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RCdc -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 11:35:25 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MasterChip2008
I am growing deeply concerned about the sub's and slave's that do not ever reply/respond to message's sent to them by Masters/Mistreess's, not even a polite 'Thanks, but no thanks' would be nice. However, increasingly, I find that its virtually impossible to receive a response from sub's and slave's when they are contacted thru here. A sub/slave's 'duty' is first and foremost 'to serve', this includes, but is definitely not limited to, responding when a Master/Mistress say's something to them...even if the response is in the 'negative'. And yet...there are so very many who just never reply/respond or react in any way whatsoever.
And dominants serve also. Does this mean they should automatically respond to every mail also? One has the choice to serve, it is not an automatic consequence regardless of orientation. Once you understand the concept of choice, that will be easier to understand.
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Another matter, on a different subject is...there has been a huge outbreak of 'supposed' subs/slaves sending message's to Masters and Mistresses from out of the USA, from Ghana for example. They claim they want a 'owner', but then go on to 'demand' extreme funds for plane tickets, visa's, and passports, making claims that all can be had within 72 hours time, IF they have the money. I have, personally, checked this out....the shortest time anyone can get a passport/visa from Ghana, or most anywhere else is actually 6 months or more, and even then, some governments require that the person requesting thses documents have a large bank account balance and real property in they're country, there-by assureing thery're return. I have not found any country willing to grant visa's and passports within 72 hours, and normally there is a long and detailed process by which said items are gotten anyway
My advise to all Masters and Mistresses, if you get a message from someone outside of your own country, simply do not reply, its most likely a 'con-game' to simply get your money. And for those who receive message's from those in your country, be sure that if you assist with transportation for these subs/slave's, you pre-pay for the ticket, so you can get a refund if the ticket is not used and it cannot be cashed in by anyone else...
A pretty cool warning. There are warnings and postings all over this site and yet I am surprised how many people still fall these scams. Another warning/reminder cannot hurt, so kudos for that.
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On a final note, I hope everyone here, Masters,Mistresses, slaves and subs have a wonderful day and night!!
We (Darcy and I) will - and have a great one yourself. Pretty much ignore the baptism by fire (usual generic postings to pick on the new posters) and take the constructive comments by the few. Don't feel singled out, it happens to (almost) all new posters so it's no biggie. Just feel the 'warmth' of the welcome to the forums.[;)]
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