very cool and now she's turning into a little domme, awwwweeee!

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/22/2008 1:50:48 PM   
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That tangent was long winded and only further reminds us ...when you are at work, on a company phone, in a company office...are we ever truly 'alone'?
Oh boy! More stupid assumptions!
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1) She wasn't on a company phone.

if not, then you have inside information because YOU know her, she used a cellphone? was that mentioned in her post? NO.
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2) She is usually the last one out of the office.

It is an office.  Not a restraunt, not your home..GET IT?
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3) Are you suggesting that anything anyone says anywhere while they believe they are alone is intentionally revealing personal information about themselves to others? If you are, then you are wrong and stupid.

When and if you are on company time/property, NO you are not alone.  If you want to assume you are alone, leave the building.
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4) That was not a tangent, as it directly addressed and corrected your numerous stupid assumptions.

I think my 'stupid assumptions' are not so, they are merely taking from I read from her quote.
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Anyone who pesters anyone else in an office environment (in this case, it caused her to breakdown to admitting she is a submissive, therefore, the conversation must have been of that nature) on sexual orientation is one who is sexually harassing.
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learly you did not read anything she posted. Instead you just made up a bunch of dumb shit and pretended she said it.
exactly that.
  Point is, he PESTERED, anyone who pesters at a jobsite..in referring to what they do on weekends or any other topic is HARASSMENT.
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1) Dude pestered her about her vanilla sub tendencies. Examples were provided. This is the third time you have been told this. Please make an effort to acknowledge this, or I will continue to believe you are an idiot.


awe.  did you not get it? Her submissive tendencies have anything to do with her work?  He is her boss? Even if he was, he had no right asking.
HE WAS A CO-WORKER...some shlump who thought she was an easy mark to HARASS.
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2) Dude caught her whispering on her own cell phone and asked why she would call me Sir. He asked, so she told him, believing he was her friend and would not run around telling everyone.
Figure it out yet?


I saw no mention of a use of a cellphone, I only saw 'while she was on the phone'.  Even still, if it were a cellphone, what is the difference really?  If you use the company computers to say something PERSONAL..it isn't personal...ever.  If you use your own laptop at work yet link into THEIR server - same issue.  If you use a cellphone at work and are overheard....then you really should think twice about being on it in case you are overheard at a workplace.  How simple has that been described to anyone with work ethics education?

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and tsk tsk at your temper and lack of social skills in attempt to hold a conversation.  While you sat with your inability to calm down on a fine Saturday eve, I was gone to BBQ.
Tsk tsk at your continual stupid assumption making
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I don't make assumations.  I have stated I am not a mind reader.  You are using inside information from your *cough gf/slave/sub to finish and complete the story as it was NOT described before.  I am going on what she said and only by that.  What you decide to drag into it (cellphone etc) is news to us/me as areader of her situation.

Why does that not seep into your thick skull?  Someone nosey at WORK ..someone overhearing a private conversation....

that someone was not on a company phone but a cellphone? What is the difference? 

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1) You insulted my slave after making up a bunch of stupid shit and pretending she said it. If anybody here lacks reading/conversational/social skills, it is definitely you.


I don't insult her.  I claim that if she was outed (by mistake, yet on purpose ..as she claims) then any downfall of such disclosure (stupid mistake or otherwise) should fall upon the disclosee.

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2) It took me all of 3 minutes to write that post, and for the duration, I was laughing at you. You're comic relief, not cathartic anger. Afterwards we went to the movies, wandered around Old Mystic Village, and had dinner at a swanky Thai spot. You really should stop making stupid assumptions... they make you look stupid.


Sure you were and sure you did.  I frankly don't care what and where you go.  Again? with the word stupid?
Ever think that hmmmm 'she (I) doesn't care what you do and how you disclosed, the point is she disclosed, offended/perhaps alienated people and those very people use this kind of information to make a WORKPLACE a drama event.  Since you both claim it wasn't this disclosure that was the cause of her being 'talked about' to begin with....one has to wonder what it was really about.  Oh and pleaseeee DON'T tell me, that situation was enought drama for me.  If I wanted to hear stories of office drama..I would watch a sitcom.
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Since gagging is your sub/friend and you deem to protect her (as it seems), can you not do so with more dignity?

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I afford people the civility that they warrant. By making numerous retarded assumptions, you've demonstrated stupidity. By responding to my slave's correction with MORE retarded assumptions AND baseless insults, you demonstrated further stupidity, in addition to a clear desire to not remain civil. You're an idiot/asshole, and I treated you accordingly. When you offer my slave an apology for making up a bunch of shit and pretending she said it, then offer her an additional apology for insulting her for no reason, I'll gladly admit that I was wrong about you and the way I treated you, then offer an apology of my own.



