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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/27/2008 11:29:35 AM   
LaTigresse


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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/27/2008 12:03:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

Another quirk of mine while I am sleeping is that I have vivid dreams.  Quite a few times the dreams are so realistic that I wake up thinking that it is happening. 
One time, I was sharing with my exgf, apparently in the middle of the night I jumped on top of her screaming about a crocodile.  I have no recollection of doing this, but did dream of crocodiles that night.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/27/2008 12:17:12 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Mine are much more fun. On rare occasions I dream of sex and wake up orgasming. 

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/27/2008 12:55:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

I do like the idea of having my hand on the submissive's ass as she lays cuddled up on my stomach, my cock in her mouth...mistoferin mentioned doing that and I've had it mentioned to me by someone else.  Can't wait to try that position!!!


I was able to nap exactly once like that, its definitely not a comfortable position (for me) and it seems a little restrictive since the BJ recipient has to stay in that position also. I admire people that can sleep all night like that!

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/29/2008 5:58:09 AM   
sassylady53


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Status: offline 		My husband has his sub sleep on a mattress on the floor in his bedroom. Oh, he and I sleep apart, long story and he has a CPAP as well.
When my sub first slept over I told him, you are sleeping with me in my bed. He also has a CPAP.  I think that it is cute that he'll
snuggle as close behind me as he can get even when asleep. I don't get any sleep cause I am not used to another body in bed with me.
However I love him being there. I haven't seen him in six months and I miss him.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/29/2008 8:01:21 AM   
califsue


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Status: offline 		I sleep alone and have for years. And..I am up and down...sleep in the recliner/couch and then the bed. On occasion I can catch a good night sleep in bed. When Master has been out a couple times we have napped and I like touching him but both of us get too warm. Should we ever become 24/7 will be interesting to see what happens as he is not a good sleeper. Sleeps on his belly and I sleep on my back or curled up on my left side.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/29/2008 10:31:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Oh there is no way I could sleep like that! I need complete darkness and quiet. And a really cold room. My feet are almost always sticking out the bottom also.



That how i need to sleep as well, except for the feet sticking out thing - too many horror movies for me to ever feel comfortable like that 

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/29/2008 10:59:56 AM   
lessthanthree


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Status: offline 		For about a year I had a switch partner who was very competitive. We wrestled or played chess or fenced (She was a state champion, I was a total newb...fill in the blanks) pretty much daily, we argued constantly, we had sex like a pair of angry hyenas...ah, the good old days.

At any rate, I would often dream of arguing with her. As the dream-argument increased in pitch, I would start mumbling. When I reached the end of my dream-argument, ready to deliver my brilliant killing blow, I almost always said it out loud...occasionally loud enough to wake the neighbors. "For your information, I HAVE an acupuncturist but she thinks me mad!" (my real life favorite)

This would wake both of us up, and we'd have a good laugh about it, then go back to sleep.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/29/2008 12:18:35 PM   
gwendyuk


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Status: offline 		I always sleep, in light bondage, on the floor by my Mistress’s bed with the panties She has worn that day over my face, neither of us would want it any other way. Mistress gets a comfortable and cool nights sleep and I feel so utterly content below Her. I am also nicely available to be Her toilet should She need me during the night.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/29/2008 2:20:02 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		He likes to cuddle alot and i rarely do. I have woken up more then once from him growling and cursing at me for throwing his arms or legs off my body in my sleep. I cuddle up like he wants and go back to sleep but I'm afraid more often then not I push him off again.

