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What I am looking for is at once very simple and extremely complicated. I want a slave who finds her greatest pleasure in pleasing me. As you might imagine, that is not as simple as it sounds. To further the complexity, the woman I take (and own, and cherish) will also be attractive (though not necessarily by conventional standards), vibrant, intelligent, creative, open-minded, fun-loving, self-aware, and masochistic. she will be eager to be trained to serve me and passionate about being the best slave I could possibly own. she will want intensely to belong to me and will have very few limits in how she shows it.

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ORIGINAL: RedheadedWoman

Part of what he wrote in his first email to me was

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What I am looking for is at once very simple and extremely complicated. I want a slave who finds her greatest pleasure in pleasing me. As you might imagine, that is not as simple as it sounds. To further the complexity, the woman I take (and own, and cherish) will also be attractive (though not necessarily by conventional standards), vibrant, intelligent, creative, open-minded, fun-loving, self-aware, and masochistic. she will be eager to be trained to serve me and passionate about being the best slave I could possibly own. she will want intensely to belong to me and will have very few limits in how she shows it.

Is that what you mean by the "real slave" card?

rhw

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If I stopped paying, the state could either renegotiate or bring charges. This is part of the “victim’s rights” laws that were put in place a few years ago, basically – at least in this case – if a woman alleges abuse (which meredith did), even if there is no evidence, or (as in my case) the evidence shows she lied (which, in this case, it does), the fundamental principal that you are innocent until proven guilty is turned on its head. The state is required to prosecute and there are benchmarks they have to meet. If a prosecutor wants to drop a case they have to go through a process in which they prove a crime was not committed. They have to publicly go against the “victim.” Since the people in the DA’s office are almost always using their job as a steppingstone to a more lucrative
career (often in politics), that never happens.

In my case the prosecutor was starting to go that route. It would have been the right thing to do. It also would have required exceptional courage on his part. On Monday, he reversed direction. Not many people are willing to put their futures on the line to do the right thing.

I could have forced a trial. With a jury there are no guarantees, but I very probably would have won. The process would have taken many months, and put me much deeper in debt. This has already been going on since November, so I chose to take the deal they offered. It was always my intention to repay the money I borrowed, so this way I essentially get what I need. I don’t get a public vindication, but I need this damn case off my back more than I need it on the record that meredith lied.

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ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW

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ORIGINAL: RedheadedWoman

Part of what he wrote in his first email to me was

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What I am looking for is at once very simple and extremely complicated. I want a slave who finds her greatest pleasure in pleasing me. As you might imagine, that is not as simple as it sounds. To further the complexity, the woman I take (and own, and cherish) will also be attractive (though not necessarily by conventional standards), vibrant, intelligent, creative, open-minded, fun-loving, self-aware, and masochistic. she will be eager to be trained to serve me and passionate about being the best slave I could possibly own. she will want intensely to belong to me and will have very few limits in how she shows it.

Is that what you mean by the "real slave" card?

rhw

No, the "real slave" card is the one that goes "Oh, yeah, I've had all these slaves, but they weren't REAL slaves because xyz happened and they turned out to be posers/losers/fakers/wannabes and they screwed me over and left."

Nothing is -ever- his fault, and the supposed slaves he has all screw him over for NO REASON, and if he could just find the perfect "real slave" everything would be all roses for them...

-that- is the "real slave" card.

CFB

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ORIGINAL: tychtyp

I think you should meet this guy. Don't tell anyone, though.

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ORIGINAL: RedheadedWoman

Oh i should say that hes not in Canada any more but lives like a mile from me now. ive heard (by email) from the slave that hes been with off and on since 2003 and she says that hes wonderful but has made a lot of mistakes but she sounds really paranoid......


rhw

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ORIGINAL: CruelDesires

Edited my long drawn out response to say, if you do not already see what is wrong with the "master' in question, no one here will convince you otherwise. See you around in 6 months when you start up a "I should have listened' thread.

C-D

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ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW

Hon, the fact that you're here asking the question means that you know the answer already. This guy sounds like a real work of art -- but I don't particularly like Picasso, so he wouldn't be the guy for me.

If you're as shaky about this as you sound, it's time to let go and let him find someone more gullible. If he pulls out the "I'm looking for a -real- slave" card, run for the hills.

CFB