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LadyConstanze -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/8/2008 11:31:18 AM)
@ PeonForHer Do you think that would stop some of the rather odd mails I got today? Stuff like "U look like horny slave", oddly enough from guys who look like lifting curly fries is serious exercise. Actually one of my pet peeves is spelling, I'm not the world's best speller and English is my 3rd language but if I can try to make sense and construct a semi correct sentence, is it really too much to ask to not write in ebonics? @ElectraGlide One of the reasons why I moved to the UK was a hardcore stalker, a complete nutjob who outed me to my very catholic and ultra conservative parents (shortly after my father suffered from a severe heart attack, as you can imagine family relations were rather strained), caused trouble with work and whatnot, that was just the culmination of it all, it went on for roughly 5 years until I actually found out what was going on, who did it and decided to confront him, which made matters worse and had him contacting my parents. I'm not paranoid and think every person out there is a stalker but it only takes one nutjob and your life can become very unpleasant.

ladyserenablue -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/8/2008 11:38:28 AM)
I still have a major issue with people who won't share a photo when asked. I understand not having one posted on a profile. I have privacy issues and security issues too. However, refusing to send one via CMail, email or via file exchange, yet pushing for chat claiming that the former are "hackable" and (usually yahoo) chat is safer is ridiculous. So my new request is for them to send me a photo of their elbow or ankle. If they can't or won't do that, then they're just playing games.

PeonForHer -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/8/2008 6:49:51 PM)
Well, I had to google "ebonics" there, Lady C . . . I don't think anything you could do would stop nutjobs mailing you. There just are nut jobs everywhere. I noticed that in every 'alternative scene', of whatever kind, you'll get some great people but you'll also, eventually and inevitably, attract the loons. As for spelling and grammar, well . . . . yes. It does make a huge difference to one's overall impression. It does to mine, anyway. Some might think I should relax my standards considering that there are 48 triillion dommes to one sub (or whatever the hell the latest figure is) but I can't. I'd rather go back to vanillasville and/or my tried and trusted fantasies. In saying that, though: I've seen over a thousand essays written by postgraduate students in the last five years. Some of them were written in worse English than I've seen berated here. Yet they were mostly and without doubt good students. I try not to be quite so particular these days.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/8/2008 7:07:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer It might be interesting, Lady C, if you and the others did try really frumpy pictures. Just as an experiment, for maybe a week. Yourselves sitting in front of cosy fireplaces, hair dyed silver-grey in tight buns, in little half-cut glasses and woolly cardigans, knitting . . . just to see what the reaction is. On the other hand, your respective initial emails might turn out to be even weirder than before, come to think of it . . . Way Back When Before Teh Internets, some guy wrote me with his flawlessly scripted scenario...which involved Little Me dressed in a chenille robe, flat house shoes, hair in curlers, and cold cream on my face! (and no, that is NOT what I objected to! anything for a giggle, right?)

PeonForHer -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/8/2008 7:30:05 PM)
Careful, Lady H, careful. Slight shades of Norman Bates and his mother there . . . . [;)]

shymetalsub -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/8/2008 9:32:25 PM)
It's a bad omen, she's probably got skeletons in her closet. I've talked to a few overly secretive girls. A couple were obese, a couple just disappeared on me, and of the few who were not aesthetically challenged, there tended to be some psycho mental issues. If you've got time to waste on her than go ahead, but don't let yourself get emotionally invested in what might be a dead end.

azjojoba -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/8/2008 9:32:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel quote: ORIGINAL: azjojoba quote: ORIGINAL: wcj006400 Hello anyone reading. I have a bit of a problem. i jus started talking to a female i met on here and she is switch i guess but very dom towards me. i have enjoyed the conversation, nothing real serious at all, but she insists she has been burned to many times and will not show a photo or talk on phone or anything. i would understand if all she wanted was online chat but she sys she wants more. this is uncharted waters fo me... but it kind of sets off a buzzer when someone is so closed. any thoughts? Most of the women on this website are either fakes or pros. Those under the age of 30 are all pros or guys that get their rocks off when they get your emails. The ones over 30 are usually men, fantasizers, or if they are a woman that wants a slave 24/7, and of course who is not married. Predictably they demand their men to have a perfect body including at least a 9" cock that can stay hard for at least 12 hours. That proves that women are as stupid as men. ha!ha! In other words, most women here are as stupid as the men who think they are going to get a super sexy 22 year old that will satisfy all their kinks. In all the time I have been here I have met two good femdoms. It's a question of your own judgement whether the time spent is worth the benefit. For most of us guys, dominant women are just a fantasy or our very large imaginations. That sentiment runs rampant on both sides of the kneel. I think the issue is there are sooooo many out there and the range of what they want or expect is so vast that the chances of finding that few that want what you want and feel like you feel is pretty damn slim. *Jewel* That was my attempt at being "pc"... Good point! The internet brings out phonies and frauds from both sexes. I advise men to filter out all women under the age of 40, since they are all scams -- even on this website.

