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AAkasha -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 9:25:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MamaDomme1 mal-- I am so happy that your Mistress came home and you two shared an amazing time together. I'm not into all the emoticons but by damned I love your attitude! I am very glad to see that you guys have had this remarkable relationship for 7 years and every time I see one of your posts, I just grin. Sometimes, (ok most times) they are difficult to wade thru, but at least we all know that you are happy and bouncing! And, if you two were married, I doubt you would have as much free time to post about it all--- hard to sit and type with a fist up your ass. ;) I might be wrong but I thought she was a professional dominatrix and this wasn't a personal relationship. Not that it matters, but for some people reading it, it might clarify a few things. If not, I apologize. Akasha

sleuthingsub -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 9:54:29 AM)
Mal, you know how when something is overused so much it loses meaning? You're doing that to the smilee. Poor mister smiles is now the same as a period or comma. I've no problem with reading about other peoples graphic sex lives...in fact it gives me ideas sometimes. But dude, one or two smiles is enough to understand that you're happy. At least you could mix it up with other expressions perhaps? Anyways, I'm just really amazed at the amount of smilees. That's about it.

MamaDomme1 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 10:49:54 AM)
Damn, I hate when I mistake things like that. Thanks for letting me know tho-- that puts an entirely different light on the subject.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 11:06:02 AM)
It does, sort of. Since we never hear from her, who knows, really?

AAkasha -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 11:20:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus It does, sort of. Since we never hear from her, who knows, really? Unless she is different from the woman he talks about here: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1085936/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1085936 "No money, no honey" Then yeah, I think she is a pro. Akasha

MamaDomme1 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 11:20:49 AM)
Exactly~~~

LadyHibiscus -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 11:27:16 AM)
Well, I am not going to fault her for that, I was a pro dominant for years. Not a pro dominant that allowed her clients to touch her, or see her naked, or give her orgasms, but almost everyone got a hug!

MamaDomme1 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 11:33:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Well, I am not going to fault her for that, I was a pro dominant for years. Not a pro dominant that allowed her clients to touch her, or see her naked, or give her orgasms, but almost everyone got a hug! Those have been my standard rules also with my ProDomming times. Hugs are not a bad thing at all-- altho there have been a few that wasn't getting close enough for a hug.... just being in the same room was bad enough.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 11:37:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MamaDomme1 Those have been my standard rules also with my ProDomming times. Hugs are not a bad thing at all-- altho there have been a few that wasn't getting close enough for a hug.... just being in the same room was bad enough. Those guys never made it to the studio!! There were those miscalculations that never got a second appointment, though!

MamaDomme1 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 11:42:15 AM)
So right on the no second appointment! And I certainly never hesitated on walking out the door before any money was ever exchanged. Or even after money was exchanged if things started going sour.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 11:44:00 AM)
Tough old broads, aren't we! [:D]

AAkasha -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 11:47:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Well, I am not going to fault her for that, I was a pro dominant for years. Not a pro dominant that allowed her clients to touch her, or see her naked, or give her orgasms, but almost everyone got a hug! Subs reading this should realize however that it is not the norm for a pro femdom to have full intercourse as he describes. In many places this is illegal. Not sure where he lives though. Akasha

UmbraDomina -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 11:49:26 AM)
I belive there is another term besides "pro dom" that is used for a woman who is paid to and I qoute both of Mal's thread's I have read..... to have sex with him, to provide "snowball kisses" ( a term used for the transpher of semen from a womans mouth to mans after she has given him oral sex) and "cream pies" ( a term used for a man having oral sex with a woman after he has orgasmed inside her), not to mention the phrase " no money no honey" I would if I was mal, be concerened that she interacted with her many other clients in the same manner, and she does fluid exchange with them all. Has he been tested for STD's? has she? how many people does she sell herself to daily? have they all been tested? Either this is a wanker fantasy, or the boy has a whore...... a unsafe one at that. Alexandra ~ who is in Michigan, but wouldn't touch a whore's boy with a hefty bag covering him.

MamaDomme1 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 11:51:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Tough old broads, aren't we! [:D] lol-- yes, and proudly so too!

ElanSubdued -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 12:54:51 PM)
To those who took offense at my post, Just as mal is free to post as he does, so too am I free to post constructive feedback. [:)] Albeit, I was a tad direct here. [:)] Ah, but that's the nature of these boards. [:)] Elan.

