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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 6:55:10 AM   
chiaThePet


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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 12:05:02 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I want brain matter that actually works.  The muscles can come and go... big, small... firm or not... if the brain isn't in gear, what use are the muscles?  If he can't turn me on with that brain... I don't care how appealing he is physically... he isn't for me.  Muscles I can get any day, but they don't mean a lot without the brain.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 12:55:14 PM   
weezyfbaby733


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Status: offline 		yea what coupleofwhats said.
that's what i mean.
thanks girl

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 1:25:09 PM   
weezyfbaby733


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Status: offline 		Slaveboy...I dont know what to say after that.
I think we might have to create an entire forum dedicated to that one saying.
I too am skoal-chewing, teeth gritting, bitch-slapping steaming pile of man-meat.

To answer questions:
-I think weezyfbaby is an awesome name, not only is he fuckin awesome, but it was the only thing I could come up with at the time. and if you weren't so busy judging people's names and what they might be like in the real world maybe you could be a respected individual in the real world as opposed to maybe just the forums. maybe.

-I think a wimp would be like what Coupleofwhats said: "I think he's referring to the whole "i am subhuman and not worthy! i grovel at your feet!" brand of submission."

-I'm not calling all subs pussies. I you weren't a dumbass you'd have gotten that from my post.

-good input on the common stereotype thing Ladypact.  Thanks

Thanks for the input peeps.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 1:59:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: weezyfbaby733

Slaveboy...I dont know what to say after that.
I think we might have to create an entire forum dedicated to that one saying.
I too am skoal-chewing, teeth gritting, bitch-slapping steaming pile of man-meat.

To answer questions:
-I think weezyfbaby is an awesome name, not only is he fuckin awesome, but it was the only thing I could come up with at the time. and if you weren't so busy judging people's names and what they might be like in the real world maybe you could be a respected individual in the real world as opposed to maybe just the forums. maybe.

-I think a wimp would be like what Coupleofwhats said: "I think he's referring to the whole "i am subhuman and not worthy! i grovel at your feet!" brand of submission."

-I'm not calling all subs pussies. I you weren't a dumbass you'd have gotten that from my post.

-good input on the common stereotype thing Ladypact.  Thanks

Thanks for the input peeps.

And if you weren't so intent on proving your machismo you might have seen the humor in my post,but alas you missed that along with everything else your missing my tough friend

< Message edited by slvemike4u -- 7/17/2008 2:00:38 PM >

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 2:01:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I want brain matter that actually works.  The muscles can come and go... big, small... firm or not... if the brain isn't in gear, what use are the muscles?  If he can't turn me on with that brain... I don't care how appealing he is physically... he isn't for me.  Muscles I can get any day, but they don't mean a lot without the brain.
I is real smart,no muscles ,but real smart...yanna talk?

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 2:05:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: weezyfbaby733

Slaveboy...I dont know what to say after that.
I think we might have to create an entire forum dedicated to that one saying.
I too am skoal-chewing, teeth gritting, bitch-slapping steaming pile of man-meat.

To answer questions:
-I think weezyfbaby is an awesome name, not only is he fuckin awesome, but it was the only thing I could come up with at the time. and if you weren't so busy judging people's names and what they might be like in the real world maybe you could be a respected individual in the real world as opposed to maybe just the forums. maybe.

-I think a wimp would be like what Coupleofwhats said: "I think he's referring to the whole "i am subhuman and not worthy! i grovel at your feet!" brand of submission."

-I'm not calling all subs pussies. I you weren't a dumbass you'd have gotten that from my post.

-good input on the common stereotype thing Ladypact.  Thanks

Thanks for the input peeps.



Are you just trolling to anger people, or are these serious questions and answers? If this wasn't the site it is, and you didn't have seemingly legitimate posts in other threads, I would think you were just some jackass making a fake account to fuck with people.

If you read my post, which clearly the size of it daunted you and you did not, you would've gleaned that much of this lifestyle revolves around personal desires and fantasies and not all of them are going to agree with what you believe is the "right" way to live it.

What you were referring to, and I feel comfortable telling you what you were intending at the time, was not the overly submissive groveling. While the groveling and stuff, which I dislike as well, may have been part of what you were intending to subject us to in posting your opinion, you also very clearly indicated that physical size and appearance were at the root of that opinion.

To quote you: " I'd imagine a dom would get more pleasure out of dominating some big tough guy rather than some little pussy".

No where in your first post do you talk about behavior except in a very vague way when you use some explitives to describe these generic men.

Is this post short enough for you to pay attention to?

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 2:24:53 PM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		Morsigil I think the pussy thing was intended for me,but it's yours if you want it,water off a ducks ass and all that...

