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ORIGINAL: Maxwell67
There is some competiton here, that much is clear, but I really think most of this is simply mis-reading one another's intentions in their posts. 

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

For those who wonder about the irritation at "uberness" it is because it kills real debate and discussion.  This is the ONLY place I post deep revealing stuff about myself because while I know nobody is going to coddle me, I also don't have to put up with dipshits yelling "pussy" or "real doms don't do that" sort of crap.

In short, MY honesty is met with OTHERS honesty...and I LOVE that!!!!

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

miss,it IS the uber's showing thier thoughts and motivations that so upsets the "bunnies".

And VERY seldom do I see the so called "elitists" saying much more than they get off on what they talk about. I guess such honesty is too hard for some to bear without resorting to retalition for the "monsters."

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

erin...with all due respect,,, your OP specified the boards here...

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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

miss,it IS the uber's showing thier thoughts and motivations that so upsets the "bunnies".

And VERY seldom do I see the so called "elitists" saying much more than they get off on what they talk about. I guess such honesty is too hard for some to bear without resorting to retalition for the "monsters."

Oh crap, better not let the Monsters out of the closet, they might go on a rampage and eat up those Bunnies.   Well, they might play well with the "Devil Bunnies".  I'm certain there are a few Bunnies that can fend for themselves.  I mean Bugs Bunny has been doing a good job at it for so many years.    Just because it looks all cute and innocent does not mean it actually won't fuck with your world some.

If my hot dates panties get wet from watching horror movies, I think it's safe to let a few of the monsters out of the closet.

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Why? Why would anyone look up to someone or look down upon someone because of such a thing?

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave
Personally, I have a dart board...
I've been debating about ripping a Crazy 8 Ball apart and making modification to it...
Anybody up for playing a Game of Uber Monopoly?  Man, I can't believe how different limited collector's editions there of that game.  I have a whole room full of them now. 
I hope some poor bastard does not read this post and take it literally.   

1. I am jealous of the dart board… my cion toss only allows for humble vs uber. I bet you you have shades of gray in your range don’t you?

2. google “8 ball anatomy”  I can’t believe you want to do that!

3.  Do you have the collectors edition with the square metal can and the board that folds 4 ways?

4.  I am that poor bastard

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miss,it IS the uber's showing thier thoughts and motivations that so upsets the "bunnies".

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ORIGINAL: NeedingMore220

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miss,it IS the uber's showing thier thoughts and motivations that so upsets the "bunnies".

So what lies between ubers and bunnies?  Extremes have always bugged me - I think it's my 'can't we all just get along' sensibility, and yes, I need to work on that. 

Uber posts bug me because they make me feel judged that I shouldn't be in the pool to begin with, let alone exploring those depths that so intrigue me and draw me in.  (I am SO not a guppy, damn it! lol) 

Bunny posts ... well, I just skip over the urges for safety and the SSC talk, etc.  It's just not applicable to how I live my life.. 

But the thing to remember is - these are my reactions to posts from people I've never met.  It's my own internal workings that make me respond the way that I do - not their fault for posting their points of view.  I don't like to be told that I'm not real/true/valid because my experiences don't match with theirs, but hey, what am I gonna do?  Sigh and move on...

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And they play the crowd SO well-and you all let them.

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin
I've had people come up to me after play and say that they have a "whole new RESPECT" for me now that they got to see me play. Wtf? You're going to respect me because my nerve pathways are different than yours and I process pain differently than you and can take more of it than you? Good God, I don't want anyone's respect or admiration for THAT.

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin
Why? Why would anyone look up to someone or look down upon someone because of such a thing?

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

Damn Bunnies.

Although I suppose this could be the reason...lack of sex bunnies

the.dark.

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And they play the crowd SO well-and you all let them.

You are absolutely right.

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

~ Fast Reply ~

 
The resumes people provide on CM profile should be taken with less value than a grain of salt. The pontifications on the threads - two grains. The most careful and diligent get hurt. The most evil and sadistic have cried from emotional anguish. The most conscientious make mistakes; sometimes - 'shit happens!'

Emote, communicate, you don't understand ask and ask again and again until you do. The 'uber' anything is a myth. 'Masters' and 'slaves' are mythical creatures equivalent to unicorns. Their value is between the people using them in a relationship. A relationship that can be as casual as a 'munch friend' or 'cyber fuck buddy'; to a life committed partner. If your label is challenges and you have an emotional. outburst from that challenge; it speaks to your insecurity not the challenger's lack of knowledge or experience.

Regarding 'safety'; many know of how beth and I met. Going from 0 to warp speed in a few hours. Some minutes of those hours were spent on a very remote cliff nearby where she lived. We went there after driving through town, having a drink, and her making her 'safe-call'; as I instructed her to do. Although 99% of me was totally enthralled by her and 99% of my thoughts were about getting someplace where we could be alone the other 1% was thinking; 'how silly and foolish this woman is, being here in a remote area with me. There was nothing and no one stopping me from doing anything I wanted!' No 'safe-word', or scream for that matter, would have been heard by anyone other than a wandering bear or cougar. Conversely she could have pulled a gun out of her purse.

My problem with safety is that there is no safe word, deed, or protection that can eliminate all 'what if...' That being the case - go out and enjoy life, have FUN, and protect yourself the best you can.

Meanwhile, however, 'uber' or not - the CM experience is enter tainting.