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ShaktiSama -> RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes (10/17/2008 9:46:41 PM)
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
The majority (no, I know not all) of the lifestyle Dommes on CMe (and virtually all the proDommes) seem to have themselves pictured in "regalia", complete with suitably hard and fierce facial expression. Now there's no doubt about it, this certainly does have the effect on me, at least, of thinking "phwoargh" (insert your preferred approving noise). It probably has the same effect on most subs.
Yet, Dommes are forever complaining that their inboxes are flooded with one-line comments from subs who'd like to do x or y, or have x or y done to them.
To reverse this logic: Collarme is also replete with many profiles for male submissives who post lovely profile pictures of themselves looking very subby and hot and nekkid. Often these profiles are accompanied by well-written and clearly stated descriptions of what they seek in a partner, what leisure activities they enjoy OTHER than being beaten raped and humiliated, etc..
Given that men whose photos are attractive never lack much for female attention, especially if they also post to the forums etc., exactly which "Domme Responses" do you think get a genuine interested reply from them?
The ungrammatical badly spelled bombastic demands for service, money and cock which come from some mouth-breather called "DominaSplitUrAnus"?
Or perhaps the quiet hello from a sane human being who tells him he has a nice photo and that something he WROTE in his profile was interesting?
When men are desirable enough to be selective, mate--they're plenty selective. The only blokes who whinge on about how wunnerful it would be to be treated like meat all the time are those who aren't attractive enough to find out what pigs women can really be.
As for your rant about how harmless and unthreatening women are versus men...I can only shrug. Violence toward women is culturally encouraged around the world--not biologically mandated by small differences in stature. If most women were trained to use their bodies properly they could easily compensate for the slight sexual dimorphism of the species and turn into quite deadly warriors. Real combat effectiveness originates from a body that is well trained, not a body of some specific size and shape.
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