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Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/15/2008 11:23:00 PM   
weezyfbaby733


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Status: offline 		I've never engaged in any R/t as a sub before, but I do commonly see the male sub being somewhat of a wimp you know? isn't it sexier to the dom if the male sub is more masculine?
I'd imagine a dom would get more pleasure out of dominating some big tough guy rather than some little pussy

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/15/2008 11:24:34 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Who says we dominate wimps? 

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/15/2008 11:33:00 PM   
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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/15/2008 11:39:24 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		You claim to be a switch... are you saying you are a big tough guy or are you a wimp?

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/15/2008 11:43:46 PM   
Coupleofwhats


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Status: offline 		I think he's referring to the whole "i am subhuman and not worthy! i grovel at your feet!" brand of submission.

Personally, I find it distasteful. I like my submissives manly: otherwise, I'm just a bully.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 12:27:31 AM   
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I've never engaged in any R/t as a sub before, but I do commonly see the male sub being somewhat of a wimp you know? isn't it sexier to the dom if the male sub is more masculine?
I'd imagine a dom would get more pleasure out of dominating some big tough guy rather than some little pussy


I totally agree, and I have been working on a profile revision to let all the ladies know just how much of a bad motherfucker I am.  Here's what I have so far: 

"WARNING:  Ladies if you are prone to fainting spells, read no further.  I promise you that you will be soaking wet by the end of this. 

I'm a REAL MAN, and I don't take no shit off of no punk-ass bitches.  I'm a street brawlin', cocky, two-fisted drinking, slap yo' daddy in the mouth, badass MOFO.  Ladies you'll never have to fear for your safety when you got me on your arm.  I'm a one-man wrecking crew.  I'm on here looking for dommes that can handle a REAL MAN like me.  I promise you that you'll never meet another like me.  Most of the dudes on here are fucking, weak-ass punks.  I know you want a REAL MAN, like your's truly.  But you'll have to earn it; I don't give it up like a punk. 

Now if you're worried that I don't have a sensitive side....don't.  I love poetry, music, books, and shit like that.  I love to cook too.  Ask my boys; my fucking spaghetti is DA BOMB!  I like to dance too, but you'll have to keep your jealousy in check.  All the women at the club want to work it with me when they see me moving. 

So if you want a REAL MAN....give me a holla.  Be patient though; you know I am answering tons of emails from other ladies looking to get a taste. 

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 1:01:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Slaveboy, your sense of humor is going to get you into trouble (probably already has, but it will again) one of these days. Snort.

Now as to the OP? the part that has me laughing is his choice of CollarMe name: "weezybaby"? Damn, I do wish the online wish-fulfillment folks would just stay in la-la land. Please, OP, throw out 99% of what you think you know about submissive behavior and femdoms and "hie thee to a munchery" (with apologies to the Bard). The only way to learn about real time is to be yourself. Polite, sure. Communicative. NOT cocksure.

Good luck.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 4:15:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: weezyfbaby733

I've never engaged in any R/t as a sub before, but I do commonly see the male sub being somewhat of a wimp you know?



Actually, I don't know -- where do you commonly see these wimps?  The men I've met who call themselves submissive (I have no idea how many of them actually are) are just ordinary guys.  In a lot of years, I've met less than a handful that could be considered wimps -- and even then, I would use the term "extremely needy" or "desperate"  rather than "wimp" to describe them, because that ascribes a motive to their actions and is a more useful term.  As for the online "wimps", they are sooooo not believable, I choose not to get involved in their game.  I don't care for role-playing.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 4:47:55 AM   
TNstepsout


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Status: offline 		Well done slaveboy- nice laugh for early in a morning.

As far as challenge in wimp? Well there is challenge everywhere. Maybe some women enjoy the challenge of helping another person find some confidence and inner strength.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 5:41:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou
Here's what I have so far: 



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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 6:30:22 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 7:14:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Allondra

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ORIGINAL: weezyfbaby733

I've never engaged in any R/t as a sub before, but I do commonly see the male sub being somewhat of a wimp you know?



Actually, I don't know -- where do you commonly see these wimps? The men I've met who call themselves submissive (I have no idea how many of them actually are) are just ordinary guys. In a lot of years, I've met less than a handful that could be considered wimps -- and even then, I would use the term "extremely needy" or "desperate" rather than "wimp" to describe them, because that ascribes a motive to their actions and is a more useful term. As for the online "wimps", they are sooooo not believable, I choose not to get involved in their game. I don't care for role-playing.



This is basically the question I had.

Where, weezyfbaby733, have you seen this image?

Pornography?

Men?

Prodoms?



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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 8:07:25 AM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		There is incredible strength in submitting fully and joyfully.  And when someone is submitting to me, typically the only pussy in the room is ... me.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 8:31:06 AM   
faerytattoodgirl


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limp?


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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 8:32:41 AM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		Slaveboy please let me know how the new profile works out,as we speak I am crafting a similar reworking of mine...I await your result's

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 8:46:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

would you rather...a sub...with a...

limp?



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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 8:59:38 AM   
LadySpecificity


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Status: offline 		I, personally, prefer the more alpha male subs. A lot of males, in My experience, feel that submission means lack of personality or back bone. There is a way to be strong and submissive and have a personality. Women do it all the time but I find more often than not, men have this idea in their head on what it is for a male to be submissive and mimic it and it's not accurate.

Give Me a proud, strong male any day. So much more fun to bend him to My will. -grins-

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 9:18:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadySpecificity

I, personally, prefer the more alpha male subs. A lot of males, in My experience, feel that submission means lack of personality or back bone. There is a way to be strong and submissive and have a personality. Women do it all the time but I find more often than not, men have this idea in their head on what it is for a male to be submissive and mimic it and it's not accurate.

Give Me a proud, strong male any day. So much more fun to bend him to My will. -grins-

Methinks the OP is suggesting the willingness to be bent in and of itself defines a "wimp".Of course I disagree ,and can and will discuss manly points of interest with him all day long,that is of course if She will let me...

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 9:29:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadySpecificity

I, personally, prefer the more alpha male subs. A lot of males, in My experience, feel that submission means lack of personality or back bone. There is a way to be strong and submissive and have a personality. Women do it all the time but I find more often than not, men have this idea in their head on what it is for a male to be submissive and mimic it and it's not accurate.

Give Me a proud, strong male any day. So much more fun to bend him to My will. -grins-



Very well stated...I agree.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/16/2008 9:31:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: weezyfbaby733

I've never engaged in any R/t as a sub before, but I do commonly see the male sub being somewhat of a wimp you know? isn't it sexier to the dom if the male sub is more masculine?

To each their own. My boys are not big tough guys, nor are they little pussys. I like my men asthetically pleasing, which for ME means effeminate and smooth. I am physically stronger than both of them... and I get a thrill out of proving it. I have dominated big strong guys before, as well as weak little ones, big butchy girls and delicate ones. I dont get my throll out of how they look when I dominate them, I get it out of how we interact.

DV


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