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MamaDomme1 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 6:53:07 PM)

~~FR~~

Sorry, but I am one Pro that NEVER engaged in sexual release.  EVER.  I follow very strict observence of any local and federal laws against obscenity, nudity, sexual acts, touching, etc.  I do not have my clients nude, nor do they see me nude.  I do not give hand jobs, nor even allow them to masturbate in my presence.  They are allowed to do whatever they wish once they are in a room alone.  I keep telling people that I am retired from that profession..... but I do have some select clients that I continue to see.  I'm good at what I do.  I don't have to be a sex worker.  If someone wishes for more, they are free to go elsewhere.

Now, I also do happen to session people on a non-professional basis.  There can be some nudity there.  BUT, then again, I do not have sex (no strap-on, no anal play, no hand jobs, and absolutely no intercourse) with them.

I only have sex with persons I am involved in a committed relationship with.  And then it is absolutely safe sex.  I have lived almost 49 years without any type of STD at all, and I sure don't wish to change that.

So yeah, it's been a while since I've had sex.  Thank goodness for vibrators and dildos!




MzMia -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 6:59:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MamaDomme1

~~FR~~

Sorry, but I am one Pro that NEVER engaged in sexual release.  EVER.  I follow very strict observence of any local and federal laws against obscenity, nudity, sexual acts, touching, etc.  I do not have my clients nude, nor do they see me nude.  I do not give hand jobs, nor even allow them to masturbate in my presence.  They are allowed to do whatever they wish once they are in a room alone.  I keep telling people that I am retired from that profession..... but I do have some select clients that I continue to see.  I'm good at what I do.  I don't have to be a sex worker.  If someone wishes for more, they are free to go elsewhere.

Now, I also do happen to session people on a non-professional basis.  There can be some nudity there.  BUT, then again, I do not have sex (no strap-on, no anal play, no hand jobs, and absolutely no intercourse) with them.

I only have sex with persons I am involved in a committed relationship with.  And then it is absolutely safe sex.  I have lived almost 49 years without any type of STD at all, and I sure don't wish to change that.

So yeah, it's been a while since I've had sex.  Thank goodness for vibrators and dildos!


MamaDomme, I am sure that all you say is true.
I don't think MsC or I, said all Professional Dominants.
In fact, it could actually be a small minority that engage in these activities.
But, to say that there are NO women out here that do it, is dubious at best.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 7:15:26 PM)

I adore watching men masturbate, and sometimes I allowed my clients to do it for me, once I knew and trusted them.  That kind of thing falls under the prostitution umbrella in lovely Michigan, and I tried not to take chances.  No handjobs, though.  No physical intimacy at all, really. 

Kind of sad, now that I think on it!  Still, I have clients that call me years after I left the business, so I think I was doing *something* right. [8D]




MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 7:19:22 PM)

Thank you MzMia, you are spot on

MamaDomme1, I do not doubt for a second what you say about your own practices

But you do not make a living as a professional dominatrix.

By way of contrast, Dr Jodie Hanson PhD (aka Mistress J) has published a "warts and all" account of staying in business as a pro-domme long term called "Private Theatre"
http://www.mistressj.com/Author.htm

Dr Hanson was an academic and researcher into the sex industry before crossing to the Dark Side[:D]

She is absolutely honest about the kinds of clients (married men on their way home from work to the suburbs) and the kinds of services that keep them coming back (ejaculation without vaginal penetration)

Of course, we probably all play with friends on a  non-professional basis with absolutely no sexual release

But so what if there is sexual release??  So what if someone pays for that release?? Who cares if that is what many (not all) pro-dommes really do?  And why? 




MzMia -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 7:30:18 PM)

[:D]
quote:

ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

Thank you MsMia, you are spot on

MamaDomme1, I do not doubt for a second what you say about your own practices

But you do not make a living as a professional dominatrix.

By way of contrast, Dr Jodie Hanson PhD (aka Mistress J) has published a "warts and all" account of staying in business as a pro-domme long term called "Private Theatre"
http://www.mistressj.com/Author.htm

Dr Hanson was an academic and researcher into the sex industry before crossing to the Dark Side[:D]

She is absolutely honest about the kinds of clients (married men on their way home from work to the suburbs) and the kinds of services that keep them coming back (ejaculation)

Of course, we probably all play with friends on a  non-professional basis with absolutely no sexual release

But so what if there is sexual release??  So what if someone pays for that release?? Who cares if that is what many (not all) pro-dommes really do?  And why? 



[:)]Thank you for the link MsC, it looks like a very interesting read.
There are a fair number of Professional Dominants with college degree's and are
well educated. [:)]
It is now on my reading list.[;)]
Look at the majority of the threads that are posted on the message boards?
[:)]Did I wake up and land in Oz?[:)]

That is why I wondered why mal's thread was singled out as sexual in nature,
while the other millions are not?[:)]
mal is doing,what many on here are doing, whether they chat about it or not.
mal has been posting similar threads [:)]for years, so I am not sure what the big
deal was with this one, or the other many similar threads floating around.[:)] 




MamaDomme1 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 7:52:03 PM)

~~FR~~

Yes, I have made my living as a Professional Dominatrix for many, many years.  In fact, I suppose one could say I still do as that income (as rare as it may be nowdays) is still my primary income.

But seriously-- I have known many ProDommes that do just exactly what has been described in this thread.... just hasn't been my choice.  I see nothing wrong with anyone's personal choice in the matter, however.

And I just love mal's happiness.... and as long as he is safe, sane, and consents, that is all that matters really.




Lynnxz -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 7:58:08 PM)

I wouldn't agree with the  "All dommes give sexual release" statement. Personally- I don't-, aI know several who do- and I know a few who don't. Do I lose business because of it? Yes, but it is still my primary source of income, and I'm doing pretty well.