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 2:27:18 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		This is a prime example darling... you might have a muscle or two.. but.. I question your gifts in other area's.  You slam dunk others on other threads... and you are rude, insulting and well... I have no need to go further.  You wouldn't get into my yahoo much less my... panty drawer. 

quote:

ORIGINAL: weezyfbaby733

Slaveboy...I dont know what to say after that.
I think we might have to create an entire forum dedicated to that one saying.
I too am skoal-chewing, teeth gritting, bitch-slapping steaming pile of man-meat.

To answer questions:
-I think weezyfbaby is an awesome name, not only is he fuckin awesome, but it was the only thing I could come up with at the time. and if you weren't so busy judging people's names and what they might be like in the real world maybe you could be a respected individual in the real world as opposed to maybe just the forums. maybe.

-I think a wimp would be like what Coupleofwhats said: "I think he's referring to the whole "i am subhuman and not worthy! i grovel at your feet!" brand of submission."

-I'm not calling all subs pussies. I you weren't a dumbass you'd have gotten that from my post.

-good input on the common stereotype thing Ladypact.  Thanks

Thanks for the input peeps.


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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 6:40:25 PM   
Morsigil


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Status: offline 		Slave mike, he was mentioning the pussy stuff before you even posted in the thread. I'm not sure why you feel it was directed at you. The "I(f) you weren't such a dumbass you would've gotten that from my post" piece was directed at you, but I'm about as likely to let that stand as an insult directed at myself.

I fight ignorance in all forms and on all fields, and endanger my pride and safety eagerly each time, not only when my investments are at stake.


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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 7:01:05 PM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		Cool Morsigil as I said You can take this one if You like,I'm realy okay with it.Am rather tired fom fighting for truth justice and the American way on the political side anyway....Lockit You have a panty drawer,that is so cool, I usually just stick mine in the glove box

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 7:17:17 PM   
BlackSakura


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Status: offline 		Um, sorry.  All the males I have dommed are ANYTHING but whimps.  I personally don't go for the doormat type.  Also, don't stereotype folks.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/17/2008 8:53:10 PM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		I was watching the cats the other day.

Mama cat brought up a weak little mousie that had already been pretty well pre-tenderized and dropped it in front of her kittens.  The kittens were curious at first, batted it about a bit with this paw or that, pounced it, sat back, watched another kitten pounce it, then jumped in again with a swipe and a bite.  Finally the most savage kitten bit the wee weak mousie's little head off and munched and crunched with relish.

Pride?  Was the kitten proud that it decimated a 'weak' little mousie?

It took malicious delight in killing the mouse.  I seriously doubt the kitten cared much whether it was a big brawny mouse or a little weak mouse. 

In time the kitten will grow up lanky and strong and will LIVE for stalking and subduing a few great big brawny rats.

Do you think that same lanky cat will pass up a weak little mouse if it happens upon one?

No.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/18/2008 5:37:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hmmmmmmmmm.......well i think that what you need to remember is that everyone is looking for something different. In some cases it may be a huge difference and in others it may a subtle difference. Ever notice that even in specific fetishes that peoples fantasies tend to differ to some degree?  Personally i feel there is value in all submission and i would hope that if a Domme takes me on that She will have pride in me. Of course that is just me. Some slaves/subs need to feel like worthless pieces of crap to their Dommes/Doms. That's their thing. To each their own.
   Many folks will tell You that because i want to be a girl that i am a wimp. To some Dommes/Doms i am. They need to take a manly man and turn them into a girl. Some Dommes/Doms like helping people realize who they are. Some Dommes/Doms know that with crossdressers, real life tends to hamper their feminization/dressing and so making them dress even when they don't feel like it is a thrill for the Domme. Last night i got home from work late and didn't put on anything girly after i showered. i was tired. Some Dommes would find it appealing to make sure i was always dressed at home just like some Dommes/Doms like trying to keep their babygirls in tha babygirl headspace all the time since that is a very difficult thing to do.  Many years ago i had a girlfriend who was not really into the scene, but had a huge foot and shoe fetish. She used to make me smell Her sneakers for 2 hours during the day before She got home. The idea of knowing that i was at home smelling Her sneakers turned Her on. i was 'submitting to Her feet' is how She put it. She did not consider me a wimp even though i admitted to Her that i enjoyed it. About 4 years back i was chatting with a Domme on anotehr site and She most definitely considered me a sissy.
   Anyway, my point is that everyone has different desires, needs, wants, fetishes and kinks. Whether there is 'pride' in dominating a 'wimp' depends on the people involved in that relationship. There is no clear cut answer to the question.
obediently,
lauren
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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/18/2008 7:08:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		alright my fault guys, i must say that was a bit harsh. the last thing i wanna do is insult the people im seeking feedback from. i apologize to all who was offended.
And in regards to Lockit's post, it's true. I actually started doing this whole post-thing to be an asshole and fuck with people, and as you can see on my history, I do. But after awhile I started taking it seriously and posting my own threads, and I find it kinda fun now. So if you could accept my apology :Lockit, and realize I'm not trying to fuck with people anymore I'd appreciate it.

