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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/28/2010 6:04:47 PM   
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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/28/2010 6:38:58 PM   
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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/28/2010 6:53:14 PM   
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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/28/2010 6:54:20 PM   
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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/28/2010 6:54:29 PM   
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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/28/2010 6:56:13 PM   
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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/28/2010 8:59:00 PM   
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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/29/2010 12:42:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		as in a partner no, but for work then yes as if you want to keep a job you don't always have a choice.

i submitted to master because i love respect trust and think hes the most wonderful person hes strong and just oozes respect and trust. i am naturally submissive and will be that way to people but i wont formally submit to anyone else, i see it as a big difference, i also wont call another man a master as i havent formally submitted to them.

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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/29/2010 2:19:31 AM   
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Been forced to many times; but then, I respect almost all people, but hold that separate from actions, opinions and ideas. And I'm forced to submit to some asinine idea of society's at least 30-40 times a day. Right now I'm trying to meditate away the dissonance and mental pain, before I end up finding a fucking sniper rifle and a clock tower.


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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/29/2010 2:31:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		Do you submit to someone you do not respect?   What does it take to earn your respect?  People are different, and everyone has something to offer.   Our values, I believe is what makes us more similar/dissimilar, or more/less respectable to the other.   I want to get to a place where I respect everyone equally as humans...   I do know however, that I'm not there yet, so I have to find common ground, and an ability to communicate with one another.

Of course you could submit to someone you don't respect...   That would be your choice as an adult.   However, I imagine that would be difficult, and bore you fairly quickly, so that you would answer your own question fairly quickly.
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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/29/2010 3:50:50 AM   
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Samhain please don't open up threads over 3 months old, the mods lock them once they see them, and older posters should know better.

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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/29/2010 4:56:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, I could do it if there wasn't another option, because finally, I am capable of achieving that, someday. However, I would need to work for ages on it. If there is respect, on the contrary, it is incredibly easy and it flows without effort.

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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/29/2010 7:00:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		NOPE!! but i dont conform to society either, and id like to state that just because u r submissive doesnt mean u r submissive to everyone. i am only to one and everyone else can basically kiss my ass if i have no respect for them... just my 2 cents

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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/29/2010 7:21:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: chickpea

Doms are always complaining about subs not acting submissive, not having this or that quality, before they even look in the mirror.  So my question is, can you submit to someone you don't respect?

Respect = you hold reverence to them for the way they act.





Can I?

Yes. I am able to do a lot of things if a gun is held to my head or other leverage is applied. Will I under normal circumstances in terms of a relationship? No. However, I do submit to my boss, laws that annoy the hell of me, etc.

So... yes I can. I would not enter into a relationship with someone I disrespect but yes, I can submit to authority that I don't respect when needed. Unfortunately for the bitchy men on the forums, I don't need to submit to them.


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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/29/2010 10:12:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		no way not if i don't respect him. it all comes down to if he can dominate me or not, some of it would be his actions but a lot would be his personality. if he can dominate me then of course i would respect him!


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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/29/2010 10:44:08 AM   
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RE: Could you submit to someone you disrespect? - 12/29/2010 11:38:14 AM   
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