LOL, I won't apologize for having my opinion that she brought it all upon herself.  Anyone who allows such abuse at a workplace as I said., has lost their legal rights, but can go ahead and bitch about it for a lifetime.  Who are you except some young buck who obviously agrees to console those who have no self-control.  Fine, if it works, yet don't be surprised with others (at the office) see it as a weakness and she ends up unemployed because of it.  Not my problem. It seems to be yours now.

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/22/2008 2:38:49 PM   
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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/22/2008 2:41:23 PM   
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if not, then you have inside information because YOU know her, she used a cellphone? was that mentioned in her post? NO.


This is exactly why I said you made a whole bunch of baseless assumptions.

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It is an office.  Not a restraunt, not your home..GET IT?


She thought she was alone. Despite being told this upwards of a dozen times, you still don't get it.

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When and if you are on company time/property, NO you are not alone.
 

What magical qualities of work prevent you from being alone, especially if you're often the last one to leave?

Yet more assumptions...

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If you want to assume you are alone, leave the building.


Oh but you might not be alone there either!

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I think my 'stupid assumptions' are not so, they are merely taking from I read from her quote.


No, you clearly didn't read what she posted. I've refuted all of your incorrect assumptions with direct quotes. You, on the other hand, continue to make shit up.

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Point is, he PESTERED, anyone who pesters at a jobsite..in referring to what they do on weekends or any other topic is HARASSMENT.


Here you assume that the use of the term pestered translates flawlessly into harassment. You have an assumption problem. The funny part is that this specific quote has been explained to you repeatedly... and you still don't get it.

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awe.  did you not get it? Her submissive tendencies have anything to do with her work?  He is her boss? Even if he was, he had no right asking.
HE WAS A CO-WORKER...some shlump who thought she was an easy mark to HARASS.


Four times? Five? Six?

I've lost count as to how many times you have been told that he was not harassing her. She behaved submissively in an entirely vanilla way, and he "pestered" her about it, as in "why do you just let people run roughshod over you?" type shit. This too has been explained to you repeatedly. Still you do not appear to get it.

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I saw no mention of a use of a cellphone, I only saw 'while she was on the phone'.  Even still, if it were a cellphone, what is the difference really?  If you use the company computers to say something PERSONAL..it isn't personal...ever.
 

She wasn't using company computers. From what magical place did you pull that one? 

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If you use your own laptop at work yet link into THEIR server - same issue.
 

Here you go making shit up again...

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If you use a cellphone at work and are overheard....then you really should think twice about being on it in case you are overheard at a workplace.  How simple has that been described to anyone with work ethics education?


1) She thought she was alone. Thinking one is alone is not unreasonable under circumstances when one would commonly find themselves alone, such as at work when you're the last one leaving and you're on the phone whispering.
2) She actually stated in the post that the experience has provoked greater caution.

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I don't make assumations.
 

Lies. I've called out numerous assumptions. You've also admitted to them.

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if not, then you have inside information because YOU know her, she used a cellphone? was that mentioned in her post? NO.


She didn't say she was on the company phone in the post either. That is you admitting to your assumption that she was on a company phone.

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I have stated I am not a mind reader.
 

Then you should stop making assumptions.

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You are using inside information from your *cough gf/slave/sub to finish and complete the story as it was NOT described before.  I
am going on what she said and only by that.  What you decide to drag into it (cellphone etc) is news to us/me as areader of her situation.


I'm using inside information to refute the numerous baseless assumptions you made. You know... the one about harassment, the one about the phone, the one about intentionally slipping, etc.. etc....

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Why does that not seep into your thick skull?  Someone nosey at WORK ..someone overhearing a private conversation....

that someone was not on a company phone but a cellphone? What is the difference?


1) She thought she was alone. So many times I have said this.
2) You pissed and moaned about her using a company phone that she did not use. I was pointing out that you made yet another stupid/baseless assumption.

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I don't insult her.  I claim that if she was outed (by mistake, yet on purpose ..as she claims) then any downfall of such disclosure (stupid mistake or otherwise) should fall upon the disclosee.


Yeah. And you called her a moron for correcting your numerous incorrect assumptions, from which you derived your hilariously incorrect conclusion.

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Sure you were and sure you did.  I frankly don't care what and where you go.
 

And what made you think I gave a shit about your BBQ?

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Again? with the word stupid?


That is the word I am using to describe you.

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Ever think that hmmmm 'she (I) doesn't care what you do and how you disclosed, the point is she disclosed, offended/perhaps alienated people and those very people use this kind of information to make a WORKPLACE a drama event.  Since you both claim it wasn't this disclosure that was the cause of her being 'talked about' to begin with....one has to wonder what it was really about.
 

