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Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 9:43:45 PM   
steelman1


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Status: offline 		Hi everyone, this question is mainly directed to the ladies, but men feel free to jump in if you got a good point.

I was surfing this site and thought to myself, WOW THERE ARE A LOT OF HORNY KINKY WOMEN OUT THERE! In society, most women seem to be discusted with the mention of cum, or pernis, or cunciligus. So my question is, do women on this site pretend to be discusted in public about sex, when they really want. And second, how can you find out a woman is kinky in public. Lastly, who are more perverted men or women behind closed doors. My bet is women are more perverted.

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 9:49:47 PM   
yourMissTress


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Status: offline 		I am myself everywhere.  However, everything has a time and place.  Some things are appropriately discussed in private, or with people whom I won't be offending.  I don't pretend to be disgusted by anything that doesn't disgust me.  So, I don't know why some people (and men do just the same thing) pretend to be something they are not.

Who is kinkier?  I don't think an entire sex can claim to be more or less than the other in this area. 

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 9:49:49 PM   
moonvine


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 9:52:15 PM   
VivaciousSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: steelman1

Hi everyone, this question is mainly directed to the ladies, but men feel free to jump in if you got a good point.

I was surfing this site and thought to myself, WOW THERE ARE A LOT OF HORNY KINKY WOMEN OUT THERE! In society, most women seem to be discusted with the mention of cum, or pernis, or cunciligus. So my question is, do women on this site pretend to be discusted in public about sex, when they really want. And second, how can you find out a woman is kinky in public. Lastly, who are more perverted men or women behind closed doors. My bet is women are more perverted.




I don't pretend to be disgusted by sex at all. It's something I enjoy very much. That said, I do not discuss the particulars of my sex life or sexual preferences in public because to me, that's private and only to be shared between Sir and me. There's a time and place for everything, and I don't want to hear others' sexual details as much as they don't want to hear mine.

As to your second question, I wouldn't know how to find out because it's not my style to delve into others' sexual preferences.

Third....I don't pretend to know the answer to this. I'm no different behind closed doors and Sir knows this. I'm just as kinky in front of closed doors, I just choose not to show it because I feel it's inappropriate.


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 10:06:58 PM   
UmbraDomina


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Status: offline 		Just becouse females often do not discuss their sex life does not mean they don't have one, or enjoy one greatly. It simply means their parents managed to teach them manners.
I am a sexual being, as my beloved hubbypet says often, I am the most sexual person he has ever met......but.....I also have a carear, a family, friends, and social obligations, with this being said females who openly talk about sex are often blackballed within professional carears, or "polite society". My co-workers, friends, or family do not need (or want) to know about my sex life, or my sexual urges.

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 10:09:00 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		mirror mirror on the wall who is the kinkiest of them all

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 10:14:40 PM   
ali64


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Status: offline 		i would say that women on this site are more pro-sex and less disgusted.  i personally would like to think that no one is disgusted with sex otherwise humans would have died off long ago. Maybe you are thinking you cannot be open in discussing sexual matters with women in public without them getting upset? That would be society telling us that sex is bad.

i don't know how one could tell if a person is kinky or not. Its not something openly discussed around the watercooler at work but i could have missed that memo. Or did you mean how do you tell if a woman likes being kinky in public, as in exhibitionism? my advice is just talking to the person and get to know them first as a friend.

Does it really matter who is more kinkier? For me, it would be a good match if we were both equally kinky. Not much fun is only one is kinky.





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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 10:17:27 PM   
RainydayNE


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Status: offline 		some stuff just doesn't need to be talked about in the local grocery store or library or any other public place. atleast that's the way i see it. i don't need to broadcast my leanings to the entire world, especially when they're only applicable to my relationship with ONE MAN and not everyone on the street =p  


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 10:18:36 PM   
DavanKael


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 10:36:25 PM   
MSPERFECTION2U


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Status: offline 		I'm not sure where you hang out but Florida is full of women who are pretty open in public. Might want to consider relocation and the crowds you mingle with

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 10:38:29 PM   
MSPERFECTION2U


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quote:

mirror mirror on the wall who is the kinkiest of them all
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mirror mirror on the wall who is the kinkiest of them all


That would be me, I'm the most openly perverse on the website.

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 10:45:31 PM   
lemmebeYourMine


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Status: offline 		who says women are only perverted behind closed doors? Cuz We don't talk about our sex interests in large groups? Everyone has leaned towards, that's a private area and it is for those who play with me; or those who are my close and dear friends, and My master; not for say, My co-workers, or the general public.

How do you know a woman is kinky? YOU could ask her what her favorite sexual activities are (WHEN you both reach that level of intimacy that makes that not seem awkward)

Or you could watch their S.O. Slip his hand down her pants and rub her ass right there in public although he may have thought they were alone... and *drools* THen you know she is some kind of kinky slut. Of course having an S.O. could defeat the purpose of knowing. Happened at Wal-mart here with a co-worker.

Lemmebe.

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 10:46:26 PM   
VampiresLair


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 10:56:11 PM   
pinnipedster


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Status: offline 		I suspect many women are careful about who they tell for the obvious reason -- a lot of what we do is still thought of as pretty peculiar by most of society.  Then, too, many people probably assume kinky=slutty, and being too open about it would probably attract a lot of unwanted attention.

And after all, how open are most men about their kinky sides?

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 11:07:20 PM   
Usako


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Status: offline 		Sexual things have a time and a place. No, I do NOT want to hear about cum while in class or on a bus going somewhere. No, I do NOT want to hear some creepy guy talk about his dick or his gf's boobs. Yes I will be 100% disgusted.

Why? First, it has a lot to do with who is talking about it. With friends/lovers/etc I don't mind. If it's some random stranger, no thanks. I also don't want to talk about sex just anywhere, it just doesn't seem classy.

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/22/2008 11:58:32 PM   
DreamsOfSpider


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Status: offline 		Err, just how often do you use the words cum, penis, cunnilingus, etc. when talking with women in public? And are these close female friends, or random women on the bus?

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/23/2008 12:59:34 AM   
ChainGoddess


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/23/2008 1:54:31 AM   
seeksfemslave


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lemmbeYourMine
Or you could watch their S.O. Slip his hand down her pants and rub her ass right there in public although he may have thought they were alone... and *drools* THen you know she is some kind of kinky slut. Of course having an S.O. could defeat the purpose of knowing. Happened at Wal-mart here with a co-worker.


What can be more kinky than admitting you work at Wal-Mart ?

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/23/2008 3:11:17 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Personally, I enjoy sex and it does not bother me in the slightest to talk about it. However when I'm out shopping I generally do not cruise up to some Grandma and tell them the best way to use a strapon. Although that may turn some on, it does nothing for me.


Who is more perverted? Like most things it has NOTHING to do with gender, it everything to do with the individual. For me, yes I am a pervert.

~Lashra


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/23/2008 5:10:04 AM   
housemouse61


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Status: offline 		Disgusted?  No.  Discreet?  Absolutely.  The general public does not need or want to know my sexual proclivities and i don't think i want just any Joe Blow being privy to that information.  i'm a private person and i consider that private stuff.

As to women being kinky in public...you'd probably be surprised.  It's all about discretion and not wanting to get arrested for public lewdness.  The best way to get to know of such a woman is to meet one and get to know her as a person first and then go from there.

Perverted?  Well, let's just say that this little mouse is as pure as the driven ~~on~~ snow. 

Peace favor and blessed be,

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