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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/4/2008 5:46:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Secretslave1138

Ok...please excuse my stupidity here...but i have never fallen asleep with a cock in my mouth.  Does the Dominant really stay hard the whole time?  i would think that He would lose it after a while, and is it ok to remove His cock once He is no longer hard?  i have thought about doing this because it is a fantasy of mine.  So, just looking for pointers.  Sorry if i sound rather naive about it.

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Usually we just fall asleep for a few minutes after sex that ends like that. But on the one occasion we slept for a couple of hours. He isn't hard when we fall asleep, but he just likes the feel of a warm, wet mouth on him, even right after. If I wake up, I move up to my pillow. If he wakes up first usually he pulls me up or starts things up again.

But if I'm asleep down at the bottom of the bed, then he gets cold because I'm on top of all the blankets. If he pulls the blankets over me I wake up because I can't get any fresh air. It's really only good in midsummer.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/4/2008 6:09:06 AM   
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I do like the idea of having my hand on the submissive's ass as she lays cuddled up on my stomach, my cock in her mouth..

Aren't you worried about your submissive biting your cock accidentally while he or she is sleeping?  If I was a guy, I sure as hell would worry about that, especially with all we hear about sleep eating now a days.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/4/2008 9:20:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Secretslave1138

Ok...please excuse my stupidity here...but i have never fallen asleep with a cock in my mouth.  Does the Dominant really stay hard the whole time?  i would think that He would lose it after a while, and is it ok to remove His cock once He is no longer hard?  i have thought about doing this because it is a fantasy of mine.  So, just looking for pointers.  Sorry if i sound rather naive about it.

Thanks!!!


No the dominant is not hard. Actually, this usually follows sex or a blowjob and you just keep it in your mouth as you snuggle in and drift off to sleep. It's not a sucking motion like you are trying to get him off....it's more like intermittent suckling. Sometimes, depending on how long you stay latched on, it does lead to a little middle of the night fun. But most of the time once you fall into deep sleep your jaw simply goes slack and you disconnect. And no, in 30 years of doing this I've never accidently bitten one.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/4/2008 10:18:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

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ORIGINAL: Secretslave1138

Ok...please excuse my stupidity here...but i have never fallen asleep with a cock in my mouth.  Does the Dominant really stay hard the whole time?  i would think that He would lose it after a while, and is it ok to remove His cock once He is no longer hard?  i have thought about doing this because it is a fantasy of mine.  So, just looking for pointers.  Sorry if i sound rather naive about it.

Thanks!!!


No the dominant is not hard. Actually, this usually follows sex or a blowjob and you just keep it in your mouth as you snuggle in and drift off to sleep. It's not a sucking motion like you are trying to get him off....it's more like intermittent suckling. Sometimes, depending on how long you stay latched on, it does lead to a little middle of the night fun. But most of the time once you fall into deep sleep your jaw simply goes slack and you disconnect. And no, in 30 years of doing this I've never accidently bitten one.


you're very fortunate in that respect. Daddy loves sleeping with his cock in a warm wet mouth as well, but when we've done this he always ends up waking me up in the middle of the night, usually with a hard slap, because my teeth are starting to clamp down on him. i naturally sleep with my mouth closed, and have a tendency to grind my teeth in my sleep also. so...he's kind of hesitant to put his cock there for bedtime. :( lol

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/4/2008 10:37:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		With my former sub, I tried to get her to stay the night, but she couldn't.  But if she could have, she was a stomach sleeperand I'm a back and side sleeper,  we'd usually have a foot or hips touching or my arm around her cupping her breasts.  And usually she was wearing leg irons or handcuffs.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/4/2008 10:44:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: wulfgarw

With my former sub, I tried to get her to stay the night, but she couldn't.  But if she could have, she was a stomach sleeperand I'm a back and side sleeper,  we'd usually have a foot or hips touching or my arm around her cupping her breasts.  And usually she was wearing leg irons or handcuffs.


I don't understand your post. If she never spent the night, how could you sleep in those positions? Or are you simply stating what you would have liked?

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/4/2008 11:04:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		My first bed experience as a sub last night...she spooned up to me and put one hand on my neck, and the other on my thigh.  It felt safe and warm and gentle while still being wonderfully controlling.  I slept very well while we were in that position.  :)

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/4/2008 3:35:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

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ORIGINAL: wulfgarw

With my former sub, I tried to get her to stay the night, but she couldn't.  But if she could have, she was a stomach sleeperand I'm a back and side sleeper,  we'd usually have a foot or hips touching or my arm around her cupping her breasts.  And usually she was wearing leg irons or handcuffs.


I don't understand your post. If she never spent the night, how could you sleep in those positions? Or are you simply stating what you would have liked?


