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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/19/2008 11:41:48 PM

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Well, to Ma'am I am a total WIMP. She has her way with me any way she wants...and I love it.

But to the World at large, I am her protector, her Rottweiler.

YES, it is possible to be both!

Good boy.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/20/2008 12:00:33 AM

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Well, to Ma'am I am a total WIMP. She has her way with me any way she wants...and I love it.

But to the World at large, I am her protector, her Rottweiler.

YES, it is possible to be both!

Good boy.

AHHHHHHHHH!!! Thank you!!!!

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/20/2008 12:33:57 AM

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Well she would have never posted had I not mentioned it it to her. But still...

Anyway I love being a WIMP for her.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/20/2008 4:40:02 AM

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I have similar thoughts OP. I don't understand how many dommes want a successful, strong, independent, well educated, classy man while on the other hand they expect this guy to degrade his whole life and not be able to make many choices for himself. These successful guys with a high status are expected to give up privileges that they earned.

I have a offer ladies. How about you fulfil my fantasies and then fix me a sandwich. Sounds like a good deal?

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/20/2008 5:14:33 AM

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I have a offer ladies. How about you fulfil my fantasies and then fix me a sandwich. Sounds like a good deal?

Thats what the submissives are there for. They fulfill our fantasies and then they fix us the sandwich. You rent better or worse at fixing the sandwich if you are a big manly man or a small wimpy one, psread is spread.

Since when does being well educated, classy, successful and independant made someone less of a wimp? The men I knew who were in high paying high power jobs were some of the wimpiest men I had ever met. Doesnt necessarily take a strong person to rise to power behind a desk and a screen.

just incase this had something to actually do with what I had said way back on page 1

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/20/2008 6:59:20 AM

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Does the fact no one wants you have anything to do with your obnoxious behavior towards women? attention whore? or are you closet gay? mommy issues?

what was dad like? a fantastic man I am sure.

you remind me of a jester. do you have a jester hat?

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/20/2008 7:49:13 AM

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Doesnt necessarily take a strong person to rise to power behind a desk and a screen.

Or off the backs of other people.

I have to agree with TeeGO I will be as wimpy as my Mistress desires me to be, but if you mess with her while I am around ...

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/20/2008 8:27:30 AM

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It isn't me you owe an apology to, therefore no need for you and I to go there. I will simply watch and wait to see what you really mean. Hell it is no skin of my nose. Your words will either be welcomed, accepted and show what they really mean or you will continue as you have. It matter's not to me. It would be nice if you gave up your first attitude and motivation, but like I said... it doesn't matter to me. You are young, you aren't my first experience with a young person and you won't be my last. You have a chance to prove yourself or your words... but honey... I won't expect it until I see it. In my house, someone who is really sorry, bends over and/or changes their ways... we shall see what you do. Until then... have fun... I hope you mean what you say here and if you don't... well... that's okay too!

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alright my fault guys, i must say that was a bit harsh. the last thing i wanna do is insult the people im seeking feedback from. i apologize to all who was offended.
And in regards to Lockit's post, it's true. I actually started doing this whole post-thing to be an asshole and fuck with people, and as you can see on my history, I do. But after awhile I started taking it seriously and posting my own threads, and I find it kinda fun now. So if you could accept my apology :Lockit, and realize I'm not trying to fuck with people anymore I'd appreciate it.

So, so far I've gotten that the whole there's some groveler's, but they're fading out. The type of is becoming a stereotype,rather than an actual type, due to the lack of amount of them, or interest in them. It's more common for a mistress to find a more masculine submissive attractive because of the idea of dominating a man that's naturally supposed to be more physically overpowering than theirselves. All and all, it depends on the perspective of the dom. To each their own, but the brawn, is a little more popular. Any suggestions?

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/20/2008 10:11:21 AM

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Well she would have never posted had I not mentioned it it to her. But still...

Anyway I love being a WIMP for her.

Awesome to hear! My best to you both, and may you have many more years of D/s bliss.

It takes a lot of strength for a man to be an excellent submissive or slave. It takes work, dedication, self-awareness, personal growth and love for your Domme. Full worship of a FemDomme is beautiful, so erotic, tons of fun, and very rewarding.

