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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 8:06:22 AM

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 8:48:49 AM

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I've never bowled because ugly, two-toned, pre-used shoes are a triple hard limit.

Other than that, I'll be over on the slutty mcslutterson's bench.

[Edit cause I can't comma.] [Double edit 'cause I thought of some]

I've never done public anything or munched or meetinged or dungeoned...and I won't be.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 9:07:17 AM

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I've never actually had a threesome.

There has always been at least 4 or more people involved. I'd kinda like to try the traditional three thing. More is nice, of course, but seems like it's an imporant life experience to try just three :)

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 9:59:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

Damn! I'm so old I have nothing to add to this thread....
How sad is that?

It's ok, i am on the "old" list too.

Sits on the bench with Merc and twice...

I can't think of a single thing I've wanted to do and haven't... at least within a few days or weeks of deciding I wanted to do it.

I don't know if I'm too old or if I'm having an early onset of Alzheimers.

edited because apparently I can't spell "or".

~~Grabs a tray of snacks and joins them on the bench~~~

It's getting crowded here...

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 10:11:25 AM

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Looks at the people here on the bench and wonders...Are we here just because we've been around awhile? Or, are we here because we know what we want and go out and do it/ get it/ find it?

Mmm, good snacks!

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 10:17:08 AM

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So maybe the folk on the bench should be asking..."Hmmm...what would I like to do -again-?"

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 10:23:25 AM

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Looks at the people here on the bench and wonders...Are we here just because we've been around awhile? Or, are we here because we know what we want and go out and do it/ get it/ find it?

Mmm, good snacks!

I've always been one to do what I felt like doing at the time... and to this day I don't understand how I didn't end up in jail over some of it!!

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So maybe the folk on the bench should be asking..."Hmmm...what would I like to do -again-?"

Some of... yeah... and some of it... HELL yeah!!!

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 10:25:53 AM

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I'm on the bench because I do what I want to do. I was... very expressive... when I first became sexually active and did not hesitate to try whatever sounded interesting. And judging from my... seasoning... a whole heck of a lot of things sounded interesting!

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 12:06:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

Looks at the people here on the bench and wonders...Are we here just because we've been around awhile? Or, are we here because we know what we want and go out and do it/ get it/ find it?

Mmm, good snacks!

Have you noticed that most of the people on the bench are dominant? If I was to ask to have something done to me, it would just fuck up that submissive, mental headspace for me. I hate being given a choice and this falls right in line with that. It's just a me head thing. That's why I don't ask even though there are things I crave.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 12:46:10 PM

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Never been flogged, never had a leather restraint on. I did try to talk him into padded wrist cuffs because my hands go numb so easily, but he's a rope purist so no luck.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 1:36:31 PM

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This is Darcy.

Hmmm. Common and simple?
Paris Hilton.
And no, I wouldn't want to ask and I am definately not waiting.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 2:23:50 PM

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Never had a threesome and never done anything public - ok, i mean in front of people who are watching on purpose ;)

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 2:39:28 PM

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oh wow Twice make good and sure there is something between you and that roof. i can attest to the 'burns' left from the roof. well i saw the damage, cured the thoughts right then and there.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 5:11:44 PM

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Have you noticed that most of the people on the bench are dominant? If I was to ask to have something done to me, it would just fuck up that submissive, mental headspace for me.

Grins...seee i must've failed subbie school because i always ask for what i want.

Well, hmm...sometimes i don't exactly ask but Scooter always knows because evidently i get a silly look on my face or i giggle when i am having perverted thoughts about him.

And LeakyLee, Scooter says or fucking on the roof has to wait until we have gutters on that particular roof........

But i'm thinking the scratchy bumpy shingles we put down would feel awesome on my back.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 6:57:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Have you noticed that most of the people on the bench are dominant? If I was to ask to have something done to me, it would just fuck up that submissive, mental headspace for me. I hate being given a choice and this falls right in line with that. It's just a me head thing. That's why I don't ask even though there are things I crave.

There is a difference between asking for what you want and demanding it. Letting your D know that you are interested in something doesn't mean that you are making demands or taking the lead in the relationship. It simply means you are letting the D know that there is more that you would like to experience than what you are currently experiencing.

I believe that we are all responsible for making our wants, needs, and desires known to our partners. It is the choice of the D whether or not to fulfill those things, and if so when they will be fulfilled and how. But just as a D whose sub is not fulfilling to them will not keep that submissive around; a submissive whose needs, wants, and desires aren't being fulfilled, won't stay in that relationship for long.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 7:11:33 PM

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I want to thank all of you for giving me a wonderful idea. I want to throw a party where people have to try a new kink or form of play they haven't done before.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 7:15:38 PM

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I want to thank all of you for giving me a wonderful idea. I want to throw a party where people have to try a new kink or form of play they haven't done before.

Will you come up with new stuff for them to try? Will there be a list of stuff to pick from?

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 8:40:56 PM

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*grabs one of the been there done that tee shirts and heads for the bench*

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 8:45:46 PM

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I want to thank all of you for giving me a wonderful idea. I want to throw a party where people have to try a new kink or form of play they haven't done before.

Oh, I am so there! I've never played in public before so just showing up would knock something off my list.

I'll bring cookies!

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/8/2008 8:55:30 PM

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Oh, I wouldn't want to ruin it by making suggestions. And for me, the weirder and more sick the play the better. I get so sick of flogging and singletailing. I want to see someone using sounds, or some damn golden showers in public, or some seriously nasty humiliation play.

What I would love to see is the sort of play people don't do because it doesn't make them look good. If you have ever seen hard core dykes or serious leatherman play, OMFG is it hot. Raping someone with a cross, blood as anal lube, punching, and the most intense "protocol" imaginable.

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