manxcat -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/8/2008 10:23:59 PM)
SJ, allow me. ;;-)) Most of the women on this website are either fakes or pros. I sincerely doubt you have been in real conversation with most of the women here. Those under the age of 30 are all pros or guys that get their rocks off when they get your emails. The ones over 30 are usually men, fantasizers, or if they are a woman that wants a slave 24/7, and of course who is not married. Predictably they demand their men to have a perfect body including at least a 9" cock that can stay hard for at least 12 hours. That proves that women are as stupid as men. ha!ha! I am not a man and yes i want a man who is not married. I want a real relationship. And no i do not need a 24/7 slave, i am perfectly capable of doing things for myself, including sheetrock, plumbing, and minor electrical work. I DO NOT want a 9 inch cock as i am short inside as well as outside, and it hurts. 12 hours - get real, i am not all that into fucking to begin with, see the bit about the 9 inches. I would rather spend 4 hours of mutual foreplay, and about 10 minutes fucking. Even adding in cbt and other assorted games, 12 hours is more like work - who needs it. Perfect body, now that would be nice, but mine isn't either. Neither is yours, btw. In other words, most women here are as stupid as the men who think they are going to get a super sexy 22 year old that will satisfy all their kinks. I do not want a 20something. I need someone i can have a conversation with, that includes remembering at least 15 years of history through personal experience. I even have a hard time with under 40yr olds. Some don't have kids, and still may want them. I want someone who will be there for the long run. In all the time I have been here I have met two good femdoms. It's a question of your own judgement whether the time spent is worth the benefit. For most of us guys, dominant women are just a fantasy or our very large imaginations. You are looking for a discreet, side thing, outside of your marriage. This means women looking for full time relationship will not be interested in you. Is that why you are so pissed off? Why not just turn your wife? I am sure with your attitude, she would be delighted to take a whip or paddle to you. Just sayin'. manxcat ______________ Artists make lousy slaves. -Jody Jenson

azjojoba -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/8/2008 11:28:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: manxcat In all the time I have been here I have met two good femdoms. It's a question of your own judgement whether the time spent is worth the benefit. For most of us guys, dominant women are just a fantasy or our very large imaginations. You are looking for a discreet, side thing, outside of your marriage. This means women looking for full time relationship will not be interested in you. Is that why you are so pissed off? Why not just turn your wife? I am sure with your attitude, she would be delighted to take a whip or paddle to you. Just sayin'. Yes, you are right that women here are looking for full time relationships and won't be interested in guys like me. I don't have a problem with that, although I am disappointed that most women on this website are so traditional. Oh well, that's just the way it is! I'm not angry at women. I have often thought my wife would enjoy spanking me, and I even asked her to, but so far she just isn't into it. She spanked me a couple of times but since then hasn't seemed to want to do it. Maybe that's a good thing because she is angry at me so often my ass would be sore all the time. If you knew my wife you would be surprised because she is a true female tyrant.

