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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 2:04:23 PM   
cravesdom


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Status: offline 		I originally created a profile on CM to hopefully meet a Dom that would turn into a long-term relationship. I eventually found my way to the message boards and found myself laughing at some of the antics in Polls & Other Random Stupidity. It took me a while to work up the nerve to post because I did see some pretty nasty comments made about other people's posts in the more "serious" threads. But I rarely saw that in P&ORS, so I started posting there and have slowly branched out to occasionally post elsewhere on the boards.

I met an incredibly special man on the boards and so now I am here because I love making new friends and interacting with the ones I have made already, I enjoy the flirting that happens on occasion, I love reading other people's opinions even when I don't always agree with them, I love laughing at some of the crazy things that are posted (or is that some of the crazy people that post?!), but mostly because there is such an underlying feeling of support from people I have come to know and like here on the boards.

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 2:08:39 PM   
RumpusParable


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Meet people, discuss things, learn some, and people-watch.

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 2:09:33 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		I found my Sir on CM, and now i use the boards for fun and education. 

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 2:45:19 PM   
masterforRT


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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 2:49:47 PM   
Duckiemine


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Status: offline 		I came here for many of the same reasons as many I suppose, I wanted to explore myself and find friendships... and IF I were to meet someone, thats cool but its not what I'm lookin for. Conversation and "learning" about things I didn't even know existed before are vital to my growth as a human being, I think. Be it good, bad, ugly, scary or even in my views weird... it maybe one or all of those things, but I'm facinated to learn. Here is one of my many "classrooms" I suppose.

The boards here also pushed me in to meeting some of my local communtiy, and that was a really great expirince... I don't know that I would have worked up the "courage" to go and meet the wonderful people I did if not for reading in the "positive expirinces" threads...  

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 3:01:52 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I use it to talk to those who are friends and to read the forums and sometimes respond. That's about it really.

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 3:11:48 PM   
SnowRanger


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Status: offline 		I found my current mistress here.  For now I seek insight from the forums and that's about it.

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 3:36:01 PM   
oceanwynds


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Status: offline 		When i have time, i will sign on to read the forums, occassionally will post. The first year or so that i joined, i never used this site, since figured was mostly a 'dating'scene. Then i discovered the forums, which have been a help to me in many ways. There are some wonderful people here and i do enjoy reading their thoughts and opinions.

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 4:03:10 PM   
Evility


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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 4:15:29 PM   
SlaveIndigochild


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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

i came here to communicate with others in the D/s lifestyle about lifestyle-related issues. there is very little opportunity for me to chat/debate/verbally exchange with anyone...lifestyle or not...offline, being a house slave and my Master being my only friend for now. so without the interaction with other human beings...human beings who can somewhat relate to the way i live and things i believe...that i get from the collarme message boards and similar places, i would totally go crazy.

This is such a sweet reply and certainly one i can empathise with.

< Message edited by SlaveIndigochild -- 9/22/2008 4:17:01 PM >

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 4:28:13 PM   
SlaveIndigochild


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Status: offline 		Dear IvyMorgan:
semi-stalking.....i think you just invented that one. 

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 4:33:34 PM   
SlaveIndigochild


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ORIGINAL: stella41b

I have posted in almost every section
I have made numerous posts
Only to be with you
Only to be with you
I have posted, I have grown
I have posted silly song parodies
Silly song parodies
Only to be with you
But I still haven't found what I'm looking for
But I still haven't found what I'm looking for

I have ears, bicycle clips, so many words resting on my lips
They burn like fire, with submissive desires
I have found so many angels, even agreed once with MzMia
It was one of those nights, in Off Topic alone
But I still haven't found what I'm looking for
But I still haven't found what I'm looking for

I believe that the time will come
Where doms and submissives will meet here as one
Meet here as one
Yes I'm still posting
We make the posts and we start the threads
With all the ideas in our heads, in our heads
And some with great feeling
But I still haven't found what I'm looking for
But I still haven't found what I'm looking for
But I still haven't found what I'm looking for
But I still haven't found what I'm looking for

- inspired by U2

Oh hell girl, it even sounds like Bono in my head.....

< Message edited by SlaveIndigochild -- 9/22/2008 4:37:15 PM >

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 4:36:40 PM   
SlaveIndigochild


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ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW
I've been around the bend a few times, and am also exploring some new areas,


Yes i have also noticed how, if you go round the block enough times it starts to feel like a curve......


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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 4:38:58 PM   
flower2007


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Status: offline 		I'm here to read and learn...I really don't have anything to contribute.

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 4:48:45 PM   
SlaveIndigochild


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ORIGINAL: flower2007

I'm here to read and learn...I really don't have anything to contribute.

Why self-deprecate: everyone has something to contribute surely?

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 4:59:14 PM   
trappedinamuseum


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Status: offline 		I came to find the one Twue master with the one "twue" way.

Now, I just spend my time practicing my snappy comebacks.


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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 5:11:37 PM   
lally3


Posts: 595
Joined: 3/4/2008
Status: offline 		originally to find someone, in the process of which ive learnt heaps, changed heaps and enjoyed the people on here heaps.

not having an active community where i live, having a kid that keeps me from finding a community further afield, oftentimes this is where i can kick back and enjoy the banter on topics i enjoy reading and sometimes contributing to, like now, for instance.

its just a nice place to hang with a cup of tea and a biscuit - who mentioned donuts

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 5:27:59 PM   
flower2007


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild

quote:

ORIGINAL: flower2007

I'm here to read and learn...I really don't have anything to contribute.

Why self-deprecate: everyone has something to contribute surely?


Not self-depreciation...but as a virgin with no experience with BDSM, I simply don't have anything to contribute.

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 6:37:34 PM   
masterofdrkness2


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Status: offline 		I am here for all the above mentioned reasons ... there are some  side spitting laughs.. some really good advice,and some people who should just be banned from the gene pool  lol.... but it takes all kinds to keep this place alive and kicking..along the way I meet some interesting people with some really great minds and I like to watch them and pick up on the things they say .and then I have meet the ones that if you ever need a good laugh just find a thread they are on and hold on  lol... 

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RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/22/2008 7:22:30 PM   
krikket


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild

What do you use this community for/ i mean: why are you on collarme? to pst? To find a mate? To debate? Chat in chat room? Exchange emails/ Get advice/

This is also in defence of this community which has been called 'flaky' and is the subject of another thread.
So why are you on collarme?

...all of the above, plus a few other things...it's become my home -- the place to come when i need comfort, entertainment, education, laughter and tears... friends..and most of all, to learn how to make lemonade outta kumquats.
huggles
jimini

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