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I have similar thoughts OP. I don't understand how many dommes want a successful, strong, independent, well educated, classy man while on the other hand they expect this guy to degrade his whole life and not be able to make many choices for himself. These successful guys with a high status are expected to give up privileges that they earned.

I have a offer ladies. How about you fulfil my fantasies and then fix me a sandwich. Sounds like a good deal?

Different strokes for different folks.

But why are you here?

You want to be forced to be a wimp?  That I understand. But yet your post is very unsubmissive. So again, why are you here?

Well here is the thing pal, just because I like to be sexually controlled in the bedroom, it doesn't mean my whole life should be submissive towards women. It doesn't mean I have to talk to every woman in a submissive manner out side the bedroom. After all, women complain so much about men only thinking about and wanting sex. Well it seems that BDSM lifestylers only think about and care about BDSM, meaning that most or all aspects of your life should revolve around BDSM. Many dommes here think just because I like certain aspects of BDSM, I will have to revolve most or all of a relationship around BDSM. I think its just as bad as only thinking about or wanting sex from a person in my opinion. BDSM has got a lot to do with sexual gratification, I don't mean sexual intercourse or oral sex.

So all it comes down to is this, just because I like certain aspects of BDSM, its doesn't mean I should devote most my life or a whole relationship towards it as there are so many more important things that come first. It's just like a man and woman liking sexual intercourse, just because they like it, they believe they have to devote their whole relationship and lives around it. Thats how the BDSM lifestylers act towards this scene. Too much obsession for me.

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Does the fact no one wants you have anything to do with your obnoxious behavior towards women?

Does the fact of being ignored and not given one little chance at all from the women on this site have anything to do with my obnoxious behavior towards women? Sure, devoted lifestylers may not want a bottom but there are plenty of tops out there. But even when a mans and womans kinks match, the woman is more likely to judge the man on other things before giving him a chance. The thing is, todays women, (not just in this scene) only want to have relationships or casual play with a guy who appears extra interesting than the average guy next door when most of these women are not extra interesting than the average woman next door themselves. A guy may have to be extra smarter, extra humorous or have a higher career status than most average men next door to qualify the interest of most average women next door. But all of this may be put aside if the man has a way higher image status than the woman

Such as this site, if I approach a woman, my email and profile has to stand out from most or the rest of the male subs to make them interested. But most female dommes/tops don't stand out from most or the rest of the dommes/tops in this site but they expect this from the men. But how dare a man complains about this? A man never has a right to complain about anything unfair women do. My bad, give me a spank bitches!

Welcome to life bottomboy81.

Took the words right out of my mouth. Life is a competition.

Not so much for women, they just have to be simply women. A woman doesn't even have to "TRY" a man has to try if he wants to get what he wants but there is little chance for a man, even if he does try. But only a man with a spine will complain about this. The rest of the politically correct spineless men will shut up and deal with it. Thats why it keeps prevailing. Political correctness these days = female favourtism. Women have been the biggest complainers towards inequality for generations, at this day and age, they are the biggest offenders of inequality. Todays women will complain and protest to the death when they are on the receiving end of unfairness. But when its men on the receiving end, we are unjustified whiners and its all our fault, not the women's.

Competition mostly or only exist for men, women just have to sit and wait for it to happen.

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devoted lifestylers may not want a bottom

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Talk about a whinny little sore loser...

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Talk about a whinny little sore loser...

Talk about a lameass shaming tactic instead of challenging my views with logic. But what else can you expect from a eunuch?

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But what else can you expect from a eunuch?

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I have similar thoughts OP. I don't understand how many dommes want a successful, strong, independent, well educated, classy man while on the other hand they expect this guy to degrade his whole life and not be able to make many choices for himself. These successful guys with a high status are expected to give up privileges that they earned.

I have a offer ladies. How about you fulfil my fantasies and then fix me a sandwich. Sounds like a good deal?

Different strokes for different folks.

But why are you here?

You want to be forced to be a wimp?  That I understand. But yet your post is very unsubmissive. So again, why are you here?

Well here is the thing pal, just because I like to be sexually controlled in the bedroom, it doesn't mean my whole life should be submissive towards women. It doesn't mean I have to talk to every woman in a submissive manner out side the bedroom. After all, women complain so much about men only thinking about and wanting sex. Well it seems that BDSM lifestylers only think about and care about BDSM, meaning that most or all aspects of your life should revolve around BDSM. Many dommes here think just because I like certain aspects of BDSM, I will have to revolve most or all of a relationship around BDSM. I think its just as bad as only thinking about or wanting sex from a person in my opinion. BDSM has got a lot to do with sexual gratification, I don't mean sexual intercourse or oral sex.

So all it comes down to is this, just because I like certain aspects of BDSM, its doesn't mean I should devote most my life or a whole relationship towards it as there are so many more important things that come first. It's just like a man and woman liking sexual intercourse, just because they like it, they believe they have to devote their whole relationship and lives around it. Thats how the BDSM lifestylers act towards this scene. Too much obsession for me.

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Talk about a whinny little sore loser...

Talk about a lameass shaming tactic instead of challenging my views with logic. But what else can you expect from a eunuch?

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So you are in general insulting and rude.  Okay gotcha... you want to be beat up. LOL... you surely don't wish to simply make a point and intelligently discuss anything.  You are one of many... might try something original.

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Does the fact no one wants you have anything to do with your obnoxious behavior towards women?

Does the fact of being ignored and not given one little chance at all from the women on this site have anything to do with my obnoxious behavior towards women? Sure, devoted lifestylers may not want a bottom but there are plenty of tops out there. But even when a mans and womans kinks match, the woman is more likely to judge the man on other things before giving him a chance. The thing is, todays women, (not just in this scene) only want to have relationships or casual play with a guy who appears extra interesting than the average guy next door when most of these women are not extra interesting than the average woman next door themselves. A guy may have to be extra smarter, extra humorous or have a higher career status than most average men next door to qualify the interest of most average women next door. But all of this may be put aside if the man has a way higher image status than the woman

Such as this site, if I approach a woman, my email and profile has to stand out from most or the rest of the male subs to make them interested. But most female dommes/tops don't stand out from most or the rest of the dommes/tops in this site but they expect this from the men. But how dare a man complains about this? A man never has a right to complain about anything unfair women do. My bad, give me a spank bitches!

Welcome to life bottomboy81.

Took the words right out of my mouth. Life is a competition.

Not so much for women, they just have to be simply women. A woman doesn't even have to "TRY" a man has to try if he wants to get what he wants but there is little chance for a man, even if he does try. But only a man with a spine will complain about this. The rest of the politically correct spineless men will shut up and deal with it. Thats why it keeps prevailing. Political correctness these days = female favourtism. Women have been the biggest complainers towards inequality for generations, at this day and age, they are the biggest offenders of inequality. Todays women will complain and protest to the death when they are on the receiving end of unfairness. But when its men on the receiving end, we are unjustified whiners and its all our fault, not the women's.

Competition mostly or only exist for men, women just have to sit and wait for it to happen.And: Classic weasel women's diversionary tactic, never debate against points with logic - always deflect the debate to the man