Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? Page: <<   < prev  1 2 3 4 [5]
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/23/2008 9:24:01 AM   
SlaveIndigochild


Posts: 272
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

I first came here to learn about what I was supposed to do with all this sick shit that goes on inside my head.  I was really afraid of making an ass out of myself. With the help of all of ya'll and of one incredible person, I know what that is now...

Whatever the hell I want to!

Also, mustn't forget the WANK FODDER! (Which btw, sounds so much nicer than "jerk-off material".)
As an aside, believe it or not, being here has actually improved my writing!

Great! i'm sure MASTURBATION STIMULATION has a nice English ring to it (if you excuse the expression!).


_____________________________

Formerly Prinsexx
_________________________

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=iIUrLpvE3Rk&feature=related

(in reply to BossyShoeBitch)
Profile   Post #: 81
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/23/2008 9:26:21 AM   
RCdc


Posts: 8674
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild

What do you use this community for/ i mean: why are you on collarme? to pst? To find a mate? To debate? Chat in chat room? Exchange emails/ Get advice/
i've been interested in this question for some time as i have often looked at the 'hit' rate to posts and it is approximately ten times the response rate.: so for every 10 responses on a thread there are about 100 others reading that thread. That's quite a hit rate and yet i wonder why those 90 don't respond by posting themselves.
i joined collarme because of a refferral from a friend and immediately felt it was like a spiritual home...indeed it does feel like the world's largest bdsm community and i have not only met my One but made truly amazing friends here in the year i have been on collarme. As 'prinsexx' i also used the journal facility to write as there is a different motivation knowing that others are going to read one's words.
This is also in defence of this community which has been called 'flaky' and is the subject of another thread.
So why are you on collarme?


Because it's better than IC.  Seriously.  Have you read the threads on there?
The hit rate thing I put down to vanity(best word I can think of right now), rather than the amount of people viewing Vs. posting.  People zoom back to see if anyone has responded to their posts.  Plus if people are being particularly tacky and trying to usurp a thread by hijacking it about their favourite sandwich or cookie, I expect the moderators and usual vultures and soaplovers keep a regular eye on a thread and that probably sends it up.
 
the.dark.

_____________________________
RC&dc


love isnt gazing into each others eyes - it's looking forward in the same direction

(in reply to SlaveIndigochild)
Profile   Post #: 82
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/23/2008 9:30:28 AM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		I originally came because it was a BDSM site. No other reason. Then, a guy I was involved with wanted us to have a 3rd, so I used the site to look for a third.  When that relationship failed, I moved to using this site for the forums.  I've made friends, and that means the world to me.  

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to RCdc)
Profile   Post #: 83
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/23/2008 11:35:35 AM   
FRSguy


Posts: 653
Joined: 9/4/2007
Status: offline 		I came here in my search for info on the lifestyle.  I had allways been doing this stuff but when I finally found the label for it I searched site after site for info and well the forums here became an incredible source.  I stuck around since I started meeting some really great people and for the first time in my life I have met and talked with what I considere to be some of the best damn woman I have ever met in my life.

(in reply to Missokyst)
Profile   Post #: 84
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/23/2008 11:44:00 AM   
softness


Posts: 2918
Joined: 8/1/2006
From: Leeds, UK
Status: offline 		I got referred onto the boards here as a learning resource .... I enjoy using it to test my opinions and views on things ... I like my mind to be challeneged as much as my body.

I really like it here ... just wish the Engliskers were better represented ... is nice intellectual sparring with people in person as well as via the forumns

_____________________________

proudly wearing the blue collar of consideration to DK Leather, Leatherdykeuk, and LeatherEagle of the UK KRueL Leather Family

veritas, respectus honorque in corio





(in reply to FRSguy)
Profile   Post #: 85
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/23/2008 12:50:26 PM   
possessedone


Posts: 64
Joined: 8/28/2007
Status: offline 		i, like many others, first came here looking for a Master.  When i was fortunate enough to find mine, i stayed for the forums.  i have learned so much from what has been posted here, and some of what i have learned has provided interesting conversations between my Master and i.  i stay so that i can continue to learn and make friends.

