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How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 8:06:16 PM   
michelle1227


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Status: offline 		How would you punish a sub who disobeyed you or told you no?

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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 8:09:22 PM   
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How would you punish a sub who disobeyed you or told you no?

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Besides the normal beatings and abuse... I would get creative with one of the following.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BD767-zB_fg
http://www.gas-tec.com/images/JPEGs/hamtwo.JPG 
http://sculptureking.com/images/3810PcsAngleGrinderKit.JPG 

Then again, it would depend on the circumstances...


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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 8:09:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		it depends on the Dom

Some favor corpreal punishment using pain, some prefer mental tricks.
Some ask the sub what works best on correcting you, what do you feel helps the sitation. Some dont "punish" but lecture.

Personally I would find what works for you...then offer it to your partner. I know pain makes me resent my partner, to me theres nothing a spanking can solve that talking about it and then corner time cant.


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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 8:10:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Depends.  There would have to be a repeated pattern and long term issues going on for me to get to the point of actually punishing someone.  First I'd have discussed with them, discovered the source of the issues, worked with them over time, built security together, trained a bit more focused on those weaknesses and thoroughly scrounged through my own judgements and processes to see how to make adjustments for us both to get where we wanted.

If, after all that, we came to the point where punishment would be necessary, it would depend on the act and context.  But it would happen swiftly, directly related to the behavior I wanted to correct and would include many more discussions about the problem and how to work on it together.

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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 8:11:30 PM   
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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 8:13:37 PM   
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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 8:17:02 PM   
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I made her watch the NFL draft, she's not a fan. 


Somebody around here used to use Neopets in the very same way... He would force her to play the evil game for hours a day.

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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 8:19:57 PM   
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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 8:23:56 PM   
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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 8:28:47 PM   
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Make her listen to this for twelve hours.
 
http://www.greymatter.org/satanichamsterdance/


Now that is sadistic.

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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 8:43:37 PM   
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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 8:43:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Exquemelin

I made her watch the NFL draft, she's not a fan. 


Somebody around here used to use Neopets in the very same way... He would force her to play the evil game for hours a day.


I actually like neopets (when I was minus 4 or 5 years) The games were pretty fun...and interesting... unless you mean eliv thade....Then thats just....O_O EVIL....


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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 9:01:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

Make her listen to this for twelve hours.
 
http://www.greymatter.org/satanichamsterdance/


Ha! I clicked on that...and my cat came running. Does this mean I have a satanic cat?

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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 9:03:16 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		Figure out why he said no. You need his intent and reasoning before you can decide, in my opinion. Then, choose something he doesn't like for him to do, based on the level of disobedience. If you have the policy of "my way or the highway", be prepared that it might be the highway.

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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 9:03:48 PM   
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quote:

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Make her listen to this for twelve hours.
 
http://www.greymatter.org/satanichamsterdance/


Ha! I clicked on that...and my cat came running. Does this mean I have a satanic cat?

Master Fire



Does it's head spin around like an owls?

And have you noticed any pictures of Anton LaVey hidden under pillows?

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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/27/2008 9:04:06 PM   
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Does this mean I have a satanic cat?

"satanic cat"....isn't that redundant?


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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/28/2008 4:53:09 AM   
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I made her watch the NFL draft, she's not a fan. 


Good morning!
LOL I love the NFL and AFL, have at least 2-3 fantasy teams each but I HATE the draft..booooringggg.
Love,
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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/28/2008 7:06:02 AM   
Exquemelin


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ORIGINAL: Exquemelin

I made her watch the NFL draft, she's not a fan. 


Good morning!
LOL I love the NFL and AFL, have at least 2-3 fantasy teams each but I HATE the draft..booooringggg.
Love,
Zechriel
Daddy/Master Lawrence's Baby Girl
Better hope Daddy/Master Lawrence doesn't see, I might give him ideas.


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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/28/2008 7:10:16 AM   
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How would you punish a sub who disobeyed you or told you no?

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Id make them eat a bowl of rockyroad icecream

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RE: How would you punish a sub who disobeyed - 7/28/2008 7:22:43 AM   
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Make her eat blueberry pie with vanilla icecream.


Damn should have read through all the posts :)



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