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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/26/2008 6:51:54 PM

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*this girl snorts*

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/26/2008 6:55:38 PM

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I have the same problem with Dommes

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/26/2008 7:11:51 PM

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*this girl snorts*

no you dont...this is what greedy does...

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/26/2008 7:18:58 PM

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this girl does as she has been trained to do....at all times. this girl also *tacklefucks*...*gigglesnorts*...and some other * *-type things as is decreed by the great and mighty GT.

psst...She may or may not be aware that this girl collared this girl's self to Her months ago...was planning to show her the pics of the ceremony upon meeting...which this girl thinks would cinch the deal completely.

*fingers crossed*

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/26/2008 8:12:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

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ORIGINAL: persephonee

i know...its a real burden sometimes....and i have references to that effect as well....but youll see soon enough...i corrupt everyone in my path.

you forgot to say this girl...

Yea, How uppity!!!

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/26/2008 8:14:54 PM

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thats ok, Lushy.. I'll spank her and all when I see the pics of our collaring ceremony *grins*

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/26/2008 9:28:51 PM

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Thanks everyone for your replies! I'm still sad, but I feel a little better having read some of your posts.

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/26/2008 9:38:58 PM

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thats ok, Lushy.. I'll spank her and all when I see the pics of our collaring ceremony *grins*

yay!!! im getting a spanking!!!! bout time!!!!!

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/27/2008 4:11:50 AM

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quote:

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thats ok, Lushy.. I'll spank her and all when I see the pics of our collaring ceremony *grins*

yay!!! im getting a spanking!!!! bout time!!!!!

Always trying to worm your way in.

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/27/2008 4:15:35 AM

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Okay, someone teach me how to disappear and reappear. I think that would be a cool talent to have.

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/27/2008 6:43:50 AM

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These guys i can call only beginners who never actually submitted to anybody in real. It is hard for most of the men to do it the first time. :) Male ego and that stuff, i guess.

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i have another probs. (1) It is hard to find a Woman who is into TS slaves. (2) And it is even harder to find a Woman who is not into 'unmentioned' financial slavery in softer or harder form.

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/27/2008 8:25:06 AM

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I've been so disappointed by submissive men. We will talk for hours and hours and hours, I begin to get invested in him. We talk about real time. And he disappears.... This has happened to me over and over and over again. I ask for explanations. But, I never get anything. Can someone please tell me why this happens?

Yes it happens.
If it is happening repeatedly, I would sit down and evaluate your own choices and methods - you may be repeating a pattern.

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/27/2008 8:52:05 AM

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Fluffy Kitten, I of course, cannot speak for anyone other then myself, but at the slightest hint of boring repetitive conduct and/or behavior, I find the passion and/or magic that brought us to exploring each other dismissed. So I dismiss myself and further meetings or dialogue do not occur.

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/27/2008 8:55:59 AM

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I tend to only disappear if they seem insincere...

uh, that's only happened twice. Once before I had any text on my profile, and once since. I mean, it's quite obvious when someone's insincere...

and when we won't be compatible (ever)... but I usually try to say 'sorry, I don't think it would work out' if they ask, but then if they push it... block!

But I have this weird habit of attracting straight male dominants o.O Dunno why.

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/27/2008 8:59:35 AM

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Never invest in something (or someone) who has not proven worthy of investment. Over the phone, on the internet, one, two meetings for coffee...all of these things can hold no salt. At the very least I would never invest much time or energy before you actually meet. You can waste ALOT of time that way. This is how I go about developing with a sub and I rarely feel disappointed.

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/27/2008 9:29:35 AM

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Nothing to do with submissive men, subs, doms, males, females, very high percentage of fakes out there. Caused by the advent of the $300 PC, it used to be 80% real and 20% fake, today it is 20% real and 80% fake. Now the great unwashed masses can have a virtual identity. The vast majority are gender fakers, people in an existing relationship and mail address/identity harvesters, not necessarily in that order.

As others have mentioned, don't invest in the relationship until you have established the person is real. Refusing to chat until you've talked will make 90% of them go away (and, IMO, prevent a lot of miscommunication).

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/27/2008 2:04:55 PM

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Given the nature of the site, there are very few who really can & will carry out an LDR and especially hang in there to actually do a relocation. Even those with the best intentions realize sooner or later than what they really wanted was only someone to wank with....or about.

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/27/2008 6:41:21 PM

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/27/2008 6:44:26 PM

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huh?

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RE: Why do submissive men disappear? - 9/27/2008 10:01:04 PM

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I think I'm gonna be sad, it's happened today
The male submissive I had has just gone away
He's got a reason to hide
He's got a reason to hide
He's got a reason to hide
And he don't care

I log onto Collarme, and they can't be found
Male subs just disappear, whenever I'm around
He's got a reason to hide
He's got a reason to hide
He's got a reason to hide
And he don't care

I don't know why they need to hide
Whenever I log onto Collarme
They don't even stop to say goodbye
Not here at anytime on Collarme

I think I'm gonna be sad, it's happened today
The male submissive I had has just gone away
He's got a reason to hide
He's got a reason to hide
He's got a reason to hide
And he don't care

- apologies to The Beatles

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