The only thing I really don't like is when he wraps his arm around my waist and pulls me agains him. That's cause his arm is right over my bladder and i instantly wake up needing to pee

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/29/2008 6:29:34 PM   
MRandme


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Status: offline 		For more than 5 years i have slept alone, so on the rare occasion that i get to sleep with my Master, i don't tend to sleep well. It's  hard to adjust to having someone else in your bed after so long, even if you are ecstatic over having the chance to do so.  Truth be told, part of the reason i don't sleep well with Him is that i am afraid that my moving around will keep Him awake and i just don't want to do that.

i normally sleep in a queen and take up most of it all by myself. i often find myself sleeping on my stomach with my arms tucked tightly under me -- it makes me feel safe.   And twice a week i am allowed to sleep wearing collar, cuffs and plug, which helps me sleep like a log.  i have to have a sheet or something over me no matter how hot it is, and during the winter prefer a blanket so heavy that it seems to 'hold me down'.  Those feelings of being restricted and held make me feel safe and snug, which may be related to my nature as a slave.

When i sleep with my Master, He has me start with my head on His hip or ass (if i were to suck Him, neither of us would get any sleep, lol)  Eventually, He pulls me up to sleep snuggled up next to Him.  During the night, we separate a bit but always some part is touching Him... and if i wake up, or He does, we end up snuggled back together. 

And morning sex? Best reason ever to wake up!




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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/30/2008 1:03:38 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		He prefers me close to him. The problem is I can't breathe crushed against his chest. He tends to fondle me in his sleep but I don't go back to sleep with him playing with me. I have been known to wake him up by my restlessness when he's doing this. He gets very pleased by me being so turned on from what he does in his sleep and usually  (when he quits laughing) then brings me to orgasm so I will sleep.

The other thing we do is steal pillows in our sleep. I wake up to find he's got them all or he wakes up to find I do.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/30/2008 3:35:09 AM   
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I'm "normal" it seems 'cos we fall asleep as spoons and drift apart during the night to avoid excess heat.

But for me early morning is the thing; she sleeps late, I wake early. So I slide close and cuddle and, for ages, I just look at her.

So many girls hate people seeing them when they wake, they think they look grim. For me though that early morning natural look is soooooo hot. Looking at bs at dawn when she's fast asleep, her face completely relaxed, her hair tousled, is overhwelmingly beautiful. I'll slip out and fix a coffee, come back and slide into the warmth beside her and then sit up in bed with a fresh coffee and a reflective cigarette and just look at her. Pure heaven.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 8/30/2008 10:35:21 AM   
SayaNereida


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Status: offline 		We both prefer to fall asleep snuggling, unless of course it's too hot, then we snuggle for a bit and spread out.  We have found that even when too hot to snuggle we are always touching.  Lately it's been cheek to cheek because I need the air from the fan in my face and he hates it.

For us, up to now the snuggling has been a plus because he is a heater and I'm always cold, but recently the night sweats have started and 2 heaters in one bed hasn't been working out well.   If we are snuggling when the sweats start, I can usually just say, "I'm way too hot." and he'll move over and just hold my hand or something.


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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/2/2008 7:59:34 AM   
denika


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Status: offline 		It depends where I am sleeping.If I am in my bed I share it with two dogs that are bed hogs and usually wind up with a little corner of the queen size bed to myself. If I am at Wolf's it's one of two places. I'm a cuddler, I  have a hard time going to sleep when I am completely alone. If Wolf is sharing the bed with me I'm  usually pressed up against him and tend to wake up that way as well :) or I have a giant teddy bear that his wife lent me that I use as my cuddle buddy if I'm sleeping there alone. if I share the  bed with both of them, I get to snuggle in on Wolf's side and pretty much, see above lol on the snuggled up to fall asleep.


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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/2/2008 4:41:42 PM   
angelspassion4u


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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

FR:  Well, I have severe obstructive sleep apnea, and so I use a CPAP machine every night.  This means that my bed partner(s) have the wonderful experience of sleeping with Snoreasauraus, complete with a "crest" on top of My head that can flare up like a horny Cockatoo (or a lizard -- takes your pick).  It also means that there is a steady stream of air blown from the exhaust valve (just about between My eyes) into the face (or whatever) of whomever I'm sleeping with.  Sounds fun, eh?

