Bobanna
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Hi, my current Dom brings up he would like to get me marked somewhere in a discreet place, but the thing is, our relationship is still fairly new. It being one of my limits---> permanent body marring, I am unsure of how definant I want to be going to be in this matter. (Him and I are going to be living together permanently in less than two days so this subject may come up again and this time I can't exactly blow it off and go home.) He was made aware from the beginning that it was one of my hard limits. ----> I just spent the past year getting laser tatoo removal treatments that were extremely painful and expensive. One one of them was a celtic armband with a EX-boyfriends initial encased in it. (He got an identical one with my initial in it ...eyeroll ~ we were young and dumb and sooooo IN LOVE at the time <grins>) At the time I was positive that he and I were going to be together for the rest of our lives and live happily ever after .. blah blah blah. It lasted another six months, I found out he cheated on me, got her pregnant and they had a bouncing baby girl nine months later that I wanted nothing to do with or him either for that matter. So I was left with a lovely reminder of him, his betrayal a broken heart and lived with it for many years afterwards. So discreet or not discreet ... I would always be able to see it. (or know that its there) And if and when my Dom may be gone from my life, it wouldn't matter if anyone else could see it or not it. But I always would, and it has the very high chance of being a horrible, constant reminder why we arnt together anymore.
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Let them eat cake ~ ! A dream for some ... A nightmare for others
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