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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/10/2008 3:09:32 AM   
rosanegra


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Status: offline 		Never been hog-tied. I've been tied up, sure.. but this seems like such a common position to be tied in that I've never experienced.

Most of the simple stuff though.. I've done it. even some not so simple ones.. I'm so NOT a kink virgin.


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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/10/2008 8:05:25 AM   
calicowgirl


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Status: offline 		I have never had a tens unit used on me in a BDSM setting. I have also never had sex in a public BDSM setting. I am sure there are others too but maybe not common. I've had wonderful experiences so far.

Cali

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/10/2008 9:39:41 AM   
Mercnbeth


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quote:

Are there things that seem so usual and common in bdsm that you have yet to experience, not because they are limits, but because the opportunity just hasn't happened?

yes, this slave has never:
 
"felt" submissive.
 
desired to dominate/control/have authority over or otherwise "top" anyone, including her own self.
 
searched for a "sister" sub, or been directed to search for a sub-for-play to join us.
 
resented Master or any of His directives.
 
posted to a message board asking "how to ___________" with regards to Master or our relationship.

quote:

Would you ask for them or would you just wait for them to happen?

 
this slave is encouraged to ask for things that strike her fancy, even better---BEG...on all fours...amidst a flood of desperation...shedding a few tears...however, nothing on the above list is anything this slave would ask or beg for, and there has been nothing that this slave begs for that she does consider usual or common, even within the context of BDSM.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/10/2008 8:09:11 PM   
Rumtiger


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Status: offline 		Wow, did people's sense of humor get sucked out of thier asses ever since I left or what?

...now I remember why I miss the old crowd.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/10/2008 8:16:18 PM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		I was thinking of this topic recently for some reason. When I first read it, I couldn't think of anything that really qualified as 'simple' or 'basic', that I wanted to do, that I haven't done.
Then I was - well, the direction of the post is such that you will probably figure out what I was doing when the thought came to me.
Anyway, it suddenly occured to me - in 25 years of being sexually active, of having some number of TIMES more blowjob partners than partners I actually had penetrive sex with -
I have never had a facial. or a 'pearl necklace'. or did the cum on her tits schtick. or the cum in the eye. or whatever. I have enough guys clean when they - uhm - got a bit ahead of themselves to conclude that I prefer it , 'strait from the fountain', but that's about the extent of that.
So many guys have these fantasies, apparently, writing to you about where they are gonna spray you - but they all seem to prefer the same option, when it gets down to that.

Oh, and another one just came to me, one I am always complaining about - I have never gotten to actually WATCH porn. whomever I am watching with always seem to have other ideas about which way i should be facing.
Even Master, when He insisted that I watch some of the 'classics' I told him I had never seen - I didn't actually get to see enough of them to get the gist of the plot. There was a plot, right?

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/11/2008 8:17:52 AM   
apiercedkitty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tsatske

I was thinking of this topic recently for some reason. When I first read it, I couldn't think of anything that really qualified as 'simple' or 'basic', that I wanted to do, that I haven't done.
Then I was - well, the direction of the post is such that you will probably figure out what I was doing when the thought came to me.
Anyway, it suddenly occured to me - in 25 years of being sexually active, of having some number of TIMES more blowjob partners than partners I actually had penetrive sex with -
I have never had a facial. or a 'pearl necklace'. or did the cum on her tits schtick. or the cum in the eye. or whatever. I have enough guys clean when they - uhm - got a bit ahead of themselves to conclude that I prefer it , 'strait from the fountain', but that's about the extent of that.
So many guys have these fantasies, apparently, writing to you about where they are gonna spray you - but they all seem to prefer the same option, when it gets down to that.

Oh, and another one just came to me, one I am always complaining about - I have never gotten to actually WATCH porn. whomever I am watching with always seem to have other ideas about which way i should be facing.
Even Master, when He insisted that I watch some of the 'classics' I told him I had never seen - I didn't actually get to see enough of them to get the gist of the plot. There was a plot, right?