FullfigRIMaam -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/8/2008 11:28:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I am curious to know if I am different. I know that there are many on here that are much more fetish oriented than I am. Don't get me wrong, I think alot of it is cool (leather, rubber, costumes, etc....) It just doesn't turn me on. Agreed... It's beautiful, and I'd love to put on a few pieces of leather once or twice a year, but definitely cannot have that picture up anymore because than it is all they see, and imagine that to be what I wear every week, and don't want to disapoint anyone that way. Even having no leather in my photos though, I've gotten one or two emails telling me how beautiful I look in leather in my photos, lol. quote: Do you purposely down play the fetish aspect in the initial communication to see what their primary goals are? So I wonder, if to offset that and determine if they have an understanding that it is only a facet of the whole, you almost avoid discussing it at all, in the beginning? Yes. As my kink is about having a relationship with a submissive man, no other part of my kink/list should matter if we are unable to have a relationship. I don't do casual, because it is simply not something I can enjoy without a serious disapointing downside... For the aforementioned reason, I'm not interested in meeting the myriad of available players who for one reason or another, we cannot do anymore than have an interlude. M

UmbraDomina -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/8/2008 11:34:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azjojoba quote: ORIGINAL: manxcat In all the time I have been here I have met two good femdoms. It's a question of your own judgement whether the time spent is worth the benefit. For most of us guys, dominant women are just a fantasy or our very large imaginations. You are looking for a discreet, side thing, outside of your marriage. This means women looking for full time relationship will not be interested in you. Is that why you are so pissed off? Why not just turn your wife? I am sure with your attitude, she would be delighted to take a whip or paddle to you. Just sayin'. Yes, you are right that women here are looking for full time relationships and won't be interested in guys like me. I don't have a problem with that, although I am disappointed that most women on this website are so traditional. Oh well, that's just the way it is! I'm not angry at women. I have often thought my wife would enjoy spanking me, and I even asked her to, but so far she just isn't into it. She spanked me a couple of times but since then hasn't seemed to want to do it. Maybe that's a good thing because she is angry at me so often my ass would be sore all the time. If you knew my wife you would be surprised because she is a true female tyrant. Just tell her your online all the time, trying to cheat on her..... this will in general create a desire for her to beat the holy hell out of you.

azjojoba -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/9/2008 12:42:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina Just tell her your online all the time, trying to cheat on her..... this will in general create a desire for her to beat the holy hell out of you. Love your legs honey. I wish I was bent over them for a good spanking. You are definitely a goddess, so I cherish what you say, but what if my wife decides to divorce me instead of spanking me?

FullfigRIMaam -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/9/2008 12:48:06 AM)
I'm sure you're a winner! Being married and condescending is what every domina seeks I'm sure. [sm=crop.gif] M

azjojoba -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/9/2008 12:52:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina Just tell her your online all the time, trying to cheat on her..... this will in general create a desire for her to beat the holy hell out of you. Do ya really think that will work? What if she chooses to divorce me? Love your legs, honey. I can picture you bending over them!

sirsholly -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/9/2008 1:04:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azjojoba Most of the women on this website are either fakes or pros Those under the age of 30 are all pros or guys that get their rocks off when they get your emails The ones over 30 are usually men In other words, most women here are as stupid as the men who think they are going to get a super sexy 22 year old that will satisfy all their kinks. Hey Charmer....you caught me. I am a fake male pro. A STUPID fake male pro. Now...kindly send me an e-mail...it is time to get my rocks off. [8\|][8\|][8\|][8\|][8\|]

azjojoba -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/9/2008 2:14:33 AM)
quote: Hey Charmer....you caught me. I am a fake male pro. A STUPID fake male pro. I believe you. Especially the part where you said you were stupid and a fake male!

LaTigresse -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/9/2008 4:31:03 AM)
And once again I am reminded of Steph's sig line about Slinkies.........

sirsholly -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/9/2008 4:35:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse And once again I am reminded of Steph's sig line about Slinkies......... Pass the paper towels!!![:)]

thishereboi -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/9/2008 5:11:52 AM)
If I find someone online that I want to have a relationship with...I arrange to meet them. If they don't want to meet, I move on. I don't do online chats or relationships. I would think, if she had been burned that many times, she would be anxious to make sure you are who you say you are. The fastest way for me to do that, would be to meet you somewhere.

thishereboi -> RE: Question about talking to People from Collarme (11/9/2008 5:19:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azjojoba quote: ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina Just tell her your online all the time, trying to cheat on her..... this will in general create a desire for her to beat the holy hell out of you. Love your legs honey. I wish I was bent over them for a good spanking. You are definitely a goddess, so I cherish what you say, but what if my wife decides to divorce me instead of spanking me? Well, you said she was a true female tyrant and you wouldn't be here if you were happy with that, so why are you against a divorce? Go find a women who can make you happy and quit whining.

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