ElanSubdued -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 1:33:54 PM)
mal, This hasn't seemed to occur to you so I'll point it out. For many of us, the fact that you pay to get your ass fisted has no impact on our happiness. Honestly. Really. Truly. It's of no consequence to any of us. You're not doing anyone a service. You're not spreading happiness in the world. The only time any of this is of consequence to others is when you clutter up the forums with repetitive, wanker tripe. That makes me (and some other folks around here) very unhappy indeed. A big part of the "wanker factor" is that you share no aspects of your life other than the anal play you enjoy. Were there some variety and context in your posts, they might be delicious, pervy diversions. As it is though, every post of yours is just another anal fest. "Mistress fisted my ass." "Mistress fucked me with her strap-on." "Mistress got up to her elbow." "Love a woman in control." Ad nail-grinding nauseam. No dominant woman I know would put up with this unless... well... you paid her. Which is fine. You choose to pay someone to get your needs met. Okay. I respect your choice. But seriously mal, nobody needs or wants to hear every salacious detail of your sessions. What you post defines HNG - Horny Net Geek. It's offensive. It paints an extremely distorted, fantasy picture of actual BDSM relationships. And, as much as you speak of your mistress with kindness, your posts are, none-the-less, extremely disrespectful to her. I don't suppose your mistress would be happy to see pages and pages on her sex life posted in public forums. Then again, perhaps she doesn't care once her cheque is in hand. It's quite possible she accepts this as an occupational hazard. Still, were I you, out of respect for your mistress, I'd err on the side or respect and caution, and maintain discretion and privacy. If you want to actually contribute to the forums, join in the discussions. Ask questions. Share your knowledge of technique with others. And sure, from time-to-time, revel in your joy and share a scene report. It's nice to hear about play and to see others happy, but it's not so nice to have the same junk pummeled at us over and over again. quote: geez just think if i was married to her I can assure you that marriage to a domina is very, very different than what you write about mal. There are actually things in life a domina and submissive share that have nothing to do with BDSM play and sex. Thankfully, many, many things. Elan.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 1:40:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued To those who took offense at my post, Just as mal is free to post as he does, so too am I free to post constructive feedback. [:)] Albeit, I was a tad direct here. [:)] Ah, but that's the nature of these boards. [:)] Elan. you didn't offend me i found mal's post better suited as wanker material for literotica.com if it didn't sound so fake.

Politesub53 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 1:42:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued To those who took offense at my post, Just as mal is free to post as he does, so too am I free to post constructive feedback. [:)] Albeit, I was a tad direct here. [:)] Ah, but that's the nature of these boards. [:)] Elan. What constructive feedback are you giving here ? All i see is you moaning about Mals posts, and if you cant stand them so much, why even read the thread ? I dont mean to be overly critical here, but seriously, why not just move on and read the threads you like ?

ElanSubdued -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 1:46:29 PM)
thetammyjo, quote: thetammyjo to malloves69: You could actually help folks enjoy your happiness more, mal, if you took the time to use punctuation and paragraphs in your posts. Frankly I have so much difficulty sorting through one thought to the next that I stop reading your posts and just look at people's reactions. Yup. This is another aspect of the "wanker factor" that increases the "nails on a chalkboard" effect. Graphic, repetitive, do-me posts that always focus on anal sex. Atrocious formatting, spelling, and grammar. And those damn smiley things. It's enough to put me off anal play (if not BDSM) for a lifetime. Elan.

ElanSubdued -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 2:09:48 PM)
Politesub53, quote: Politesub53: What constructive feedback are you giving here? All i see is you moaning about Mals posts, and if you cant stand them so much, why even read the thread ? I dont mean to be overly critical here, but seriously, why not just move on and read the threads you like? Here is some of the constructive feedback I posted: quote: ElanSubdued: If you want to actually contribute to the forums, join in the discussions. Ask questions. Share your knowledge of technique with others. And sure, from time-to-time, revel in your joy and share a scene report. It's nice to hear about play and to see others happy, but it's not so nice to have the same junk pummeled at us over and over again. As to why I decided to post instead of ignoring this thread entirely... often I do ignore mal's posts. However, it seemed that in this case shooting the messenger might help improve the quality of the forums for all. Also, it seemed more appropriate to take my frustration out on mal rather than on a poor puppy. That silly mal boy doesn't realize the negative impact he's had on the lives of many a puppy (and many a domina for that matter). Therefore, call this an act of humane necessity. :-) Side note: what I fail to understand is why a few people (you, for example) put up with this junk. Were mal's detailed, salacious dissertations on his anal sex life posted by anyone else, you'd call it out as HNG fodder which is exactly what it is. Please, if you can see any commentary on power exchange, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism, BDSM protocols, or any other aspect of BDSM lifestyle in mal's posts, do point it out to me. I'd love to learn from what I've ostensibly been missing all this time. Elan.

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