She disclosed under the pretenses of trust. You're blaming her for the betrayal of someone else, which is not only fucked, it is incredibly stupid.

STUPID: the word I am using to describe you. Remember?

You're the type who would blame a rape victim for being female around males.

Since gagging is your sub/friend and you deem to protect her (as it seems), can you not do so with more dignity?

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I afford people the civility that they warrant. By making numerous retarded assumptions, you've demonstrated stupidity. By responding to my slave's correction with MORE retarded assumptions AND baseless insults, you demonstrated further stupidity, in addition to a clear desire to not remain civil. You're an idiot/asshole, and I treated you accordingly. When you offer my slave an apology for making up a bunch of shit and pretending she said it, then offer her an additional apology for insulting her for no reason, I'll gladly admit that I was wrong about you and the way I treated you, then offer an apology of my own.



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LOL, I won't apologize for having my opinion that she brought it all upon herself.
 

I don't give a fuck about your dumbass opinion. I don't even give a fuck about your retarded assumptions and your baseless insults. I'm here for the entertainment of baiting an idiot with a crippling reading comprehension problem and a penchant for botching the simplest logic. I derive sadistic pleasure from exposing idiocy and humiliating idiots.

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Anyone who allows such abuse at a workplace as I said., has lost their legal rights, but can go ahead and bitch about it for a lifetime.
 

Again I shall remind you that it was not abuse. This has been explained to you numerous times, and yet still you do not get it. This is why I use the word STUPID to describe you.

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Who are you except some young buck who obviously agrees to console those who have no self-control.
 

Who are you except some dried up old hag of a bitch who has to make shit up and pretend its real then hurl insults at someone sharing a simple story of accidental outing? You made up half the shit you blame her for, the insult her for it? Then you cop this half-assed idiotic condescending attitude where you make even MORE stupid assumptions and refuse to address any of the numerous corrections that were made to the axiom of your opinion?

This thread is for sharing outing stories, NOT for making shit up like a dumbass, pretending someone else said it, then insulting them for it and making a total ass of yourself in general.

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Fine, if it works, yet don't be surprised with others (at the office) see it as a weakness and she ends up unemployed because of it.  Not my problem. It seems to be yours now.


She left that clinic with letters of recommendation. The instigator of the mess was fired, and the mess had nothing to do with her coming out to her coworkers. That was just another stupid incorrect assumption made by YOU. It has been said, quite clearly, and repeatedly, that she had preferred for those who had participated in the mess to not have known about her kinkiness.

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/22/2008 3:16:47 PM   
came4U


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Yet another out of control outburst.

Name one time I called her a moron?

Talk about making shit up?

Name calling?

Grow up kid. Welcome to the real world of another/someone reading what is said (word for word) or 'post' in a virtual world being absorbed by others and disected. 

The entire paragraph she initially wrote has been disected to death..enought already.  My opinion is that she brought it on herself.  Get over that.  I will not change my mind whatever what 'bad-words' you use towards me..no matter how pathetic. 

When you are mature enough to come to the conversation in it's entirety and not the end as a saviour..then do so. Bawking about and defending someone's crappy situation at the last minute does nothing but leave a sour taste (or lack of taste, in this case).

Now the topic has reversed back to you you you and her her her...instead of the topic at hand. How about you take your crayons and move along to your busy, busy life of nonsense.

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/22/2008 3:41:02 PM   
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Wow, not what I was expecting for this thread. Oh well. It was an interesting idea, at least. (this isn't addressed to any one person...just replied to the last person in the thread)

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/22/2008 4:01:59 PM   
came4U


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quote:

Wow, not what I was expecting for this thread. Oh well. It was an interesting idea, at least. (this isn't addressed to any one person...just replied to the last person in the thread)


that is why you are a follower...I find followers mere reflections of the followees...nonsense.

This thread was fine until some chose to make assumptions that  ES/em is for the mentally ill (yet, I have seen the past posts of those that call it that, and ouch, not pretty) or those that defend the very comments on their own outing issues (and the cause/effect).

I have had enought of giving attention to some who I consider kids. 

Save your passive comments, this thread died because of those who cannot handle/understanding of emotional sadism that exists more than they can handle a candle in a hurricane.

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RE: Ever out yourself by accident cause the vanillas go... - 6/22/2008 4:03:26 PM   
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People. Show your maturity by not responding to someone you feel is attacking you. Say your piece and be done. This endless bickering is not only annoying, but it also shows a lack of control on your emotions and behavior. Expecially when it comes from a "dominant".

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