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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

where are the mindfuck stories?

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida
Hi GT,

Actually he said "new dates", "new girls" and girls who were "fresh to him".  I held off from posting anything about it at first because, like you, I reserved room for the fact they perhaps they had talked at great length first.  But the message conveyed from his words led the readers to believe they didn't know each other well, and this was the reason for testing these girls to see if they were who they said they were.  If they knew each other well, his friend would likely know them well enough to not have to "test their submission", in my opinion.  That's one of the reasons I took issue with it.  But I also mentioned these new girls may have their own "testing" process to filter out doms that may not fit their ideals.  In my case, such a "test" would filter out someone who did this to me, because to do this on a first play date would not establish the trust I would need to build in him. 

The scenario in the OP doesn't seem to be about submission at all; rather about how well the girl plays.  Since it was described as submission, it doesn't work for me.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
ok.  having spoken with RS, I will say that in this case he didnt articulate well.

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida
I'd say supporting his buddy's idea as a really good idea and his follow-up posts criticizing others who didn't, articulated what formed my opinion.  I don't know the man and wish him no ill will, but people do respond to what they agree or disagree with, as I have done.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

understood. 

but I still stand by the assertion that the point of the op was totally sidetracked:  where are the mindfuck stories?

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My experience with mind fucks pretty much surround hints and suggestions and ideas planted in my head that are allowed to ferment until I am either giddy with anticipation of seeing him again or anxious and unsure about seeing him again because something new may be introduced.  I find it challenging and frustrating and just plain fun sometimes to have these little ideas floating around my head, focusing my attention on him and knowing he did it just to tie me into knots.  And I love that it works and makes me need to see him again ....And I love that sometimes I'm my own worst enemy.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

AS.. *droool* may I borrow him?? *grin*

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ORIGINAL: NeedingMore220

True, Greedy ... however, in the OP he wrote a long description of a mind fuck, hence opening it up for discussion - no?  I reacted to that rather than answering his direct question, true, as did others.  And then he responded to my comment, opening up the discussion to sharks and tests of submission. 

Is it ok that those who liked the scenario he described didn't share their own?  Is it more acceptable to post 'hey, that's cool' and not share rather than 'hey, that's not cool' and not share?  Threads take twists and turns, especially when the OP answers and opens up other avenues of discussion.