So, so far I've gotten that the whole there's some groveler's, but they're fading out. The type of is becoming a stereotype,rather than an actual type, due to the lack of amount of them, or interest in them. It's more common for a mistress to find a more masculine submissive attractive because of the idea of dominating a man that's naturally supposed to be more physically overpowering than theirselves. All and all, it depends on the perspective of the dom. To each their own, but the brawn, is a little more popular. Any suggestions?


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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/18/2008 8:02:13 PM   
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Thanks for the laugh!

Still smiling....

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/19/2008 4:39:02 AM   
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It's more common for a mistress to find a more masculine submissive attractive because of the idea of dominating a man that's naturally supposed to be more physically overpowering than theirselves. All and all, it depends on the perspective of the dom. To each their own, but the brawn, is a little more popular. Any suggestions?


You're associating the 'wimpy' type with a smaller build. Sure, most men on average are bigger and taller than women on average, but physical strength or size is but a small part of an individual. You can be 6'2" and 300 lbs and no more intimidating or dominating or yeah, can be a 'wimp'. I've known a guy that big, he did social work, and while his looks might have been intimidating, he was just a big teddy bear. Wouldn't hurt a fly, and wasn't looking for fights.

Then there's my brother who's 5'9" and 165 lbs, a mountain of muscles who loves fist fights and getting into trouble, who respects authority that has earned his respect only (like his boss), but who probably would never fathom being a Domme's submissive (or anyone's really). To his perspective, he's not even submitting to his boss, they're mutually benefitting each other in different ways (he's working there for more than the pay, he loves his work). They're like buddies (even if his boss is like 20 years older than him). His boss will lend him hundreds of dollars, let him store his stuff there (at his workplace) if he's moving, give him access at anytime (he has the key to the place), and let him use his equipment to do personal stuff (like furniture of his own design, and for his own usage).

My brother is about average size for a man, statistics say 50% of men or so, will be bigger and taller than him. But he's everything BUT your definition of a wimp. I also know guys who are pretty short and small who can be great leaders or at least don't let anyone step on their toes. A co-worker of mine was 5'2" and 120 lbs and he sure as hell wasn't intimidated by bosses or co-workers (who were all taller than him).

A wimp, to me, is someone who will give themselves away without having their trust and respect earned. Who don't really care who dominates them as long as *someone* does. They can be 5'0" or 7'0", it doesn't matter. Being 'wimpy' is psychological, not physical.

Also see how Joe Pesci knocks the jerk-jock guy out in the movie My Cousin Vinny. And Pesci ain't big or strong or anything.


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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/19/2008 8:05:14 AM   
chiaThePet


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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam


In time the kitten will grow up lanky and strong and will LIVE for stalking and subduing a few great big brawny rats.


Orrrrrrr, the kitten will suffer a devastating and lethal case of the plague brought
on by the parasitic fleas whom hitchhike on the backs of big brawny rats.

Not that submissives should be compared to flea infested rats with an ulterior
motive aimed at their Dominant counterparts.

Though I am sure a few of the paramilitary underground resistance groups
such as S.W.I.T.C.H.  (Submissives With Intent To Change History)
have taken notice of an otherwise inocuous scheme.

This message brought to you as a public service by the founders of
W.I.M.P  (Weakness Is My Power) Some of you will understand this.

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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/19/2008 10:52:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		finally got around to reading this thread, loved your posting slaveboy.  needed the smelling salts after that one, lol.  anyway, there are lots of different people in this lifestyle, as they say, it takes all kinds.  i'll take my 5'3" fiesty lil shit against a 6 ft 8 marshmallow any day.  and i did.  someone else may prefer the opposite.  who is anyone to mock their choices as better or worse than anyone else's?  that's one sure way to get yourself a reputation as a real intolerant jerk.  i'm sure nobody really wants that when they're looking for a partner.
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RE: Wheres the pride in dominating a wimp? - 7/19/2008 10:18:40 PM   
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Well, to Ma'am I am a total WIMP. She has her way with me any way she wants...and I love it.

But to the World at large, I am her protector, her Rottweiler.

YES, it is possible to be both!

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