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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/6/2008 10:02:39 PM

Lordandmaster

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I'd love to watch.

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The more I get old, the more I think of women - I don't know how many nights for the past couple of months I've woken up from a dream where a woman was doing things to me. And I can't do much about it. Argh .

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/7/2008 3:23:17 AM

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I am absolutely comfortable with men, women, transmen, transwomen, intersexed. The only sense of "uncomfort" is just the basic learning to KNOW someone, or how they want their body to be treated (some pre-op transwomen,, for example, are not comfortable with their penises being used sexually, some are).

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/7/2008 3:51:17 AM

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Damn,I am gone for a short period of time, and it is jump on JD nite! Ouch!

Gotta love the Dutch! :) Boss is Dutch......:)

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no problem at all. Happens

lol.... Aslong as I am not to blame...I am fine with it :P

jump jump...

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/8/2008 7:21:30 AM

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For those of us within this lifestyle that are bi.... are you truly comfortable with someone the same sex as your self?

I am just as comfortable with another woman as I am a man.

Would you have a relationship with someone the same sex? or is it something you would do to please your Dominant?

I was bi long before I was a slave, so I had girlfriends before I had a dominant. A relationship to me has nothing to do with someones gender but as the person themselves.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/8/2008 12:02:48 PM

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For those of us within this lifestyle that are bi.... are you truly comfortable with someone the same sex as your self? Would you have a relationship with someone the same sex? or is it something you would do to please your Dominant?

For those that have in a profile 'bi curious' Is it mainly because Master/Dominant wants a 3rd party and your willing to go along with that or is it that you genuinly crave to have sex with someone the same sex as yourself?

It appears that this is targeting sub/slaves. I would hope and any female slave of mine would enjoy sex with another girl or at least give it a reasonable trial If she really was prepared to continue just to please me, I hope she would have the courage to give me honest feed back so I could re-evaluate. As always, there are degrees in such things as well as shades of light and dark Any sensible man knows that just because some is bisexual dowsn't mean that they want to or will enjoy sex with everyone of their own gender.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/8/2008 1:01:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

For those of us within this lifestyle that are bi.... are you truly comfortable with someone the same sex as your self? Would you have a relationship with someone the same sex? or is it something you would do to please your Dominant?

For those that have in a profile 'bi curious' Is it mainly because Master/Dominant wants a 3rd party and your willing to go along with that or is it that you genuinly crave to have sex with someone the same sex as yourself?

It appears that this is targeting sub/slaves. I would hope and any female slave of mine would enjoy sex with another girl or at least give it a reasonable trial If she really was prepared to continue just to please me, I hope she would have the courage to give me honest feed back so I could re-evaluate. As always, there are degrees in such things as well as shades of light and dark Any sensible man knows that just because some is bisexual dowsn't mean that they want to or will enjoy sex with everyone of their own gender.

Absolutely and I am glad you touched on the point of not enjoying sex with everyone of their own gender!

It amazes me how many (especially) bi curious females try to snog you in a club when they know your bi! I have had to say to women 'Look Im really fussy about who goes down on me so back off'. I once had a guy at a private party approach me and ask if I would do his wife. At first I declined politely but he went on and on so eventually I told him that she just didn't do it for me. He then proceeded to tie her up, put a hood over her head and turn to me and say 'is this ok? you can't see her face now!!.

I am as fussy about my women or women I want to befriend, play and have sex with as I am about my men. Some women seem to think that bi = promiscuous.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/8/2008 3:21:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

For those of us within this lifestyle that are bi.... are you truly comfortable with someone the same sex as your self? Would you have a relationship with someone the same sex? or is it something you would do to please your Dominant?

For those that have in a profile 'bi curious' Is it mainly because Master/Dominant wants a 3rd party and your willing to go along with that or is it that you genuinly crave to have sex with someone the same sex as yourself?

It appears that this is targeting sub/slaves. I would hope and any female slave of mine would enjoy sex with another girl or at least give it a reasonable trial If she really was prepared to continue just to please me, I hope she would have the courage to give me honest feed back so I could re-evaluate. As always, there are degrees in such things as well as shades of light and dark Any sensible man knows that just because some is bisexual dowsn't mean that they want to or will enjoy sex with everyone of their own gender.

Absolutely and I am glad you touched on the point of not enjoying sex with everyone of their own gender!

It amazes me how many (especially) bi curious females try to snog you in a club when they know your bi! I have had to say to women 'Look Im really fussy about who goes down on me so back off'. I once had a guy at a private party approach me and ask if I would do his wife. At first I declined politely but he went on and on so eventually I told him that she just didn't do it for me. He then proceeded to tie her up, put a hood over her head and turn to me and say 'is this ok? you can't see her face now!!.

I am as fussy about my women or women I want to befriend, play and have sex with as I am about my men. Some women seem to think that bi = promiscuous.

Some people think that bisexuality = promiscuity, or not caring for people, just wanting sex whereever you find it. A sad viewpoint, but people have it. I can't count the times people have told me I was just "greedy", or that I needed to "pick a side".

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the narrowest path is always the holiest.
so walk on barefoot for me,
suffer some misery,
if you want my love.'
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