This results in a variety of behaviors from My bedmate, varying from the "build a fort with pillows and blankets so I can avoid Hurricane Emp. and get some sleep" to "I love to feel the wind in my hair" sports coupe pose.  Probably the sweetest thing any bed partner ever said to Me was that she loved feeling the air because it made her feel that even in My sleep I was caressing her *smile*.

E.

Added:   (1) Really, I'm told I'm a lot of fun to sleep with.  I have references!
             (2) You might, if you have no idea what OSA is, wonder why I do all this every night?  Well, it beats constant sleep deprivation, significant weight gain, exhaustion, heart palpitations and...oh yah...death.   My former slave (who was with Me before and after the OSA diagnosis) said that before I started using the CPAP, she would stay awake all night watching Me sleep not out of love or romance, but out of fear that I would die, as I would choke, gasp for air and then appear to sleep for about a minute several dozen times a night.  Fun Fun.  If you suspect ANYONE you know has sleep apnea, get them tested and treated immediately.  It is an insidiously dangerous medical condition.

E.


    I too have OSA I have yet to sleep with anyone over night since they found it.  I have to use a CPAC machine too. I have been wondering if that is gonna be a problem if I ever get a Dom.  I have been using the machine now for about 3 years.  
Anyhow,  I really can't say I  sleep alone. I have an um'un who likes to sleep in my bed off and on.  Plus 2 cats one likes to sleep curled up above my head on the pillow and the other one between me and the um'un. Thank goodness I have a queen size bed, sheesh.  When I get lucky and sleep alone  I still only sleep on the side with my back to the wall.  Which in my room is the right hand sized of the bed. I have always had this thing I have to sleep on the side with the wall.  Just like eating at resturants I can't have my back to the door. I have to see if someone comes in.  I know I am strange lol.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/2/2008 11:35:52 PM   
Secretslave1138


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Status: offline 		i am permitted to bed with my Master.  i love it when he scoops me into His arms and cuddles me.  It makes me feel safe and loved.  But, i need alittle TLC, so that is why i love it so.

i love a Master that can pain you till not end, then scoop you up in His arms and keep you close, under His thumb, while you are asleep.  Plus, i love the intimacy behind it all.  Some may not agree with me, but this is only my opinion.  As for sweating on His or He on me.  Well, that makes it all more kinkier.  Not only did i just mess all over Him, but now i get to more when i sleep...hehehe.  Nice clean up in the morning...hehe.

Hugs!!

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/3/2008 6:21:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs


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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

I do like the idea of having my hand on the submissive's ass as she lays cuddled up on my stomach, my cock in her mouth...mistoferin mentioned doing that and I've had it mentioned to me by someone else.  Can't wait to try that position!!!


I was able to nap exactly once like that, its definitely not a comfortable position (for me) and it seems a little restrictive since the BJ recipient has to stay in that position also. I admire people that can sleep all night like that!

C~


i attempted this position exactly once. i got lock jaw and absolutely nooo sleep. Every 15 minutes or so i was awakened by some sort of disturbance in my mouth. i was imformed later that i must do that instinctive suckling thing when im in deep sleep. Oddly enough, he wasnt as distressed as i about the sleeping arrangement on that particular nite.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/4/2008 1:03:20 AM   
Secretslave1138


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Status: offline 		Ok...please excuse my stupidity here...but i have never fallen asleep with a cock in my mouth.  Does the Dominant really stay hard the whole time?  i would think that He would lose it after a while, and is it ok to remove His cock once He is no longer hard?  i have thought about doing this because it is a fantasy of mine.  So, just looking for pointers.  Sorry if i sound rather naive about it.

Thanks!!!

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/4/2008 5:27:56 AM   
OrionTheWolf


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Status: offline 		My property sleeps on the floor beside my bed sometimes, across the foot of the bed sometimes, and beside me with her bed no higher than my chest sometimes. Depends on my mood, and if she is in trouble. Rare occasions she sleeps in her kennel when she is being punished.

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