"To Be is to Do" and nothing takes the place of experiencing this in real life.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/20/2008 2:56:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyOlivia

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ORIGINAL: TeeGO

Well, to Ma'am I am a total WIMP. She has her way with me any way she wants...and I love it.

But to the World at large, I am her protector, her Rottweiler.

YES, it is possible to be both!

Good boy.

I second that! *wink

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/20/2008 3:07:57 PM

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I personally believe it takes a very strong, brave man to submit. Therefore on My porch I hang the sign *no wimps*.
I love a strong man who says: I am strong for you. I have all this power to give to you. I have strength in my body for you because that’s what you need. Because you like to hurt me. And you want me to be able to take it all. So here is my body for you to hurt. I will run into those burning buildings and I will slay those dragons and I will take the pain. And afterwards, I will crawl to you begging and broken with my body marked and my cock hard. And I’ll be ready to give it all to you again.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/21/2008 12:44:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

I have similar thoughts OP. I don't understand how many dommes want a successful, strong, independent, well educated, classy man while on the other hand they expect this guy to degrade his whole life and not be able to make many choices for himself. These successful guys with a high status are expected to give up privileges that they earned.

I have a offer ladies. How about you fulfil my fantasies and then fix me a sandwich. Sounds like a good deal?

Different strokes for different folks.

But why are you here?

You want to be forced to be a wimp? That I understand. But yet your post is very unsubmissive. So again, why are you here?

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/21/2008 5:55:03 AM

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I have similar thoughts OP. I don't understand how many dommes want a successful, strong, independent, well educated, classy man while on the other hand they expect this guy to degrade his whole life and not be able to make many choices for himself. These successful guys with a high status are expected to give up privileges that they earned.

I have a offer ladies. How about you fulfil my fantasies and then fix me a sandwich. Sounds like a good deal?

Different strokes for different folks.

But why are you here?

You want to be forced to be a wimp? That I understand. But yet your post is very unsubmissive. So again, why are you here?

Well here is the thing pal, just because I like to be sexually controlled in the bedroom, it doesn't mean my whole life should be submissive towards women. It doesn't mean I have to talk to every woman in a submissive manner out side the bedroom. After all, women complain so much about men only thinking about and wanting sex. Well it seems that BDSM lifestylers only think about and care about BDSM, meaning that most or all aspects of your life should revolve around BDSM. Many dommes here think just because I like certain aspects of BDSM, I will have to revolve most or all of a relationship around BDSM. I think its just as bad as only thinking about or wanting sex from a person in my opinion. BDSM has got a lot to do with sexual gratification, I don't mean sexual intercourse or oral sex.

So all it comes down to is this, just because I like certain aspects of BDSM, its doesn't mean I should devote most my life or a whole relationship towards it as there are so many more important things that come first. It's just like a man and woman liking sexual intercourse, just because they like it, they believe they have to devote their whole relationship and lives around it. Thats how the BDSM lifestylers act towards this scene. Too much obsession for me.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/21/2008 6:17:42 AM

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Does the fact no one wants you have anything to do with your obnoxious behavior towards women?

Does the fact of being ignored and not given one little chance at all from the women on this site have anything to do with my obnoxious behavior towards women? Sure, devoted lifestylers may not want a bottom but there are plenty of tops out there. But even when a mans and womans kinks match, the woman is more likely to judge the man on other things before giving him a chance. The thing is, todays women, (not just in this scene) only want to have relationships or casual play with a guy who appears extra interesting than the average guy next door when most of these women are not extra interesting than the average woman next door themselves. A guy may have to be extra smarter, extra humorous or have a higher career status than most average men next door to qualify the interest of most average women next door. But all of this may be put aside if the man has a way higher image status than the woman

Such as this site, if I approach a woman, my email and profile has to stand out from most or the rest of the male subs to make them interested. But most female dommes/tops don't stand out from most or the rest of the dommes/tops in this site but they expect this from the men. But how dare a man complains about this? A man never has a right to complain about anything unfair women do. My bad, give me a spank bitches!

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/21/2008 6:29:19 AM

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Just like there are many Tops out there, it also stands to reason that there are many bottoms out there. So, why not chose those that appeal most? If I'm going to spend all of that energy in a scene, I at least want to use it on someone that I find has pleasing character traits.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/21/2008 7:40:58 AM

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Does the fact no one wants you have anything to do with your obnoxious behavior towards women?