We'd sleep for a bit after we got done. then she'd go.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/4/2008 11:32:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Totally know how you feel.  I stumbled through a full semester of high school because of this sort of thing.  I had a nightmare disorder apparently- stress I wasn't dealing with when I was awake would manifest at night.  I can spend weeks and months in my dreams sometimes and when I wake up I feel like I'm in the wrong life.  It started to get better when I met my husband and started sleeping with him.  Now when I wake up gasping and saying that the cat just got her eyeball cut out he points to her, tells me she's fine and to go back to sleep.  Thank Gods.  I hate sleeping alone now.  ^_^  Doesn't it make you want to tell your subconscious to shut the hell up?! 

We generally sleep apart as I naturally start heating up at night and touch mostly with our feet (the only part of me that isn't on fire).  I have to be able to get enough sleep or my life goes to shite... and by extension makes everyone else's life hard as well.


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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/5/2008 2:48:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		Toy is a very fitful sleeper, and also an early riser. I. am. NOT.
So even though I prefer to sleep with someone (even just friends, or a comfy dog) I usually make him sleep on the floor. But I allow him whatever he needs to be comfortable. If there aren't extra pillows I let him sleep with me and just kick him if he gets too bad. He's kind of cuddle-retarded though, and usually sleeps in his usual position on his right side curled up with his hands tucked in. I would reach out and grab him if I thought it would work.
Vandal and I have been sleeping together for longer and have a mildly cuddly system that varies each time. He is significantly larger than Toy and also more comfy so it works out.
I love cuddling but cant stay comfortable like that, so I sleep on my back. Although I love it when they cuddle up to me.


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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/5/2008 4:38:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		Invariably Master falls asleep with one leg over my hips, one arms around my waist and his head buried in the back of my neck. Once he is asleep i squirm my way out from under him to switch positions since i have siscoliosis, sleeping like that will hurt my back. But by morning hes all on top of me again. Luckily he dosent snore......

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/7/2008 8:58:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		LOL WE're the exact opisit of you. Only Daddy doesn't roll away to get away from the light he puts a cotton thingie over his eyes and rolls away cause it's more comfortable. And I don't sit with it in my lap I lay down fully down an hold it in my hands:)

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ORIGINAL: proudsub

We each go to sleep on our own side of the bed, me on my side facing away from Him (because He leaves His light on)  and He sitting up with his light on and book on his lap.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/7/2008 9:17:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		I keep a fan running all night and all day too. But it's not cause the body heat it's cause the rooms always to hot or to muggy, since we live in a garage that was never ment to be living quarters and was converted. It don't matter if I throw the door openp ut a fan in the window an come back 6 hours later, it's still hotter in here than outside. I was going to buy a window unit ac/heater, but just never have gotten around to getting one.

And I am super picky about fans we use in here, they can not be loud or obnoxious, and most are unfortunatly, and the one in the window to bring air in is, it eventually starts making my head hurt so  i try to leave when turning it on.

My aunt had an awsome ac unit in her tiny attic room but unfortunatly the damned thing made so much noise it was impossible to keep on for long, because it'd drive me insane.
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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

fast reply

if my pet is home from business, we hold each other until sleeping however i keep a fan blowing because i get too hot from the extra body heat. otherwise, i sleep alone on my left side.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/7/2008 9:17:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		This girl kneels by Master's bed and waits to be invited in. She often starts with her head on Master's chest/shoulder, but eventually, she gets a stiff neck and has to roll onto her side... then we sleep like spoons. Usually during the night we roll away from each other, but as we each stir later, we find our way back together. This girl likes sleeping with her back curved into her Master with his arm over her. Master is funny sometimes though, because sometimes he commands her in his sleep, lol. Suddenly he is on top of her gripping her, orders her to spread, fucks her like mad and then goes back to sleep. This girl is never sure if he is awake or not! Then in the morning she mentions it and he has no idea he did it, lol!

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/7/2008 11:38:48 PM   
Catilicious


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Status: offline 		Oh, I feel so out of place. Most everyone falls asleep in normal positions with their partners but I have space issues and really like to sleep with our heads at the opposite ends of the bed. As long as everyone is showering properly, no ones feet stink and we somewhat cuddle like. My partner likes to spoon but I just don't feel like I have enough personal space and so we've adapted to sleeping at opposite ends of the bed.

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RE: Bed Behaviour!! - 9/8/2008 12:37:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		My Ex always had to have me in his arms. Like lots of you, I would move away during the night.

However, he quickly learned there was no getting me back! Apparently I "kick" in my sleep. And from what he had said, nailed him in the groin MANY times!

Always felt so bad when he told me this!!

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