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WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 9:46:07 AM)
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Please take a moment and ask yourself this, how many emails can you humanly respond to in a day? 10, 20, 30, 100 or even 200+
Some sub/slaves recieve literally 100+ and upwards to 400+ emails within a 24/48 hour period. It all depends upon the profile, picture, how attractive they appear and the content of their profile.
Most people have jobs and other aspects to living. Many sub/slaves literally would have to become slaves to their inbox to respond to everybody that write to them.
They will skim read through a few profiles and respond to a few. If a sub/slave account/profile is fairly new, they are being swamped with email messages. They are simply Fresh meat.
Look for those profiles/accounts that have been around for awhile to respond to. There is a bit of feeding frenzy that occurs with a new sub/slave profile. Literally some of them get 400+ plus email in their inbox within 24 hours, and they spend the next two weeks or longer going through it. In fact some will find prospective DOMs in the screening of 100 emails and simply bulk delete the rest.
There's only so much time one can humanly dedicate to responding.
You might want to attempt responding to an profile say Three times at most. Be civil and polite about it, without giving them a hard time about why they have not responded to you. You are expressing and interest and being patient and polite. Space these three emails say a week a part from one another.
If after three attempts at responding to their profile you don't get their attention chances are they are not. Here's another tip for you, be certain to full their full profile periodically, you will show up on the list of people recently viewing their profile. Also, after you write to somebody add them to your favorites, you will show up on their admirer list.
Basically, if you write them, are checking them out frequently and have added them as somebody you are interested in, this increases your odds as well.
Also, make certain your own profile is has pictures and you express what you are looking for as well.
Using the Message board and being active in the online communitity here increases your odds of getting noticed as well. However, keep this in mind. If you express a lot of negativitity in your posts to the message boards, it will work against you just as well.
You need to put yourself in the shoes and see things from the sub/slave perspectives here. First and foremost, they are complete strangers, they have not submitted to you, also.. they are not trying to be submissive to everybody and anybody on here.
Many Doms or people that write to them actually don't deserve a response from anybody. These people tend to wear on the sub/slaves nerves. There is a high volume of clueless asses that respond to sub/slave profiles.
I'm just expressing the reality of things, and some of the issues. Your expectations of behavior are really not all that realistic and that's what I'm trying to express to you in a polite like manner here.
Good luck with your search, and try to kick back and don't try to place to much emphasis on D/s behavior or patterns to occur from complete strangers.
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