I don't have a problem with Mal, other than his god-awful habit of using [:)] instead of punctuation. His posts are cute, if a little predictable.




slowtension -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 7:59:02 PM)

Hi all.. never read a post before and guess what? This is the first! I'm wondering now if it's all like this or if the Mal saga is really unique. What i wonder about is why anyone posts stories and then debates over right and wrong about it... is it like writing in a private journal? private but yet public? Or is it a form of literary masterbation?... hmmmmm that reminds me.. i have something better to do ! 5 points please (_|_)




dragon2760 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 8:02:27 PM)

Welcome and hang around it gets even better sometimes.  [:)][:)][:)][:)]




Venatrix -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 8:09:08 PM)

Damn.  You should have seen it a couple of weeks ago.  This is the slow season.




MamaDomme1 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/6/2008 8:19:28 PM)

~~FR~~

yeah... we are having to really stretch things just to stay awake right now!




malloves69 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/7/2008 12:57:10 AM)

thank you ladys for your comments ..im sure you are all quite wonderfull indeed [:)] my mistress is quite real ..thank gawd [:)] she is a amazing woman indeed [:)] after one of our get togethers we even went to see sex and the city movie together which was alot of fun too as we shared alot of laughs together about the movie ...and yes we do lunch together sometimes as well [:)] i hope she never gets old of me she does mean alot to me [:)] we laugh sometimes when we are 60 or 70 will she still be fisting me ..guess time will tell [:)] the after glow thing is starting to wear off but it really is amazing how wonderfull the lady makes me feel ..have a good day [:)] mal




dreamerdreaming -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/7/2008 12:47:13 PM)

(pussy creaming...)

Mal, I'm crushing on you. Sometimes I even wonder what you look like, but it doesn't really matter... All that matters is that you are happy and fulfilled (no pun intended!) along with your lucky Mistress.
Love your posts. you are a priceless treasure.




malloves69 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/7/2008 1:00:44 PM)

pussy creaming ? [:)] woo hoo !! but your like 2000 miles away ..i swear mistress i was faithfull [:)] was going to say i might be going to vegas later this year [:)] my mistress is amazing ..we do only see each other once maybe twice a week ...gawd i crave a more full time thing ..smile ..with my current mistress i wonder if that will ever happen ...if it does great [:)] my dreams are answered [:)] love a creamy pussy by the way [:)] glad i made your day ..hugs mal [:)]




MzMia -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/7/2008 6:55:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: malloves69

thank you ladys for your comments ..im sure you are all quite wonderfull indeed [:)] my mistress is quite real ..thank gawd [:)] she is a amazing woman indeed [:)] after one of our get togethers we even went to see sex and the city movie together which was alot of fun too as we shared alot of laughs together about the movie ...and yes we do lunch together sometimes as well [:)] i hope she never gets old of me she does mean alot to me [:)] we laugh sometimes when we are 60 or 70 will she still be fisting me ..guess time will tell [:)] the after glow thing is starting to wear off but it really is amazing how wonderfull the lady makes me feel ..have a good day [:)] mal


mal[:)] you are becomming a collarme celebrity[:)]
I am glad you are so happy[:)] and have found someone[:)]
that satisfies your needs[:D]
I hope you are still[:)]having fun at 90 and 100[:)] 
 




Dnomyar -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/8/2008 10:17:17 AM)

So am I going to have to start seeing a pro Domme to get this much attention???




MamaDomme1 -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/8/2008 11:23:51 AM)

Depends on how bad you wish to have a fist up your bum, Dnomyar!  If you find some sweet sub willing to do it, and you are willing to come post about your joys of it, I'm sure you would be an instant hit with us!  (not that you aren't already)


*walks off whistling innocently~~~




LadyHibiscus -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/8/2008 11:26:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

So am I going to have to start seeing a pro Domme to get this much attention???


DO NOT GET ME STARTED MISTER NEVER CALLS ME!![8|]




LadyPact -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/8/2008 11:45:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

So am I going to have to start seeing a pro Domme to get this much attention???


<In My best, cheezy, salesman voice>

That's right, friend!  Not only do you get everything on the menu for your paid session, if you act now, we'll throw in free the extra bonus of an entire gambit of opinions on the Collar Me fourms!  Just use the handy, dandy feature of your after glow coupon to stir up lively debates!  But wait, there's more!  That's just one of the possible free items.  You may also be lucky enough to be selected for a free overnight stay at your local county 'bed and breakfast'.  Some clients may even be selected for the ultimate special prize!!!  The free 'gift' that keeps on giving!!!


Fine print disclaimer.  The term local county bed and breakfast may also be termed by the fringe benefit team as the local county jail.  Please see local, county, and state laws to verify.  This particular added bonus may not be available in NV or foreign countries.  Ultimate prize winners can only be validated by public health officials or other medical workers.








ElanSubdued -> RE: mals amazing monday get together ...shes back ..smile (8/8/2008 12:20:15 PM)

Venatrix et al;

Pussy creaming and pussy cream pies?  Hand jobs, prostate milking, anal sex, vaginal sex, and orgasms on tap?  A mistress who drops to her knees to finger, plunder, fuck, and fist my ass the moment we meet, any time we meet?  This sounds pretty good.  Actually, it sounds fanfuckingtastic!

*wonders off singing*

*gotta' get me a pro domme*
*it's all about me, you see*
*gotta' get me a pro domme*
*yeah, gotta' get a pro for me*

*tra-la-la... la-la... la-la...*

Side note to Venatrix:  I figured this week's episode needs a theme song.  What do you think of my submission? :-)

Edited to add:  no professional dominas were hurt, injured, or otherwise misappropriated during the making of this recording.

Elan.




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