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DMFParadox -> RE: Masters who wont cum (9/23/2008 5:37:45 AM)
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Nah, he's not cheating.
Even if I'm tremendously attracted to a girl, I sometimes can't come. Hell, frequently, especially at the beginning of a relationship. Fortunately, I'm aware enough of what makes me tick and I have the brass balls to ask for what I need, and the deviousness to get it without asking for it; but, you know what? Sometimes, especially at first, if I'm with a willing girl and I need to perform, I will FAKE IT.
That's right, girl. I'm not a sub at ALL, but I'll pretend to cum. And I'm really good at it.
Also, I'm like TweedyDaddy up there, if I have to control myself at any point, it makes it nearly impossible for me to come for at least an hour.
But let's get to what works for me, and what might work for your Master. I need resistance. Not like rape, but like the usual back-and-forth a guy has with a girl that he has to convince to have sex with him; it has to feel like a victory somehow, like something taken, instead of something pushed on me. Have you tried that? It sounds like this guy, with his courtly gestures and his efforts to stand out from the crowd, has something to prove. I know I do, and if he's like me, then basically you gave it up too easy for him.
Girls will often do something called, 'token resistance'. Where you put up obstacles that are not only easy to bat aside, but are annoying enough in their own right that I as a man will want to object to them just based on the illogic that they represent. This has gotten me into trouble with girls I honestly didn't want in the first place, but when it came to cumming, vini vidi vici. I.E., I came even if they were a 2 bag girl. Whereas with exceptionally hot girls that basically throw themselves at me, I have a hard time with it, even though I'm not feeling insecure; they just don't feel like enough of a challenge.
The point being, perhaps it would behoove you to raise objections, to imply that you want sex and then deny you do for a silly reason. To drive your man insane by acting like you don't know what you want, give him enough clues to be sure he knows you want his cock, and need him to decide to do it for you. Girls do this all the time; I have many years of field-tested experience to back that statement up, it's only the rare instance where a woman will jump into bed with you without some kind of token resistance, when the relationship is young. Remember to keep your reasons easy to defeat, and irritatingly illogical while seemingly plausible, otherwise this strategy will fail badly. But it might be worth a shot.
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