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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 8:01:42 AM

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. Since you have never been with a virgin male, let me just enlighten you. Yawnnnnnnnnn Ten seconds of not much.

LOL so true, but still better than a virgin female - three days of "owwww, no, yes, that hurts, no, yes, ouch, will it fit, thats too big, owwwwwww, ouch!" LOL

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 8:06:31 AM

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I don't want to meet a "nice" virginal man. I want a deviant, sadistic virginal Knight/man with a dungeon in his basement all geared up for torturing me during the honeymoon. :P

Your posts actually make me sad. Hermione you are setting yourself up for disappointment, and all I can do is hope that it doesn't hurt as much as I think it is going to. 'A deviant, sadistic virgin?? With a dungeon??' that is just not going to happen.

Have you tried the site Taken in Hand? That is more geared toward what you seek, at least on the christian side of things.

Hermione, Camille is right. It's not going to happy. Hell, you won't even know if it IS your fantasy to be with a sadistic man until you actually experience it. Fantasizing about what being a masochist is and how various implements would feel while you are in bed late at night is one thing ... being on the receiving end of a cane is quite another, and may be something you don't want anything to do with. On top of that, a virginal sadist who has never hit someone may crumple when he realizes he's hurting the one he loves - he may not have it in him.

I understand the wanting, the desire to try. But if you wait for your virginal sadist with a dungeon who will drag you into the woods and take you, like camille, it makes me sad and I see you setting yourself up for disappointment.

I strongly recommend the 'taken in hand' site also. I think you will find a lot of good info there that speaks to you.

As for driving ... I'm in the burbs and have to drive. I love driving. I can't imagine not having the freedom to take off and go wherever I wanted to, without thought. An adult who doesn't drive and doesn't live in Manhattan or a city with readily accessible public trans ... I don't get, but to each his/her own.

One last thing ... I'm a Catholic. I think you may have a few generalizations screwed up there, but I don't want to derail the thread even more than it already has been. See, we're not more into sex ... we're not supposed to have premarital sex. But lots do. Oh, well. Just like other people in other religions - even Baptist. You go to church on Sunday, hear what they want you to hear, say what they want you to say, then go and do what makes the most sense to you. We're not supposed to use the birth control pill ... I've used it a long time now. It's one thing to listen to all the talk .. it's another thing to follow it blindly.

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 8:13:20 AM

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Yep needingmore, and I will add to what you said if you don't mind. Men who repress their sexual urges are the men who become Catholic priests with candy in their pocket (I think everyone knows what I mean.) They are the men who become serial rapists and serial killers. They are the men that flash women and their daughters in parking lots.

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 8:17:25 AM

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Precisely, slaveboy!

Now, ick for making me think about the few times in my life I've been flashed. lol Why aren't flashers ever really nice looking guys who make it worth our time to look? (I know, I know ... 'cause they can get it and don't need to flash, but honestly, they were the creepiest men doing it!)

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 8:17:27 AM

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**laughs** Yes, then after we finally give in, it hurt so damn much I think it was another three months before I went for round two. Of course, once you get the hang of it....hell yeah.

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. Since you have never been with a virgin male, let me just enlighten you. Yawnnnnnnnnn Ten seconds of not much.

LOL so true, but still better than a virgin female - three days of "owwww, no, yes, that hurts, no, yes, ouch, will it fit, thats too big, owwwwwww, ouch!" LOL

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 8:19:22 AM

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Since you have never been with a virgin male, let me just enlighten you. Yawnnnnnnnnn Ten seconds of not much.

ROFL!! So true.. I want a man who knows what the hell he's doing and where to find what I need him to find ... lol

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 8:24:50 AM

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Oh right on

I know it might sound sexist but I love a man that can show me things, and make me well..gasp. Yum. I am so glad I have one.

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Since you have never been with a virgin male, let me just enlighten you. Yawnnnnnnnnn Ten seconds of not much.

ROFL!! So true.. I want a man who knows what the hell he's doing and where to find what I need him to find ... lol

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 8:46:15 AM

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. Since you have never been with a virgin male, let me just enlighten you. Yawnnnnnnnnn Ten seconds of not much.