Does the fact of being ignored and not given one little chance at all from the women on this site have anything to do with my obnoxious behavior towards women? Sure, devoted lifestylers may not want a bottom but there are plenty of tops out there. But even when a mans and womans kinks match, the woman is more likely to judge the man on other things before giving him a chance. The thing is, todays women, (not just in this scene) only want to have relationships or casual play with a guy who appears extra interesting than the average guy next door when most of these women are not extra interesting than the average woman next door themselves. A guy may have to be extra smarter, extra humorous or have a higher career status than most average men next door to qualify the interest of most average women next door. But all of this may be put aside if the man has a way higher image status than the woman

Such as this site, if I approach a woman, my email and profile has to stand out from most or the rest of the male subs to make them interested. But most female dommes/tops don't stand out from most or the rest of the dommes/tops in this site but they expect this from the men. But how dare a man complains about this? A man never has a right to complain about anything unfair women do. My bad, give me a spank bitches!

Welcome to life bottomboy81.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/21/2008 8:49:03 AM

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Does the fact no one wants you have anything to do with your obnoxious behavior towards women?

Does the fact of being ignored and not given one little chance at all from the women on this site have anything to do with my obnoxious behavior towards women? Sure, devoted lifestylers may not want a bottom but there are plenty of tops out there. But even when a mans and womans kinks match, the woman is more likely to judge the man on other things before giving him a chance. The thing is, todays women, (not just in this scene) only want to have relationships or casual play with a guy who appears extra interesting than the average guy next door when most of these women are not extra interesting than the average woman next door themselves. A guy may have to be extra smarter, extra humorous or have a higher career status than most average men next door to qualify the interest of most average women next door. But all of this may be put aside if the man has a way higher image status than the woman

Such as this site, if I approach a woman, my email and profile has to stand out from most or the rest of the male subs to make them interested. But most female dommes/tops don't stand out from most or the rest of the dommes/tops in this site but they expect this from the men. But how dare a man complains about this? A man never has a right to complain about anything unfair women do. My bad, give me a spank bitches!

Welcome to life bottomboy81.

Took the words right out of my mouth. Life is a competition.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/21/2008 8:58:18 AM

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you get back what you put out
or in other words, look to be treated by others as you have treated others.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/21/2008 9:03:13 AM

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i have met weak men whom i would consider wimps than submissive.

the one i'm planning to collar soon is a submissive pet who enjoys being called a wimp, sissy, etc

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/21/2008 9:04:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: TeeGO

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ORIGINAL: dragon2760

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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

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Does the fact no one wants you have anything to do with your obnoxious behavior towards women?

Does the fact of being ignored and not given one little chance at all from the women on this site have anything to do with my obnoxious behavior towards women? Sure, devoted lifestylers may not want a bottom but there are plenty of tops out there. But even when a mans and womans kinks match, the woman is more likely to judge the man on other things before giving him a chance. The thing is, todays women, (not just in this scene) only want to have relationships or casual play with a guy who appears extra interesting than the average guy next door when most of these women are not extra interesting than the average woman next door themselves. A guy may have to be extra smarter, extra humorous or have a higher career status than most average men next door to qualify the interest of most average women next door. But all of this may be put aside if the man has a way higher image status than the woman

Such as this site, if I approach a woman, my email and profile has to stand out from most or the rest of the male subs to make them interested. But most female dommes/tops don't stand out from most or the rest of the dommes/tops in this site but they expect this from the men. But how dare a man complains about this? A man never has a right to complain about anything unfair women do. My bad, give me a spank bitches!

Welcome to life bottomboy81.

Took the words right out of my mouth. Life is a competition.

Not so much for women, they just have to be simply women. A woman doesn't even have to "TRY" a man has to try if he wants to get what he wants but there is little chance for a man, even if he does try. But only a man with a spine will complain about this. The rest of the politically correct spineless men will shut up and deal with it. Thats why it keeps prevailing. Political correctness these days = female favourtism. Women have been the biggest complainers towards inequality for generations, at this day and age, they are the biggest offenders of inequality. Todays women will complain and protest to the death when they are on the receiving end of unfairness. But when its men on the receiving end, we are unjustified whiners and its all our fault, not the women's.

Competition mostly or only exist for men, women just have to sit and wait for it to happen.

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