"in the eye" is definitely over-rated as far as i'm concerned - it burns like a mother and leaves said eye(s) blood-shot for hours! lol Now, anywhere else it lands is fine with me :)
 
And yeah, of course they have a plot... *snicker*

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/11/2008 8:44:11 AM   
happypervert


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From: Scranton, PA
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  • never used cuffs
  • haven't done spanking beyond 7 swats as "punishment" when her team scored a TD in a football game . . . heh
  • no wax play
  • no public play or munches
and if I had any interest in that stuff they'd be crossed off the list


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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/11/2008 4:41:29 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		Never had sex on a beach that was anything as good as what you see in movies, sand just doesn't make a good lubricant, unless  your partner is just deeply into abrasion play.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/11/2008 4:58:37 PM   
IvyMorgan


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From: Midlands, UK
Status: offline 		I have never worn rubber, latex, pvc, or leather clothing.

I have never worn a corset, either.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/11/2008 5:07:21 PM   
IvyMorgan


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Oh, I wouldn't want to ruin it by making suggestions.  And for me, the weirder and more sick the play the better.  I get so sick of flogging and singletailing.  I want to see someone using sounds, or some damn golden showers in public, or some seriously nasty humiliation play.

What I would love to see is the sort of play people don't do because it doesn't make them look good.  If you have ever seen hard core dykes or serious leatherman play, OMFG is it hot.  Raping someone with a cross, blood as anal lube, punching, and the most intense "protocol" imaginable. 
*wistful eyes*  Would that I had the guts...

Can I suggest you get some paddling pools for your party?  They make handy play spaces for things you don't often see done.

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/11/2008 5:31:45 PM   
azropedntied


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Joined: 7/25/2005
From: Phx AZ
Status: offline 		the only stuff i have not done, happen to be on my  eww factor list and they wont get  checked off nor put on my bucket list .
Guess i shall have a seat on the group W bench " older people will get that reference"

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/12/2008 4:37:15 AM   
rubberpet


Posts: 1743
Joined: 4/6/2006
From: The Land of Voodoo
Status: offline 		I've never had the stereotypical interests like spanking, CBT, foot worship, or being a sissy maid.  While they are quite common throughout the lifestyle, Mistress and I find them to be quite boring.  We have more eclectic tastes that most scene people don't have like the rubber fetish and fetish dressing, gas masks, breath play, facesitting, vacbeds, and heavy rubber bondage and encasement.  Mistress can, however, give one hell of a flogging, so I guess that qualifies as a common practice.
 
What can we say?  We like being different!

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/13/2008 5:26:01 PM   
pixidustpet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: suhlut

lol needles

i am still married..and my husband is ..well.. rather small

and..thinking back.. all my partners before him..were small also..

i think its just the type of guy i have found attractive.. sweet lil baby faced boy/men.. only prob.. they dont have much inside their boxers..

and soooo... for once... ooh just onceeeee.. i wanna see how it feels.. to be FILLED with big lovely beautiful huge cock.. fat AND long


suhlut....

long lean guys.  wiry muscled lil fuckers (or tall ones) have the bigger equipment from my meager experience and talking with other women about it.

its a toss-up though.  fat is omg wonderful UNLESS you're built tight, then ow.  and you can only take so much cervix pounding.  but every once in a while its nice...

kitten, whose Engineer is built JUST right.....

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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/13/2008 5:31:39 PM   
yourMissTress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pixidustpet


its a toss-up though.  fat is omg wonderful UNLESS you're built tight, then ow.  and you can only take so much cervix pounding.  but every once in a while its nice...



Hmmm, having only recently experienced the "cervix pounding" I have to say YAY for the one who can reach it, and since I'm the one directing it, MORE. 


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RE: Simple Things I've Never Done... - 10/13/2008 9:51:50 PM   
Noah


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rumtiger

Wow, did people's sense of humor get sucked out of thier asses ever since I left or what?

...now I remember why I miss the old crowd.


Well I thought it was funny, RumT.  And actually kind of hot, too.

But then my favorite t-shirt says: "Unlike yours, my kink is not OK."


I don't have anything on-topic to add but I'd like to thank Marie and thank Merc for a couple of paragraphs which made it worthwhile to stop by this forum tonight.



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