LOL so true, but still better than a virgin female - three days of "owwww, no, yes, that hurts, no, yes, ouch, will it fit, thats too big, owwwwwww, ouch!" LOL

i'm 45 in less than 2 weeks. i've not been a virgin in a very long time. i STILL have moments of "owww, that hurts, its too big, STOP you bastard! oww ouch!"

virgin doesnt necessarily have much to do with it.

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and oh...if you're lookin for a rose, you dont go searchin in a cactus garden. cause i'm tellin ya, perverted males who havent gotten round to doing anything about it are VERY few and far between. and yep there's liars out there.

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 8:51:34 AM

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At first this post made me want to learn to drive... But now it just makes me want to try out all the things I'm still "virgin" too so I know for sure I want them ;) Though I'm pretty easy to convince as I am Irish and we are well known as slutty drunkards.. But I always looked at it as a good thing :D well maybe not the drunkard part ;)
I was married once and was very "virgin" to a great deal of things with the exception of normal sex :P But I did find all those kinky idea's that my ex-wife wanted to try I enjoyed and always wanted more :D.. Well except maybe the normal sex.. That just seemed wierd :(

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 9:38:25 AM

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"It's funny, here you see the Baptists parking way in the back of the parking lot to skulk into the "ABC" store to get a bottle of whiskey, heads down, floppy hat on, sunglasses, hands in their pockets like they're "invisable". lol"

This is true. My grandmother made me park several blocks away and buy her some as a gift to give someone else, but didn't want anyone to know. :P

I dunno anything about that college, but being as I went to a Christian college that so conservative that everyone on my floor told me I needed to make a commitment to stop watching PG-13 and R-rated movies on my first day... I would say that isn't the normal for a Christian college

Anyway, I was kind of joking about the dungeon. I've met several kinky virgins. I've been spanked and such and I know I like pain. I love taken in hand - but you can't meet people there. I used to be a member of some of the kinky Christian boards -but almost all of them were divorced, middle agers with kids. And they don't have profiles or email or ways of connecting with people. No questions about who you are.. etc. Also, I don't want Children, and usually the people on those sites are just ultra-conversative, want fourteen children, and think kink is bad - it's mostly just some spanking and discipline over the wife. I think tying a girl up would be considered bad there.

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 9:55:17 AM

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I dunno anything about that college, but being as I went to a Christian college that so conservative that everyone on my floor told me I needed to make a commitment to stop watching PG-13 and R-rated movies on my first day... I would say that isn't the normal for a Christian college

OK I dont know whether to laugh or cry here.... You were raised southern Baptist but dont know anything about Baylor and have determined that it "isnt the normal for a Christian college"??? Thats kind of like a Catholic saying that they dont know nothing about the Vatican or a Jew saying they have never heard of Isreal. LOL

Allow me to enlighten you.... Baylor University is a private Baptist university. It was formed in 1845 and is the oldest institution of higher education in Texas. It is also the largest Baptist college in the world. They have over 14,000 students from all 50 states and 70 countries....

But nawwwwwwwww, they aren't normal. Your place is... Afterall Baptists don't even dance - its a sin - so how could the largest Baptist college in the world have dances, and a dance team, and even a minor in dance offered through their school of music??? Obviously, they are abnormal. LOL

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 10:31:32 AM

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DA - I imagine it is so secular because it is so big. That usually it what happens. My college wasn't even Baptist - but Campbell University not far away (Baptist) was as bad/worse than the denominational college I went to (in KY). 14k is hardly a dent in the thousands of small colleges all over the country that are Christian. I think Baptists have more against the girls and guys dancing together in the dark kind of thing vs interpretive dance teams for church, and such. And just because there were some cheerleaders on that page, doesn't have my convinced that those kids are slutty there, anyway. I was a dance/music major after I left the private college at a public school. Have you been to many Baptist weddings? There is almost never wine, and rarely dancing. My Dad was catholic and his family still is, and their weddings are night and day from the Baptist ones.

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 10:45:02 AM

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Baptists don't dance ? I'll be there in five minutes.

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 11:34:14 AM

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i was raised southern baptist, and there was an awful lot of dancing in my family. i also have never heard of baylor. so...there you go.

on the subject of virginity and kink, my previous master came from a very strongly southern baptist family and is still a virgin. he is 25. so they're not IMPOSSIBLE to find, just rare, and unlikely on this site.