(in reply to softness)
Profile   Post #: 86
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/23/2008 1:13:47 PM   
danilyon


Posts: 9
Joined: 7/26/2008
Status: offline 		Well, I came here hoping to find someone, also to learn and explore this aspect of my personality.. I have since become addicted to the forums, and I love reading about everyone's experiences and their opinions.. I am pretty shy and stay in the background, but I am loving all the things I am learning about. =)

_____________________________

I believe in dragons, good men, and other fantasy creatures.

(in reply to possessedone)
Profile   Post #: 87
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/23/2008 1:16:59 PM   
rookey


Posts: 100
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild
What do you use this community for/ i mean: why are you on collarme?


Because it's better than IC.  Seriously.  Have you read the threads on there?
 
the.dark.

 
IC is good if you want to know fairly localised information about munches and gatherings in specific cities and some other peculiar to the UK.  But it is not really very comprehensive.  Also the chat facilities are pretty basic at best.

_____________________________



(in reply to RCdc)
Profile   Post #: 88
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/23/2008 4:07:38 PM   
silkncarol


Posts: 318
Status: offline 		I came originally as a request from a friend...she was talking to a Dominant here and thought perhaps i might know him. (sheesh, i swear i don't know everyone in Florida!)   I personally had been using a couple of other sites with BDSM, D/s areas but found CM pretty interesting....though i haven't ventured into any of the chat rooms i greatly enjoy the message boards these days.....talked to some really interesting people, met a few people real time and hope to develope a LTR with a Dominant..........

_____________________________

We attract hearts by the qualities we display. We retain them by the qualities we possess.

Shoes can change your life................. Cinderella

(in reply to rookey)
Profile   Post #: 89
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/23/2008 5:31:43 PM   
cruelandloving08


Posts: 20
Joined: 9/18/2008
Status: offline 		I first came to CollarMe because I was looking for a place to meet people who I share a common interest with. I also came with the intention of PERHAPS finding someone interested in real time play/a power based relationship. I have met, and talked to (at least in passing) several interesting people, and have gotten advice on some issues that were really important to Me, and generally had a blast. I love this site, and feel very fortunate to be a part of this large, welcoming, generally open-minded community.

(in reply to SlaveIndigochild)
Profile   Post #: 90
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/23/2008 6:53:28 PM   
ladyw0lf


Posts: 3
Joined: 8/18/2008
Status: offline 		Well  i came to CM  to read the forums, i enjoy listening to all the input and ideas everyone has to offer and going to start making it a point to add my 2 cents for what ever its worth. i also have met some really wonderful ppl and hope to meet more. not really here for the "dating serves" as i honestly dont feel im ready for a relationship be it nilla or BDSM. 

(in reply to cruelandloving08)
Profile   Post #: 91
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/23/2008 10:24:36 PM   
Paulnz


Posts: 411
Status: offline 		I'm on here to check out different points of view and to get to know people.

(in reply to SlaveIndigochild)
Profile   Post #: 92
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/24/2008 3:23:26 AM   
HalloweenWhite


Posts: 1028
Joined: 6/20/2005
Status: offline 		I use it to interact with P/people here, to read and learn, and to see what's happening in the scene both here in the U.K and the rest of the world.

(in reply to SlaveIndigochild)
Profile   Post #: 93
RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? - 9/24/2008 4:05:01 PM   
Sanity


Posts: 22039
Joined: 6/14/2006
From: Nampa, Idaho USA
Status: offline
Well then, welcome to collarchat, ladyw0lf.

Happy 1st post!

Nice pic btw 


_____________________________

Inside Every Liberal Is A Totalitarian Screaming To Get Out

(in reply to ladyw0lf)
Profile   Post #: 94
Page:   <<   < prev  1 2 3 4 [5]
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: What do you use THIS COMMUNITY for? Page: <<   < prev  1 2 3 4 [5]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.063