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 11:45:00 AM

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DA - I imagine it is so secular because it is so big. That usually it what happens. My college wasn't even Baptist - but Campbell University not far away (Baptist) was as bad/worse than the denominational college I went to (in KY). 14k is hardly a dent in the thousands of small colleges all over the country that are Christian. I think Baptists have more against the girls and guys dancing together in the dark kind of thing vs interpretive dance teams for church, and such. And just because there were some cheerleaders on that page, doesn't have my convinced that those kids are slutty there, anyway. I was a dance/music major after I left the private college at a public school. Have you been to many Baptist weddings? There is almost never wine, and rarely dancing. My Dad was catholic and his family still is, and their weddings are night and day from the Baptist ones.

Ohhh OK I see, Baylor is secular because its "too big" so despite it being world famous and the largest Baptist College in the world and parents from 70 countries sending their little Baptist students there to the tune of $32,000 a year its not REALLY Baptist - its secular. Gotcha.

The second part I highlighted in red I am a bit unclear about. You said earlier that "Baptists dont allow dancing even at weddings" so I sent you a link showing the Baylor Dance Team which was establised before you were even born. I dont recall showing any "sluts"??? So where do the "slutty kids" come in? Are they like the people who would graduate from that secular college and then grow up to be the military "Slutty Drunkards" such as myself, my dad, popeye, misterbeast, thadius, slaveboys father, aynees father and essentially everyone else who ever put on a uniform besides your "good christian virgin grandpa" that you were referring to before?

I just want to get this clear though, as its not often we wretched perverts and slutty drunkards get to be enlighted by someone so superior in moral fiber.... Basically, anyone who has had sex is "a slut" right? But you are morally superior because you are waiting for a virgin dom with a valid drivers license to, per your own statement in post 40, "abduct you and rape you in the woods" right? I get it now! Silly me, it must be those syphillis lesions and alcohol binges that have damaged my "slutty drunkard" dancing Baptist brain. LOL

A word of advice - acceptence and tolerance goes a long way in the kink community. "Different strokes for different folks", anything goes as long as its safe, sane, and consensual, etc... Maybe its not "the Baptists" who are so intolerant... Ill have to ask my favorite Baylor alumnae if there are any sluts there the next time Im fucking her after a long night of drinking and dancing... Sluts! EEEK I hope there arent any - if so we MUST hunt them down and burn them at the stake as witches!!!!!

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 11:55:52 AM

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I think that's about enough of this.

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 11:56:34 AM

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Hermione, "Baptist" is a wide umbrella term. Like a lot of protestants, Baptists have a lot of different sects. It why you see churches named; 1st Baptist, 2nd Baptist, Baptist Church of the Holy Ghost Down by the River, etc, etc. It's true that some sects frown on dancing and drinking. Hell, I know of a Baptist church here in town that threatened to expel a member because he drove a delivery truck for a beer distributor.

However most of them only preach moderation when it comes to any "worldly" activity. I told you earlier that I have a friend that is Pentecostal. Well there are a lot of different sects of Pentecostalism. Some completely forbid their female parishoners from wearing pants and cutting their hair. They forbid male parishoners from wearing shorts. Some sects even forbid parishoners from owning television sets. But my friend's church is fairly loose on doctrine. They aren't as draconian in their approach.

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 12:02:08 PM

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I don't really think there is anything wrong with being a virgin and i would play with a virgin Domme :) however for me I want to experiance everything that interests me, which could include chastity if i got involved with a virgin Domme lol.

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 12:18:52 PM

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And just because there were some cheerleaders on that page, doesn't have my convinced that those kids are slutty there, anyway.

I'm confused. So anyone who has sex outside of marriage is slutty?

And there's no drinking either?

I need to join the slutty drunkard crowd!

You blow me away with your "reasoning". I had to check your age. You sound about 15 and like someone who's taken a chastity vow for the very first time. Not like a 25yo woman who understands the ways of the world and that there are people who make different choices in life, which doesn't make them any better or worse than you, and top top it off ... who is on a kink sex website with tons of perverts (yours truly included! lol)!!

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RE: Is there something wrong with a Master who can't/wo... - 7/19/2008 12:22:57 PM

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I live in NYC and let my driver's license expire. Before I knew it, I had to take the entire test again. I haven't bothered to do it.

If you live in Manhattan, public transportation makes a lot more sense than owning a car

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